Hi
I returned to work in September after a year's maternity leave. My boss is French and a bit of an old fashioned male chauvinist who made things quite difficult for me during my pregnancy and has picked up where he left off now I am back at work. My feeling is that he would really like to push me to resign as he doesn't want someone with other commitments outside of working hours. But that's just my feeling.
I returned to the same role (sort of) after maternity leave. However one thing that that seems to have changed is that I am now required to be present in our European offices in France for at least one day every single week. Before my ML this was a very loose and flexible arrangement and I was only required to be present in the office if I had a meeting to attend or a specific need to be there that justified the expense of my travel.
But now I have to go every week regardless of whether I need to be there or not. The office is always deserted so I often drag myself over there leaving at 4am and not getting home until 8pm or later (with all the childcare headaches that presents) and alI I do is spend the day in my office working on my computer without seeing or speaking to anyone else - seems absolutely crazy to insist I travel there for this purpose. I could do this in the UK without the travel expense or inconvenience. Of course if there is a real need for me to be there, I have no problem with that at all.
So my question is...I understood I was entitled to return to work on the same terms and conditions as before my maternity leave. Does this rigid change to require me to be in another location every week (rather than once every 2 or 3 weeks as before my ML) constitute a change to my T&C. Or is this within the boundaries of normal variation to T&C I can't really raise with my company.
Would be grateful to hear what you think.
I should add that I have been totally bend over backwards accommodating at work so far because my boss won't hesitate to use the "woman wants special treatment" card and that's not what I want at all - I just want him to be reasonable. It's a drag travelling like this every week, even if you don't have small children.