My apologies, first of all - this is very long!
I have been named by one of my staff in a grievance. Essentially, this is in response to ongoing performance issues that I have been addressing with her. The performance issues are extremely serious in nature, and have a very negative impact on our service and on the rest of the team - she is a team leader, and the staff who she manages are constantly complaining to me about her.
I am entirely confident that I haven't done anything wrong, and I know that I have dealt with the performance issues as sensitively and supportively as I could have done, but obviously, my feedback has sometimes been difficult for her to hear. I think her response has been exacerbated by undisclosed mental health problems which have been mentioned "off the record" by her union representative. Thankfully, I have the full support of HR and my manager, who have been consulted at each and every step of the way.
I believe that it is the employee's intention to use this grievance to delay the start of formal capability procedures, which she knows that I wish to pursue, and she has gone out of her way to string out the process for as long as humanly possible - postponing meetings, failing to provide evidence when required, asking for someone different to hear the grievance etc. This has been going on for over four months now.
I know, and can prove beyond all doubt, that the allegations are untrue, and so I am not worried about the outcome of the grievance itself, as I know that it couldn't possibly be upheld - fortunately, I have been very careful about recording everything in writing, as I had an idea that things might end up getting messy. Essentially, I just have to wait for them to reach a decision. This won't happen until next week, as a further colleague has also been named in the grievance and is yet to be interviewed.
I am also absolutely sure in my own mind that the grievance is malicious in nature, and I believe that I can prove this - the employee has made a number of statements against me that I can prove she knew to be untrue. I also have reliable witnesses who have informed me that she has attempted to pin blame to me and to a colleague for mistakes that she herself has made.
The last few months have been immensely stressful, and I have found recent weeks particularly difficult - I have had no choice but to continue managing this person, knowing that she has made false allegations against me, and knowing that I haven't yet had a proper right to reply. The other colleague named in the grievance has now gone off on stress-related sick leave. The grievance procedures for my workplace are very heavily tilted in favour of the complainant, and my rights in all of this seem to be almost non-existent. I have written to the Director of HR about this, and he agrees that the procedures need to be revised. This is currently in process, but obviously it's too late for my particular case.
I am normally a pretty calm and stable person, but I feel hugely angry with my employer for the position that they have put me in, and furious with the employee for making claims which are patently false. My sleep has been severely disturbed, I'm getting loads of headaches, and I find myself bursting into tears all over the place - I just feel that the whole thing is so unjust, and I'm getting thoroughly depressed by it.
Anyway, after all that, what I really want to know is, if the employee's grievance is found to be malicious, as I expect, what happens next? I am presuming that a malicious grievance will not be viewed as gross misconduct, and she will not therefore be dismissed for this, but are we just supposed to carry on as if nothing has happened? Honestly speaking, I really don't want to manage this person after everything that has happened, and I don't see how we can ever have a normal working relationship - especially as the performance issues are not going to go away and I am going to have to proceed with the capability process whether she likes it or not. But can I actually refuse to manage someone because I find it too stressful to be around her?!!
Thanks for your help!