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Stress at work

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Naetha · 28/10/2010 09:48

DH has been at his current job doing IT support for nearly 5 years now, and over that time his support team has gone from 18 people to 8 people with redundancies and not replacing leavers. The company he works for though has increased in size from 1800 people to 2600, and now has offices in 6 more countries than before. In other words, the workload has increased massively, and not just the physical load, but the complexity as well.

DH is almost at breaking point with the stress of it all. He was meant to get a promotion in April, but this never officially materialised, although he now does all the work that the promotion entailed. He doesn't have to do this, but he's been told that the promotion will come in the future (no date set though) if he keeps up with his responsibilities, but also if he doesn't do it, the whole place will fall apart.

His line manager and director are sympathetic (it wasn't them that vetoed the promotion, apparently there wasn't any budget for it although the rest of the company all got payrises/bonuses), but essentially powerless. They can request additional staff or salary increases, but these are just being ignored.

I suggested that DH get signed off with stress as the whole situation is becoming ludicrous - he's coming home absolutely drained and exhausted, gets anxiety attacks when he thinks about work. He's not sleeping properly, is snapping at me and the kids all the time and is just miserable to be around. He's been looking for other jobs, but there isn't really anything that wouldn't involve a pay cut or moving house.

If he gets signed off for 2 weeks with stress, how will this affect his "record" as it were? Is it something that could affect his chance of getting another job?

What can we do?

OP posts:
happyshopper · 28/10/2010 12:52

Under the equality act 2010, employers are limited at recruitment stage as to the type of questions they can ask relating to health. This means they wouldn't beable to ask about your dh's sickness record until he was offered a job.
I guess you or your dh needs to ask yourselves what he would achieve by going off sick? Would this make it better or would he struggle to get back to work?
What you are obviously trying to do is to find a solution to your Dh's unpleasant situation. I would ask your DH to write down everything that is a concern and arrange a meeting with his manager to discuss these concerns. At the meeting he can explain his concerns, inform them how he is feeling health wise and say what he wants as a solution. I'm not sure what you want as a solution. Would promotion stop the stress or is it the workload that is causing the stress?

Does his company have a HR department?

nocake · 28/10/2010 13:07

Getting signed off is a short term solution and he really needs a long term one, a new job or more staff to help with his current job. Happyshopper's advice on having a chat with his manager is excellent. If that doesn't improve things then I've found that making it obvious that you're looking for a new job can apply a certain amount of pressure. I recently managed to get a role change because I dropped into a conversation something that indicated I'd been looking at job websites.

If that still doesn't help then he needs a new job. Not every company is like his.

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