Please don't shoot me, I've had a rough time with severe SPD and therefore decided it would be best to take the 52 weeks mat leave off to allow me to recover more before returning.
My date for return is 10th Jan, and I have 38 days accrued (32 annual and 6 public). I have emailed my boss and asked if I can take a lump of them in Dec, and then return on the 10th Jan but use 16 days to have a thurs/fri off each week for 8 weeks - as a kind of phased return. My reason for this was really just to phase me in. I hope I will be feeling better with my SPD by then, but just to safeguard myself (instead of overdoing it and then having to go off). I haven't mentioned this to my boss as I don't want to appear as if I am not fit for work. I'm sure I am, I just wanted to ease myself back in.
My boss has told me he'd prefer if I use my leave up before my date of return, as it means I won't be carrying any of my dates into the next leave year and will help him with the allocation of work.
That was all he said, no come or go. I can change this but I did mention I would prefer to do some kind of phase in.
Can anyone advise? Maybe I am expecting too much, but I know of others who have phased themselves in. Perhaps it is the 8 weeks phase in he didn't like? Surely I don't have to take all the days before my actual return date?