Really need some help and advise from people out there.
I've been at my current company for 4 years, I moved teams a year after joining the company and took a pay cut as the role was a junior one (this was a move I chose to make and was supported by my previous line manager), about 6 months after changing jobs I was then promoted from the junior role, due to my hard work, but was told that due to budget issues there was no pay increase to go with it as they weren't expecting to promote me so soon and I would get an increase the following April, when new budgets were set. This did not happen, and I was told they would try and sort something out for me.
In the mean time I fell pregnant, I took 6 months maternity leave and returned to the same job full time in April this year.
I should add at this point that due to not getting an increase when I was promoted, I earn less than half of what my male colleagues earn, even though I do the same job and insome cases have more qualifications than them.
During my pregnancy there were some significant management changes and the last of my old management chain left shortly after I returned to work.
We've (my team) recently (2 months ago) had reviews with the new manager, where we were all promised pay reviews during the course of this year.
I was then told by my colleagues that they had recieved their increases 2 weeks ago. I went to speak to my manager, in the hope that mine would be forthcoming but no, I was told in no uncertain terms that I was not getting an increase at this time, and that if I didn't like it I could look for a job else where. I was too shocked to ask why and left the meeting gobsmacked, especially given that I work hard, always pick up the slack when others can't be bothered, and have never let my personal life interfere with work (when I know that a lot of the dads in my team will just stop working in the afternoon to go and pick up their kids and then not do any work once they have their kids at home)
I'm really not sure what to do, I do like this company for the main part, and do like most of the people I work with. I had no plans to leave my job, but I now feel completely under valued, and find it difficult to motivate myself.
All I want is to be fairly paid in line with what my male colleagues earn, I dread the idea of raising the issue of sexism in the work place, as I don't want to be considered as over reacting.
Please can anyone offer any ideas on what I should do?
Do I just go and find another job and hope that it's better there?
Thanks for taking the time to read this