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Woolly Hugs is a charity established by a group of Mumsnet users. They knit / crochet handmade blankets and other items for families experiencing difficult times.

Woolly Hugs. Part 2. The Blanket for lovely Swashbuckled

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KnottyAndPistey · 15/09/2025 21:02

Welcome to the thread continuing our blanket making journey for the lovely Swashy and her daughter, in memory of their wonderful, precious Ted.

The blankets are finished and going in the post tomorrow. But I can see our original thread careering towards 1000 posts. And I’ve long had a motto that no gerbil should be left behind. So here is our safety thread in case!

Original thread is here…

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/_chat/5350941-woolly-hugs-desperately-sad-news-we-are-afraid-making-a-blanket-for-lovely-swashbuckled-whose-son-has-tragically-died?reply=147168510

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EdithStourton · 17/09/2025 17:18

Much love to you, Swashy, and to your daughter. Having squares to make let me feel that I was doing something practical for you.

Your words are by no means inadequate, whatever you say. They have genuinely moved me.

Wishing you all the very best, and hope to see you in Bluey at some stage.

EdithStourton · 17/09/2025 17:18

And I am awestruck at K&P's ability to block every square to the right size!

IoWfairy · 17/09/2025 17:32

Delighted to see the blanket at its intended destination.
@swashy, sending you a hug. I hope this blanket offers some comfort and padding for your raw edges 💔💙

Boiledbeetle · 17/09/2025 17:33

KnottyAndPistey · 17/09/2025 14:01

Now it is safely with you Swash, I feel we can share the pics I took, apologies if there are duplicates. Hope they give everyone an idea of how beautiful they were. Beautiful inside and out. Thank you one more time to the lovely crafters and donors of wool and funds. It took everyone. Thank you again for however you contributed, you made the difference.

💙💙Our photo album in full can be seen here 💙💙 Just click on the link.

Maud has developed her photos, but feels the beautiful blanket photos should be appreciated unencumbered by a gerbil for now.

However, she did want to share a few so you could see what her outfits were like, and because she got a helping hand with one of the photos.

Now I'm going back to looking at the photos of everyone's beautiful handy work.

My heart breaks for you Swash. Bb xx

Woolly Hugs. Part 2.  The Blanket for lovely Swashbuckled
Woolly Hugs. Part 2.  The Blanket for lovely Swashbuckled
Woolly Hugs. Part 2.  The Blanket for lovely Swashbuckled
ifIwerenotanandroid · 17/09/2025 17:58

Sending love to @Swashbuckled , & thanks to @KnottyAndPistey .

It was amazing to be part of something so special, & now the blanket's reached its destination, I hope it will bring solace when that's needed.

bookbook · 17/09/2025 21:38

They are beautiful! , both in construction , and the love contained in the work . I hope this goes a tiny way to help , and give comfort going forward . I was truly humbled to be part of this xx

Blondeshavemorefun · 17/09/2025 23:46

Beautiful as always and will give great love snuggles and comfort at what is such a dreadful sad time

SeptemberIRemember · 18/09/2025 00:45

Echoing love to @Swashbuckled and to @KnottyAndPistey .

It is touching to see so many kind people coming together to do something to support one of us when something devasting happens - and how beautiful and personal to Ted and his family we can see the blankets are, now they have been put together and received.

inkymoose · 18/09/2025 09:16

Dear Swash,

I read your beautiful words today, and look at the photos. I scan them slowly, taking in the colours, and my heart feels so full and heavy. I remember the suddenness of Bear's loss. I think of the keening grief of women whose loved ones die, and the women who put their arms about them. I feel as though I am one of those women. I grieve, and I also put my arms around you, and feel sorrow and loss.

I look at the photos of the blankets. I imagine the love of a thousand women sewn and stitched and knitted and crocheted and threaded together. This is what it looks like. This is how it feels.

I look at all of the squares, how different, how expressive they seem. When they are made into a blanket, how they are a part of something so beautiful and tender and real. My heart feels full of love, I imagine there's comfort in those stitches.

With love from your friend

inkymoose xx

SpiralArchitect · 18/09/2025 10:30

I think I have something in my eye...
The blankets are stunning and full of woolly love, and I hope they bring some comfort going forward.
Thinking of Swash and Dr Swash x

Swashbuckled · 18/09/2025 18:31

Thank you so much for your messages here ❤️.

Just wanted to say a little more.

Last night, I was in Bear’s bedroom with the light on, which hangs over his bed. It looked so lovely in the glow, and I spent a good while “being” with each individual square. It’s breathtaking.

The other thing is that Bear’s bedroom is next to the staircase so I pass it every time I go along the landing to the other upstairs rooms, or when I use the stairs. I always keep his door wide open and I always feel again the depth of my loss when I see his empty bed. Now his bed is filled with colour and love. Obviously I still feel so devastated when I see his empty room, but now I simultaneously feel this colourful warmth and it makes me smile.

❤️💙

ifIwerenotanandroid · 18/09/2025 19:35

@Swashbuckled Bless you, sweetheart.

FuzzyPuffling · 18/09/2025 19:42

That's beautiful Swashy.
I can't knit or crochet, but my love goes with you x

itsmeafterall · 18/09/2025 20:20

❤️

Boiledbeetle · 19/09/2025 09:55

💙

Woolly Hugs. Part 2.  The Blanket for lovely Swashbuckled
teawamutu · 19/09/2025 10:20

Oh Swashbuckled - I still can't think of anything at all to say, but you, Dr Swash and Bear are often in my thoughts. May the love in our squares continue to bring comfort.

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