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Tom Conti Radio 4 just now

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AmoebicSquid · 24/01/2023 13:49

I'm paraphrasing but basically said that changing a role to be played by non-binary actors was not a good thing. That men are men and women are woman and it's not right to just appease a minority!

It was a very short interview and ended quite quickly 😁

title edited by MNHQ at OP's request.

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AmoebicSquid · 24/01/2023 13:50

Oops - Tom Conti

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Lolapusht · 24/01/2023 13:51

I just posted about it too!!

it was fab! Listening while thinking “Duuuuude…you’ll be in trouble” 😮

Given his starting comment I think he has zero fucks to give 😬

www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b006qptc

RaininginDarling · 24/01/2023 13:59

Well, he's not wrong. I had the pleasure of meeting him in a previous life. He was an entirely grounded delight, so a sensible response here doesn't surprise me.

nauticant · 24/01/2023 14:00

It was hilarious. Conti came out with "men are men and women are women", was gearing up to tell the audience what he really thought, and then, to Sarah Montague's audible relief, the producer called the end of the programme, apparently frantically gesticulating through the window, because they'd mis-scheduled the timing.

LivMumsnet · 24/01/2023 14:00

Hi there, @AmoebicSquid we've now edited your thread title as requested. Hope that helps.

AmoebicSquid · 24/01/2023 14:01

Thank you 👍

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WarriorN · 24/01/2023 14:06

Oh fab!

Just went to listen again on bbc sounds and oh the irony that it gives me an advert for a Sam smith programme 😒

The thing is about mixing up "gender" is that it's so very normal in theatre and always has been. Shakespeare had plays based on switching sex and of course had to use men/ boys as women.

He's point about the privileged place these actors come from compared to women in Afghanistan etc is bang on.

WarriorN · 24/01/2023 14:08

"You don't change the whole world." Aye. They're trying to.

LizziesTwin · 24/01/2023 14:17

I love the way he said men & women are different and do things differently.

He also highlighted the self-promotion of producers in picking non-traditional actors for roles, which is very true; why otherwise would we have heard of Edinburgh unis drama society’s production, the university doesn’t even have a drama department iirc.

Aroundtheriverbend · 24/01/2023 14:25

www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/m001hfbb

Starts around the 40 minute mark, for anyone catching up. Very funny.

Mollyollydolly · 24/01/2023 14:32

They soon shut him up. Nearly crapped themselves. Bravo Tom.

WarriorN · 24/01/2023 14:37

Just listened to the start of the whole programme and I'm not surprised he was so scathing.

The optics of the intro were definitely not good.

WarriorN · 24/01/2023 14:37

Mollyollydolly · 24/01/2023 14:32

They soon shut him up. Nearly crapped themselves. Bravo Tom.

Yeah, out of time my arse. "I'm being waved at through the glass..."

DaughterOfPsychiatrist · 24/01/2023 14:38

Ooooh!

I hope his daughter, Nina, is a bit terfy too!

Mollyollydolly · 24/01/2023 14:40

There are now people on twitter saying Shakespeare wrote gender non conforming roles and Tom is a fool. Yeah that's because women weren't allowed, bit like Afghanistan today. Progressive my arse.

Aroundtheriverbend · 24/01/2023 14:41

"This is not a good change." Damned right.

WarriorN · 24/01/2023 14:43

Exactly Mollie.

WarriorN · 24/01/2023 14:45

Viola only pretends to be her brother to avoid being raped.

WarriorN · 24/01/2023 14:46

Sorry cesario. Confusing my plays

MorvenOfMalvern · 24/01/2023 14:51

I love it when people just say what they think. Absolutely no flannel there.

I paraphrase/misquote probably -

"No. I don't think this is a good thing. Men are men, women are women and I have huge sympathy with anyone who feels they are the opposite, sounds awful, poor them. But people learn to live with things like alcoholism and this too.. we can't change everything for them"

Or something similar

NancyDrawed · 24/01/2023 15:21

Crikey, that WAS an abrupt end to Tom Conti's segment.

Almost like he was being censored....

nauticant · 24/01/2023 15:34

I think they did run out of time because the programme did end promptly and then the broadcasting moved onto the next scheduled programme without any hanging about to fill up any time that was suddenly free. I think Sarah Montague was ruffled because she wanted to make it clear that Tom Conti hadn't actually been shut down, but it was simply a mis-judgement about the available time for the slot.

WhereYouLeftIt · 24/01/2023 15:36

Have done a transcript!

Sarah Montague: It is fifty years since 'Jesus Christ Superstar' was a massive hit. Its latest incarnation this week by, Edinburgh University's Savoy Opera Group, the world's first gender-neutral production. Jesus is played by a non-binary actor who uses the pronouns they/them, Judas will be a woman, and the other disciples will be either female or non-binary. Although Tim Rice and Andrew Lloyd Webber gave permission for the use of their production, they have insisted that the lyrics remain the same, so, those pronouns won't change. What does it add to the production?

[Then plays a couple of clips from past plays where women took male roles]

So, Tony award winner and Oscar nominated actor Tom Conti joins us now, good afternoon.

Tom Conti: Hello Sarah. <chuckle> Well compared to the hell of the Ukraine, and children being cruelly abused and the poor women in Afghanistan, this all seems a bit pathetic, doesn't it?

SM: Well, we like to have a mix of things on the program ...
TC: <laughs in background> I know
SM: ... and this is something in a way it reflects our culture doesn't it, that this ...
TC: <sounding more serious in tone> very much so
SM: ... production opening this week. What do you think of it? That there is .. and I think we were particularly intrigued, don't expect to say the phrase 'Jesus in non-binary'.

TC:<laughs> Well of course the first question about all of this is - why? I think it probably started with the director trying to make a name for himself or herself - saying oh, let's have a go playing Julius Caesar or whatever it is. My view is as producers or directors, it's not our function to give jobs to any particular sections of society. It's simply to make the production as good as we can, and you, you distort a play if you put a, if you have a man playing a women's role or vice versa. And men and women <laughs> men and women are different, you've probably noticed.

Em, and I remember years ago, I was doing a play in New York called 'Whose Life is it Anyway', and Mary Tyler-Moore expressed an interest in doing it. Mary Tyler-Moore, for those who don't know, was a huge television star in America, and she wanted to play this part and that meant it had to be changed for a woman. And so, someone went through and changed all the hes to shes and all the rest of it, and we sat down and looked at the script, the director and the producer and myself, and thought 'this is ridiculous', because, if a woman is in this situation, of being paralysed, she would react to it in a very different way from a man, so you have to write it completely differently. So when you change a role from male to female or the other way round, you have to actually rewrite the whole thing to make it - sensible. Because women approach things in a different way from men.

SM: <tentatively> But isn't this, erm, when you play around with the casting of genders, making all of us think, challenging the way we think, about genders; which is exactly what, erm a lot of, you know, which, in a way the world is <half-word, going?> , a change the world is undergoing at the moment. Isn't that a good thing?

TC: No. This is, this is not a good change, I don't think. I mean gender is gender. Men are men and women are women and there are people who feel that they ought, ought to be a different gender and I understand that and I have huge sympathy for them it's a ghastly situation to be in. But you don't change the whole world because of that, they have to learn to deal with it, in the same way people learn to deal with illness or alcoholism or, or all sorts of things. Erm ...

SM: But in a way the challenge is surely - oh <laughs>, we're up against it time-wise, <garbled> as ever a subject that can go on, Tom Conti we have to leave it there, I'm being flagged through the glass here, thank you very much, because - I'm Sarah Montegue and that's The World at One Forty-Five.

nauticant · 24/01/2023 15:46

Thanks WhereYouLeftIt! Great to enjoy it again.

While I think Montague didn't engineer the sudden ending, I think she was very relieved to be rescued like that.

Swimswam · 24/01/2023 15:50

Made me smile. Good for him. I hope he doesn’t worry about the inevitable backlash and stands firm. Great to hear it