This article about parental leave in Sweden was heartening. I didn't realise that Germany had tried a similar system and found a way to make it work.
Exerpt:
Sweden, he said, faced a vicious circle. Women continued to take parental leave not just for tradition's sake but because their pay was often lower, thus perpetuating pay differences. Companies, meanwhile, made clear to men that staying home with baby was not compatible with a career.
'Society is a mirror of the family,' Mr. Westerberg said. 'The only way to achieve equality in society is to achieve equality in the home. Getting fathers to share the parental leave is an essential part of that.'
Of course, watching all this from across the pond (no maternity leave beyond 12 unpaid weeks, no paternity leave at ALL) my perspective might be slightly rose-tinted and wistful - but it's worth a read.
For those of you in het partnerships: would your partner have liked more parental leave? Would he have taken more time off to be in sole charge of the baby?