The chapter about how the author's DH and her friends' DHs reacted upon becoming fathers wound me up a bit. It sounds as if they all started acting like jerks, controlling money, vetoing decisions, etc. Despite this, she keeps repeating that such-and-such is "a really nice guy" a "good guy" and so on.
Um, no he isn't - he's acting like a complete tool! And the bit where her brother (after his wife gave up her graduate degree studies and moved to a different state to allow him to take a different job) smugly explained that women will let men do this because they love the men and men will use this to pressure them to do things was ultra annoying and Naomi Wolf was STILL insisting that he was a terrific guy.
Terrific guys don't emotionally blackmail people!
grrr.
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Has anyone read "misconceptions" by Naomi Wolf? I need someone to fulminate with!
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lisianthus · 12/06/2010 12:48
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