You say “most women and most gay people do not support your movement”. That just is not borne out by the data.
Polling over the last few years shows that a clear majority of Britons want toilets, changing rooms and showers to remain single-sex. In a JL Partners poll of 1,500 UK adults in March 2026, 78% preferred single-sex workplace toilets, 81% preferred single-sex toilets in parks or pubs, and 86% preferred single-sex showers and changing rooms. Only around one in five respondents said trans-identifying people should be allowed to use whichever facilities they prefer, and this was true even among 18- to 24-year-olds and Green voters. https://sex-matters.org/posts/single-sex-services/new-poll-shows-most-people-prefer-single-sex-toilets-and-changing-rooms/]
YouGov’s own research says much the same. In December 2024, fewer than four in ten Britons said trans women should be allowed to use women’s changing rooms or toilets, while 55–58% were opposed. A majority, 55%, said letting trans women use spaces reserved for women, such as toilets or changing rooms, presents a genuine risk of harm to women. 74% said trans women should not compete in women’s sport. https://yougov.co.uk/politics/articles/51325-where-does-the-british-public-stand-on-transgender-rights-in-2024-25]
Support is also moving away from self-ID. Among women, YouGov found support for people legally changing gender had fallen from 44% in 2022 to 37%, while opposition had risen to 42%. Among 18- to 24-year-olds, support for legal gender change fell seven points, while opposition rose sixteen points. Overall, only about a third of Britons now say people should be able to change both their social and legal gender, while a similar share say neither. https://yougov.co.uk/politics/articles/51325-where-does-the-british-public-stand-on-transgender-rights-in-2024-25]
A YouGov poll for Sex Matters in December 2024 found that 54% supported clarifying the Equality Act so that sex means biological sex, and among those expressing a view support was more than 2:1 in favour. It also found almost three-quarters thought women’s sport should exclude all males, regardless of claimed identity. https://sex-matters.org/posts/single-sex-services/poll-shows-support-for-sex-meaning-sex-in-equality-act/]
None of this means the public is hostile to trans people. More in Common found that most Britons want a “live and let live” approach, with compassion and common sense as the starting point. People want trans people treated decently and protected from bullying and discrimination. But the same report also found that most of the public, 57%, think trans women should not compete in women-only sport, and that people want inclusion balanced with fairness. https://www.moreincommon.org.uk/our-work/research/britons-and-gender-identity/]
Ipsos found the same international trend in 2025. Only 22% across 23 countries supported trans athletes competing based on gender identity rather than sex, down from 32% in 2021. Opposition was strongest in Great Britain and Hungary, both at 61%. https://www.ipsos.com/sites/default/files/ct/news/documents/2025-06/ipsos-pride-report-2025.pdf]
Gender critical is not a mad fringe view. It is a massive majority across all sections of the country. In the ordinary, practical sense — humans cannot literally change sex, and women’s spaces and sport should not be opened to males on the basis of identity — it is now basically the mainstream UK position, and it always has been
Most people do not hate trans people. Most people are happy to be polite, live and let live, and let adults present however they want. What they do not accept is being told that sex is not real, that women cannot have boundaries, or that single-sex spaces must become mixed-sex because activists demand it.
And I think support is falling partly because people have seen what “trans rights” activism actually asks for in practice: self-ID, males in women’s sport, males in women’s changing rooms, compelled language, no debate, and anyone who says “hang on” being called a bigot. That is not winning people over. It is pushing ordinary women, gay people and plenty of decent middle-of-the-road people towards the gender-critical position.
TRAs have shot their own movement by pushing too far and being dick heads.