This isn't strictly feminist but I like James Marriot - he's always thought provoking.
I'm reminded of a Bertrand Russell quote;
"The fallacy of the superior virtue of the oppressed"
‘Nan gave birth in handcuffs” ran the arresting headline on an
extract from Wes Streeting’s memoir in The Sunday Times. Streeting’s hardscrabble early life — criminal grandad, teenage mum, a dresser drawer for a cot — might have appealed to Charles Dickens. But is it enough, Labour members might wonder as they mull their next leader. Is Streeting not rather outclassed in the adversity stakes by Angela Rayner, who was the carer for her bipolar mother at the age of ten and who left school pregnant at sixteen?
https://www.thetimes.com/article/6d9f54f1-9bcd-4c61-a91b-ee0f0cf31dbc?shareToken=9d2b2e907a4934239f25a0660d244241