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Finally some negative coverage of surrogacy from BBC

17 replies

RoamingToaster · 07/05/2026 08:27

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/clyp4kp687go

It’s horrible to read but hopefully will wake up a few people to the exploitation.

A pregnant woman stands in a garden with her hand on her belly. She has long, straight, dark hair and is wearing a matching top and trousers which are white with some patches of black. She also has a light brown hoodie on.

Ukraine is a global surrogacy hub - but that could be about to end

Ukraine is considering a law that would effectively ban foreigners from accessing surrogacy in the country.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/clyp4kp687go

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cariadlet · 07/05/2026 08:27

About time!

MrsOvertonsWindow · 07/05/2026 08:45

Good to see the exploitation of poor women being laid out for all to see.

Beowulfa · 07/05/2026 09:03

I thought the Black Friday sale ad was a parody by an anti-surrogacy campaigner. Turns out it's real.

ItsCoolForCats · 07/05/2026 09:18

The couple quoted at the end are so unbelievably selfish. They are opposed to legislation that will protect women and babies from harm and exploitation because they, personally, have experienced "joy and happiness".

MassiveWordSalad · 07/05/2026 09:24

But have they asked drag queens what they think about surrogacy?

OneTimeThingToday · 07/05/2026 09:28

Better than their one a few days wirh a gay couple moaning about the legal difficulties with their pricess as the Mother is considered to be the legal parent

MrsOvertonsWindow · 07/05/2026 09:31

OneTimeThingToday · 07/05/2026 09:28

Better than their one a few days wirh a gay couple moaning about the legal difficulties with their pricess as the Mother is considered to be the legal parent

I saw that simpering interview with those self entitled men who've had the nerve to object to the safety and wellbeing of a vulnerable baby being the priority.
Grim.

MrsKateColumbo · 07/05/2026 09:32

The couple in that article are so unbelievably stupid, "it's her choice" whilst they noticed the country they bought their child from is literally at war!

AlexandraLeaving · 07/05/2026 21:57

MrsKateColumbo · 07/05/2026 09:32

The couple in that article are so unbelievably stupid, "it's her choice" whilst they noticed the country they bought their child from is literally at war!

And even if it was her free choice, it's not the baby's choice.

Womenz · 08/05/2026 09:24

Like trans it feels like surrogacy is here to stay

Cattenberg · 08/05/2026 09:50

MrsOvertonsWindow · 07/05/2026 09:31

I saw that simpering interview with those self entitled men who've had the nerve to object to the safety and wellbeing of a vulnerable baby being the priority.
Grim.

Their petition has gained a lot of traction in a short time, though. Maybe it's because this couple seem more responsible than many intended parents?

Change surrogacy law to recognise intended parents from birth - Petitions

Petition: Change surrogacy law to recognise intended parents from birth

The law must change so intended parents in surrogacy arrangements are recognised as their child’s legal parents from birth. Families should not have to go through months of court proceedings and social worker visits to be recognised as the parents of a...

https://petition.parliament.uk/petitions/763161

PosiePerkinPootleFlump · 08/05/2026 09:56

ItsCoolForCats · 07/05/2026 09:18

The couple quoted at the end are so unbelievably selfish. They are opposed to legislation that will protect women and babies from harm and exploitation because they, personally, have experienced "joy and happiness".

And they bought her flowers and chocolate!

FFS

sashagabadon · 08/05/2026 09:58

Not unsympathetic enough imo. It was very much in the direction of feeling sorry for Ukraine’s young women being unable to become surrogate mothers. I think that is shocking that this is even a legitimate career choice for 22 year olds. The article was not critical of this enough.

PaterPower · 08/05/2026 11:11

I saw a news report yesterday, on the Beeb, where they mentioned how popular Ukraine was with Chinese nationals as a destination for surrogacy.

It says something when China clearly has more protection around surrogacy than Ukraine has had to date.

RoamingToaster · 08/05/2026 11:21

sashagabadon · 08/05/2026 09:58

Not unsympathetic enough imo. It was very much in the direction of feeling sorry for Ukraine’s young women being unable to become surrogate mothers. I think that is shocking that this is even a legitimate career choice for 22 year olds. The article was not critical of this enough.

I agree it still tries to present both sides but I think the average person with little opinion on the subject is surely going to be horrified at the story of the baby being abandoned because it has special needs and the woman having to do surrogacy in a country at war that the rest of the points for it, don't make up for that.

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OneTimeThingToday · 08/05/2026 11:29

Cattenberg · 08/05/2026 09:50

Their petition has gained a lot of traction in a short time, though. Maybe it's because this couple seem more responsible than many intended parents?

Change surrogacy law to recognise intended parents from birth - Petitions

They are falling into the classic trap of "we are good people, why do we need checks" rather than realising that the checks are there to weed out the bad people and you presume no one is good.

Plus the objections around surrogacy atent rrally about how good the IPs will be. Im sure many of them are brilliant. I have sympathy with many of the people who use surrogacy to become parents. Its about the welfare of women and babies.

Cattenberg · 10/05/2026 15:03

The BBC could have dug a lot deeper with their recent articles on this subject. It sounds as though Krista was vetted more thoroughly than many surrogates are, partly for her own welfare, but did she know that donor-egg pregnancies are more risky than those using the mother’s own egg?

Also, what were the terms of her contract? For example, if there had been medical complications, such as a multiple pregnancy or health problems for Krista or the baby, would Krista have been free to decide what to do with no repercussions? Or if she’d gone against the IP’s wishes, could she have been sued, not just for her fees, but for the medical and legal expenses incurred by the surrogacy arrangement?

The BBC don’t even appear to have asked how much Krista got paid! It would be useful to know if this was “reasonable expenses” or if it was a life-changing amount of money. Given that Krista is in the US, I suspect it was closer to the latter.

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