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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Next changing rooms- how should I respond?

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Mattressahoy · 04/05/2026 21:49

Looking for advice re how to respond to the following email. I recently contacted Next to let them know that on the last two occasions I tried on clothes in their Oxford Street store, there had been men in the changing rooms (at this point I thought they were single-sex). The first time a man was sitting in the communal area of the changing room, and the second time a man was in a changing room opposite mine. Both times I was trying on swimming costumes and felt really vulnerable being naked with a man directly on the other side of the curtain.

This was Next's response:

"Thank you for your e-mail and I am sorry to hear you have felt uncomfortable on your last couple of visits to our stores, due to the presence of male customers in the fitting rooms on the Womenswear floor.

Just to explain, our position has always been that all fitting rooms, irrespective of which department they are situated on, are open to all customers to use, and they are not designated as a single-sex provision. Hence the signage above the entrance just saying 'Fitting Rooms', rather than 'Men's' or 'Women's' Fitting Rooms.

We want to encourage customers to be able to use whichever facility is most convenient for them at the time. For example, for customers placing orders online for delivery to store, the collection point in most of our stores is on Menswear so female customers may find it more convenient to use those fitting rooms to try items on and decide what they wish to keep or return while they are still in store.

We are continuously reviewing and updating our fitting rooms, for example, by attaching hook and eye fixtures to secure the curtains in fitting rooms in our existing stores in order to make customers feel more comfortable, and we are also looking at alternatives to replace curtains in fitting rooms when we re-fit stores or open new ones."

I feel really disappointed with Next and don't feel they're taking women's safety seriously. They have changing rooms in the women's section and in the men's, so in what way would it be detrimental to them to make one specifically for women and one for men? There is absolutely no reason for men to need to access the changing room on the women's floor as all the men's clothes are on the upstairs floor, with it's own changing room. And I can't imagine many women actively choosing to use changing facilities on the men's floor. What is the legal position here? I thought that under the Equality Act companies can provide a single-sex space where there is good reason to do so?

At the very least, I would want there to be clear signage stating the changing rooms are unisex so that women can be made aware that they do not have access to a safe single-sex space before they enter. Is that unreasonable? Is there anything else I could add?

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QuestionFromTheBack · 31/05/2026 09:23

measuretwicecutonce · 31/05/2026 09:12

The problem is that I don’t think retailers are bothered to change this because, and I don’t like saying this, a lot of women, especially young women aren’t bothered.

I think where it perhaps could have an impact is women started using the ‘male’ changing rooms and see what happens. These stores say they are all mixed but often that isn’t the case. I don’t think men would like this but stores can’t have it all ways.

Women do use the male changing rooms when they are in a place more convenient for them. In a busy time, the female changing rooms can be packed and the male ones empty. Hence why it makes little sense to have them separated by sex. Even if you make the male ones much smaller, their positioning is what will still make them desirable for women to use. So you get a situation where men are going through and finding "their" changing rooms but women are just using the nearest and emptiest ones which may well be the ones nearest the men's department, ie the men's changing rooms.

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 31/05/2026 11:04

Unfortunately not all men are there primarily to buy clothes. This becomes clear from their own accounts of their behaviour.

KnottyAuty · 31/05/2026 15:42

measuretwicecutonce · 31/05/2026 09:12

The problem is that I don’t think retailers are bothered to change this because, and I don’t like saying this, a lot of women, especially young women aren’t bothered.

I think where it perhaps could have an impact is women started using the ‘male’ changing rooms and see what happens. These stores say they are all mixed but often that isn’t the case. I don’t think men would like this but stores can’t have it all ways.

This!
I think I’ll use the CR in the men’s section if I go in again - although thats a bit doubtful...
Noone there seeking validation and slim to no chance of hidden cameras. Ideally arrive in a squad and loiter in the lobby 🤣

QuestionFromTheBack · 01/06/2026 08:33

KnottyAuty · 31/05/2026 15:42

This!
I think I’ll use the CR in the men’s section if I go in again - although thats a bit doubtful...
Noone there seeking validation and slim to no chance of hidden cameras. Ideally arrive in a squad and loiter in the lobby 🤣

It happens all the time. Nobody would care. They probably arent even designated men's any more anyway

KnottyAuty · 01/06/2026 09:04

QuestionFromTheBack · 01/06/2026 08:33

It happens all the time. Nobody would care. They probably arent even designated men's any more anyway

Im sure they are designated mixed sex with unclear signage. The last time I was in the men’s with DS I felt bad for intruding on the men’s privacy. I now don’t need to feel bad - hurrah!

oldtiredcyclist · 01/06/2026 09:13

SamphiretheTervosaur · 30/05/2026 12:06

I suspect that is the delightful Mr Lismore. He has TwiXed on the matter, apparently he has put us in our place!

x.com/i/status/2060612490946367784

The following by the oh so lovely Daniel Lismore, might explain things. He is a TRA who hates J K Rowling.

www.facebook.com/daniellismore/posts/make-it-make-sense-a-woman-who-built-a-career-under-a-mans-name-is-now-spending-/1333634998133235/

www.instagram.com/p/DXC_OIHEXq3/

bootle96 · 01/06/2026 13:29

Is this really such a big issue. I would assume all changing rooms are mixed sex with individual cubicles. I can’t think of any shops that have specifically single sex changing rooms. I’ve taken both my sons clothes shopping recently and would have no issue going into the fitting rooms in the men’s section so they can show me what they’ve tried on. Last time I was in next with my 12 year old there was a really long queue in the fitting room in the men’s section so we were asked to use the one in women’s section. Seemed sensible to me. It’s the same in our local leisure centre, mixed changing area, individual cubicles. It’s just the best use of space. I’m in favour of single sex spaces for women, but these are individual cubicles so you have privacy.

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