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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Biggus Titus of Oxford University

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Forecastsayssnowbutthereisnosnow · 26/04/2026 08:35

Sadly, not a Monty Python sketch.

Matt Rattley, a large bearded bloke who wears giant fake breasts, appears to be happily working at Oxford Uni.

I was really hoping this wasn't true but there is even a youtube video with him talking while wearing the giant breasts and red lipstick, applied to a degree any circus clown would be accused of overdoing it. The video includes a slide stating he works as a lecturer and tutor in the Biochemistry Dept at Oxford. He's also on LinkedIn.

I mean, how obvious can it be that this is a sexual fetish which he is involving unconsenting students and staff in???

Dr P on X has been (correctly) very robust on this case:

""This is Matt Rattley saying, "I can do whatever I please and nobody can stop me".

This is highly antisocial, abnormal, boundary-violating, paraphilic behaviour.

And we should not be afraid to say so."

Biggus Titus of Oxford University
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OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 26/04/2026 11:54

Theeyeballsinthesky · 26/04/2026 11:44

Twaddle - this isn't 'eccentricity' it's 'parading your fetish in public do you can get turned on at work by it'

Not to mention the excitement of doing things that no woman would be allowed to do - or want to because women don't have sexual problems like this - and seeing how far he can push them while a lot of mindless twits witter about 'making choices' and 'existing', to try and prevent others having appropriate, normal boundaries.

Or is the argument now that using others for acts of sexual inappropriacy is an integral part of being 'trans'?

CassOle · 26/04/2026 11:55

My opinion is that bringing a fetish to work - in general, I am not singling out or naming any individual - is unprofessional.

roseyposey · 26/04/2026 11:55

NaomiCunninghamHasHadHerWeetabixAgain · 26/04/2026 11:27

And if it was someone wearing blackface working for Oxford University? I guarantee they'd be sent home the same day, investigation immediately underway, and a massive exercise in damage limitation with apologies for anyone offended in an effort to avoid reputational damage.

But, it's only bloody women, they can get over themselves, eh? The bitches.

Quite

Lady1576 · 26/04/2026 11:57

BunnyLake · 26/04/2026 10:32

Let’s not be mean to perverts, a lady might object.

Well yes. A perversion is not a crime unless it harms people. I do have a problem with people pointing and laughing at ‚perverts‘, given that it is a subjective term as opposed to acting on paedophilic tendencies in any way, which is different. However, I have read some of the other comments about blackface for example, and that is making me think I haven’t thought this all through as much as some people on here have. I‘m going to go away and have a look at the stuff about gateway acts etc. So are we saying it‘s ok to dress as our not-assigned-at-birth gender as long as we pass, or as long as we were were born a woman and are now a transman. There‘s obviously a range of opinions on here but some seem to be against any kind of pride at all? Also, the comment about safe-space was in reference to universities are normally more liberal places where you are employed on the strengths of your academics rather than as a customer services associate in business dress. One of my elderly male lecturers used to have his very fat tummy, white, hairy tummy hanging out of his trousers where his shirt wasn‘t tucked in and his trousers were hanging low and jumper too small. Not very nice first thing in the morning if you were sitting right by him but I felt he was just a bit unkempt and I was supposed to be listening to his ideas not judging his appearance… I just saw it and got on with my life, not offended, not traumatised and I suppose the students taught by your fellow, probably feel the same.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 26/04/2026 11:57

I see we have a new interesting defence of this batshittery

'oh you silly little peasant, those super intelligent oxbridge ppl aren't bound by societal rules because they're so incredibly special and soooo clever which you'd know if you weren't a silly peasant but a proper person who went to oxbridge. Only non oxbridge silly ppl worry about men performing sexual fetishes at work'

DialSquare · 26/04/2026 11:58

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Theeyeballsinthesky · 26/04/2026 11:58

Lady1576 · 26/04/2026 11:57

Well yes. A perversion is not a crime unless it harms people. I do have a problem with people pointing and laughing at ‚perverts‘, given that it is a subjective term as opposed to acting on paedophilic tendencies in any way, which is different. However, I have read some of the other comments about blackface for example, and that is making me think I haven’t thought this all through as much as some people on here have. I‘m going to go away and have a look at the stuff about gateway acts etc. So are we saying it‘s ok to dress as our not-assigned-at-birth gender as long as we pass, or as long as we were were born a woman and are now a transman. There‘s obviously a range of opinions on here but some seem to be against any kind of pride at all? Also, the comment about safe-space was in reference to universities are normally more liberal places where you are employed on the strengths of your academics rather than as a customer services associate in business dress. One of my elderly male lecturers used to have his very fat tummy, white, hairy tummy hanging out of his trousers where his shirt wasn‘t tucked in and his trousers were hanging low and jumper too small. Not very nice first thing in the morning if you were sitting right by him but I felt he was just a bit unkempt and I was supposed to be listening to his ideas not judging his appearance… I just saw it and got on with my life, not offended, not traumatised and I suppose the students taught by your fellow, probably feel the same.

Did he have his cock hanging out?? If not it's hardly the same is it

Wearenotborg · 26/04/2026 12:01

Lady1576 · 26/04/2026 11:57

Well yes. A perversion is not a crime unless it harms people. I do have a problem with people pointing and laughing at ‚perverts‘, given that it is a subjective term as opposed to acting on paedophilic tendencies in any way, which is different. However, I have read some of the other comments about blackface for example, and that is making me think I haven’t thought this all through as much as some people on here have. I‘m going to go away and have a look at the stuff about gateway acts etc. So are we saying it‘s ok to dress as our not-assigned-at-birth gender as long as we pass, or as long as we were were born a woman and are now a transman. There‘s obviously a range of opinions on here but some seem to be against any kind of pride at all? Also, the comment about safe-space was in reference to universities are normally more liberal places where you are employed on the strengths of your academics rather than as a customer services associate in business dress. One of my elderly male lecturers used to have his very fat tummy, white, hairy tummy hanging out of his trousers where his shirt wasn‘t tucked in and his trousers were hanging low and jumper too small. Not very nice first thing in the morning if you were sitting right by him but I felt he was just a bit unkempt and I was supposed to be listening to his ideas not judging his appearance… I just saw it and got on with my life, not offended, not traumatised and I suppose the students taught by your fellow, probably feel the same.

Gender is assigned at birth? What like babies are told as they emerge what outdated, sexist stereotypes they have to follow? Wow! Missed that bit when I was having my child. I mean, the sex was observed at birth but no one wittered on about gender! I feel robbed!

crumpet · 26/04/2026 12:02

Lady1576 · 26/04/2026 11:57

Well yes. A perversion is not a crime unless it harms people. I do have a problem with people pointing and laughing at ‚perverts‘, given that it is a subjective term as opposed to acting on paedophilic tendencies in any way, which is different. However, I have read some of the other comments about blackface for example, and that is making me think I haven’t thought this all through as much as some people on here have. I‘m going to go away and have a look at the stuff about gateway acts etc. So are we saying it‘s ok to dress as our not-assigned-at-birth gender as long as we pass, or as long as we were were born a woman and are now a transman. There‘s obviously a range of opinions on here but some seem to be against any kind of pride at all? Also, the comment about safe-space was in reference to universities are normally more liberal places where you are employed on the strengths of your academics rather than as a customer services associate in business dress. One of my elderly male lecturers used to have his very fat tummy, white, hairy tummy hanging out of his trousers where his shirt wasn‘t tucked in and his trousers were hanging low and jumper too small. Not very nice first thing in the morning if you were sitting right by him but I felt he was just a bit unkempt and I was supposed to be listening to his ideas not judging his appearance… I just saw it and got on with my life, not offended, not traumatised and I suppose the students taught by your fellow, probably feel the same.

Ask yourself why he didn’t choose a 32AA cup.

Lady1576 · 26/04/2026 12:03

Theeyeballsinthesky · 26/04/2026 11:58

Did he have his cock hanging out?? If not it's hardly the same is it

This person has boobs that are covered. I‘m not offended by breasts. I have breasts, you have breasts, some men naturally have larger ‚breasts‘ than I do. A naked cock is not the same as some covered breasts!

Kucinghitam · 26/04/2026 12:03

In general, I'd say that nobody should bring their "whole selves" to work. They should bring their professional selves; this includes dressing appropriately for the role.

Political opinions, religious convictions, hobbies, holiday planning, home decoration dilemmas, relationship troubles, post-partying hangovers, health conditions, fashion choices, sexual thrills - the only relevance should be where these directly affect the work you are doing and that of your colleagues, and the customer/service user experience.

Wearenotborg · 26/04/2026 12:04

Lady1576 · 26/04/2026 12:03

This person has boobs that are covered. I‘m not offended by breasts. I have breasts, you have breasts, some men naturally have larger ‚breasts‘ than I do. A naked cock is not the same as some covered breasts!

How do you know that poster has breasts? Or that I have breasts for that matter?

Lady1576 · 26/04/2026 12:04

crumpet · 26/04/2026 12:02

Ask yourself why he didn’t choose a 32AA cup.

My point is it doesn‘t matter. I get what people are saying about blackface though. You feel he is mocking women and you it makes you feel sad.

Lady1576 · 26/04/2026 12:05

Wearenotborg · 26/04/2026 12:04

How do you know that poster has breasts? Or that I have breasts for that matter?

I don‘t?! I‘m guessing?

Theeyeballsinthesky · 26/04/2026 12:05

Lady1576 · 26/04/2026 12:03

This person has boobs that are covered. I‘m not offended by breasts. I have breasts, you have breasts, some men naturally have larger ‚breasts‘ than I do. A naked cock is not the same as some covered breasts!

He is wearing fake breasts showing massive cleavage

he wears them because it gives him a sexual thrill

I don't get a sexual thrill out of having breasts - they're just there

Wearenotborg · 26/04/2026 12:06

Lady1576 · 26/04/2026 12:04

My point is it doesn‘t matter. I get what people are saying about blackface though. You feel he is mocking women and you it makes you feel sad.

To be fair, he’s also doing a lot of harm to the trans cause. If I was a TRA I’d be furious. I mean, I thought all transpeople just wanted to blend in and live their lives. He’s making a mockery of that by parading his fetish in public. Not a good look for those arguing transpeople would never do that is it?

roseyposey · 26/04/2026 12:07

crumpet · 26/04/2026 12:02

Ask yourself why he didn’t choose a 32AA cup.

I’m asking myself if @Lady1576 really did attend the college she mentioned.

CountFucula · 26/04/2026 12:07

Lady1576 · 26/04/2026 11:57

Well yes. A perversion is not a crime unless it harms people. I do have a problem with people pointing and laughing at ‚perverts‘, given that it is a subjective term as opposed to acting on paedophilic tendencies in any way, which is different. However, I have read some of the other comments about blackface for example, and that is making me think I haven’t thought this all through as much as some people on here have. I‘m going to go away and have a look at the stuff about gateway acts etc. So are we saying it‘s ok to dress as our not-assigned-at-birth gender as long as we pass, or as long as we were were born a woman and are now a transman. There‘s obviously a range of opinions on here but some seem to be against any kind of pride at all? Also, the comment about safe-space was in reference to universities are normally more liberal places where you are employed on the strengths of your academics rather than as a customer services associate in business dress. One of my elderly male lecturers used to have his very fat tummy, white, hairy tummy hanging out of his trousers where his shirt wasn‘t tucked in and his trousers were hanging low and jumper too small. Not very nice first thing in the morning if you were sitting right by him but I felt he was just a bit unkempt and I was supposed to be listening to his ideas not judging his appearance… I just saw it and got on with my life, not offended, not traumatised and I suppose the students taught by your fellow, probably feel the same.

This man is dressing in a fetishistic way. Wearing comically large breasts is in no way an attempt to pass. Being unkempt is not a fetish. It’s ok to know and to say these things. It’s not bigoted. Supporting trans people does not mean swallowing this sexually aggressive behaviour. He is in plain sight.

MaggieBsBoat · 26/04/2026 12:07

Are you ok with blackface also @Lady1576 ?
I assume so.
I‘m not.
I agree that online bullying is harmful but so are the above. One should ask I suppose what is worse, parodying a group of people or people being offended.

Wearenotborg · 26/04/2026 12:09

MaggieBsBoat · 26/04/2026 12:07

Are you ok with blackface also @Lady1576 ?
I assume so.
I‘m not.
I agree that online bullying is harmful but so are the above. One should ask I suppose what is worse, parodying a group of people or people being offended.

And the people offended are the oppressed group. Here we have a white male parodying women and he’s being defended by the same people who would vilify him if he wore blackface.

Hallamule · 26/04/2026 12:12

Theeyeballsinthesky · 26/04/2026 12:05

He is wearing fake breasts showing massive cleavage

he wears them because it gives him a sexual thrill

I don't get a sexual thrill out of having breasts - they're just there

And if a woman chooses breast enlargement or enhancement is that also not OK?

MaggieBsBoat · 26/04/2026 12:14

Hallamule · 26/04/2026 12:12

And if a woman chooses breast enlargement or enhancement is that also not OK?

Er……a woman is a woman.

Hallamule · 26/04/2026 12:17

MaggieBsBoat · 26/04/2026 12:14

Er……a woman is a woman.

And so? You must be aware that some women chose breast enlargements to extreme sizes also? Is that not also a parody? Or sexual?

Wearenotborg · 26/04/2026 12:18

Hallamule · 26/04/2026 12:12

And if a woman chooses breast enlargement or enhancement is that also not OK?

But these are not enlarged or enhanced. They are a chestform. Used by drag queens and female impersonators. He takes them off at times. Just like that male teacher in Canada who did the same thing. He’s indulging in his fetish and being celebrated by idiots.

Wearenotborg · 26/04/2026 12:19

Hallamule · 26/04/2026 12:17

And so? You must be aware that some women chose breast enlargements to extreme sizes also? Is that not also a parody? Or sexual?

The only people who do so to thst extreme are adult entertainers and porn stars. Not really proving your point there mate.