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Biggus Titus of Oxford University

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Forecastsayssnowbutthereisnosnow · 26/04/2026 08:35

Sadly, not a Monty Python sketch.

Matt Rattley, a large bearded bloke who wears giant fake breasts, appears to be happily working at Oxford Uni.

I was really hoping this wasn't true but there is even a youtube video with him talking while wearing the giant breasts and red lipstick, applied to a degree any circus clown would be accused of overdoing it. The video includes a slide stating he works as a lecturer and tutor in the Biochemistry Dept at Oxford. He's also on LinkedIn.

I mean, how obvious can it be that this is a sexual fetish which he is involving unconsenting students and staff in???

Dr P on X has been (correctly) very robust on this case:

""This is Matt Rattley saying, "I can do whatever I please and nobody can stop me".

This is highly antisocial, abnormal, boundary-violating, paraphilic behaviour.

And we should not be afraid to say so."

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ElenOfTheWays · 09/05/2026 00:13

oxfordfeminist · 08/05/2026 15:34

I don't see it as a fetish, sorry.

I would return to the point that this lecturer should be judged on the basis of what they say and how they teach, not on what they're wearing.

What he is wearing is massively offensive. Almost certainly deliberately so. So, actually, it does matter and I WILL judge him on it. Because what he's teaching his female students is that their boundaries don't matter and their womanhood is a joke.

Keeptoiletssafe · 09/05/2026 01:20

Keeptoiletssafe · 07/05/2026 20:34

I disagree with trans-exclusionary feminism. I'm sorry you seem to find that so threatening. There are many different strands of feminism in the world.
So, @oxfordfeminist, in toilet design terms, presumably this means you want mixed sex toilets?

Which choice do you think the government should make?

  1. Change all the Health and Safety legislation, Building Regs and parts of the Sexual Offences Act, so that single sex designs are now mixed sex designs too. Most single sex provision currently has gaps for health (ventilation, cleaning) and safety (supervision, prevention of misuse). Men will be able to peer under and over partitions and doors, making provision uncomfortable for women and girls. Men don’t like women hearing them wee and poo either. The consequence will be that businesses etc will seek to fund and refurb to full length cubicles. This design is dangerous to men, women and children at their most vulnerable. It obviously affects people with disabilities such as epilepsy, diabetes, people at risk of strokes, cardiac arrest, self harm, drug overdosing, fainting from female conditions like endometriosis, pregnancy and miscarriage more. Assaults on women and children will rise. No longer will people with ambulant disabilities have reasonable adjustments for safer provision in case they collapse suddenly.
  2. Make all non-domestic provision mixed sex design. The regulated one is called Universal. This has the sink and handryer in the same room as the toilet. It is private and resistant to the passage of sound. It will cost the country billions, reduce the number of units, urinals would be obsolete. There will be more deaths inside the provision (bodies have been found days afterwards). Hidden cameras are a concern, as is misuse from drugs and sex (consensual or not).

So, in response to your words, I do ‘find that threatening’. We should, as a society, be safeguarding anyone at their most vulnerable. Toilets are a necessity for sanitation, not a validation preference. However people identify, they are more at threat in private, mixed sex designs. The people least affected, as shown in my research, are healthy adult men.

The Health and Safety Executive have told me that only single sex cubicles within a single sex environment can have door and partition gaps.

So which is your choice for the country 1.or 2.?

Can you point me where you answered about toilet design @oxfordfeminist ? I would like to hear your views as no one who doesn’t want single sex toilets has answered before. All avoid the practical question of how this works for health and safety.
1 or 2?

DeanElderberry · 09/05/2026 06:19

ElenOfTheWays · 09/05/2026 00:13

What he is wearing is massively offensive. Almost certainly deliberately so. So, actually, it does matter and I WILL judge him on it. Because what he's teaching his female students is that their boundaries don't matter and their womanhood is a joke.

He is also teaching his male students that women's boundaries don't matter and that they, their feelings, and their wish for respect and safety are a joke. If he isn't a very bad man he is doing an extremely good job of acting like one. He should not be facilitated in this by the college, the department, or the University.

KnottyAuty · 09/05/2026 07:14

DeanElderberry · 09/05/2026 06:19

He is also teaching his male students that women's boundaries don't matter and that they, their feelings, and their wish for respect and safety are a joke. If he isn't a very bad man he is doing an extremely good job of acting like one. He should not be facilitated in this by the college, the department, or the University.

This is why this whole thing is ridiculous. Deadnaming or using the pronoun is “literal violence” while a bloke in fake tits is just expressing himself. I think we would see quite a different reaction if any of us turned up as a parody of a TIM…. What are Oxford Uni thinking? It’s really making me think hard about whether a uni degree at this point is the right path for my kids. These institutions seem really unhealthy places with horribly misogynistic attitudes. I had been thinking a year out might be good but now thinking an extended break/travelling and then self employment/starting a business might be a much healthier way to go

ThatBlackCat · 09/05/2026 07:32

oxfordfeminist · 08/05/2026 15:26

I'm really tempted to engage with some of the questions, but it's such a hostile and one-sided space here, it feels like a self-destructive exercise from my point of view (in that I'm just setting myself up to be attacked). As I said, I'm very happy to chat about this with people one-on-one, but the MN feminist threads have a strong trend of belittling/insulting language ('you're like Aunt Lydia! you're a handmaiden!', 'you're a traitor to your sex!' etc). So it feels like a defeatist exercise.

About blackface, I would say that race and gender are very different issues, and in some ways it's a big red herring (not to mention downright racist) to conflate the two.

I decided to respond to the 'you are not who you say you are' issue as that's more straightforward. Very simply, I am who I say I am. But responding in that way could be seen as self-defeatist too, because there's no way of proving that on MN without outing yourself in real life.

I used to try to argue in good faith on these threads and explain the rationale behind trans-inclusive feminism, but I don't do that any more, because the issue is so emotive and it inevitably turns into a massive pile-on.

You can criticise me for that, fine, but even relatively resilient people need to look after their own mental health.

Please note that I haven't accused anyone on this thread of not being a feminist. To me, feminism is a broad church, and intelligent women can espouse a diversity of views. I hate dogmas of all kinds, and I'm endlessly careful not to impose a dogma on my students.

I posted on this thread not to say 'I teach at Oxford, my point of view is ultimate truth' but to say, 'I'm at Oxford, I'm actually a colleague of Matt R, and this is how I see things.'

Feel free to disagree. I don't have the time or capacity to reply to all the comments, nor do I have all the answers. My main goal is to point out that feminists don't need to 'other' one another.

No, race and sex are really, really not different, they are the same thing. Both black people and females are oppressed, and both (with black women, Rachel Dolezal) have the oppressor sex/race trying to culturally appropriate and identify into the oppressed group's struggle. They are exactly the same thing, it is your cognitive dissonance that stops you from admitting that you yourself.

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DialSquare · 09/05/2026 07:36

ElenOfTheWays · 09/05/2026 00:13

What he is wearing is massively offensive. Almost certainly deliberately so. So, actually, it does matter and I WILL judge him on it. Because what he's teaching his female students is that their boundaries don't matter and their womanhood is a joke.

Yep. I will also judge anyone defending him.

PassTheCranberrySauce · 09/05/2026 07:44

Women want to be taken seriously at work. This means dressing professionally, blending in, creating a welcoming, nice environment for colleagues (and, in this case, students) and being judged on the quality of their work and character.

This - whatever is happening here - is the opposite of blending in and including everyone. It’s deliberately provocative, designed to make people (women and men) disguise their discomfort, and this person is getting their dopamine fix from riling everyone up, whether or not they’re showing it, or admitting to themselves.

It’s a dick move.

EmmyFr · 09/05/2026 07:49

@Forecastsayssnowbutthereisnosnow I don't have anything meaningful to have (I wholly agree with the majority here) but may I just thank you heartily for the title of this thread? I literally giggle every time I open FWR and see "Biggus Titus of OU". At least something good has come of it!

KnottyAuty · 09/05/2026 07:57

DH reminded me of this. No one thought this would be acceptable daywear back then. It was a massive joke to distract from a National football “disaster”

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Mmmnotsure · 09/05/2026 09:19

EmmyFr · 09/05/2026 07:49

@Forecastsayssnowbutthereisnosnow I don't have anything meaningful to have (I wholly agree with the majority here) but may I just thank you heartily for the title of this thread? I literally giggle every time I open FWR and see "Biggus Titus of OU". At least something good has come of it!

This.

Keeptoiletssafe · 09/05/2026 09:29

I'm really tempted to engage with some of the questions @oxfordfeminist

I’ve tempted you twice. Be great for an answer.

Forecastsayssunbutthereisnosun · 09/05/2026 09:33

EmmyFr · 09/05/2026 07:49

@Forecastsayssnowbutthereisnosnow I don't have anything meaningful to have (I wholly agree with the majority here) but may I just thank you heartily for the title of this thread? I literally giggle every time I open FWR and see "Biggus Titus of OU". At least something good has come of it!

You're very welcome. As the whole scenario was so Monty Pythonesque, I thought it warranted a Life of Brian reference.

I'm aware I have a different username but I am the OP. I had a brief 5 minutes one evening of thinking I really must reduce my MN time, so attempted to go cold turkey by deleting my account. Lasted 48 hours before re-joining. 😬

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 09/05/2026 09:47

EdithStourton · 07/05/2026 12:06

This is the question that I come back to repeatedly.

I've never had a reasonable answer.

https://scholarship.kentlaw.iit.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=3209&context=cklawreview
I read this article - it's called Drag = Blackface years ago, and the concluding sentence sums things up for me:
'Likewise, the drag queen is a symbol of everything women reject in men's thinking about gender, and the relish of drag performance - by performer and audience alike - is* *every woman's gall.'

Nicely argued paper, and (sadly) still as relevant today as when it was written. It applies outside what's narrowly called "drag" to a lot of what is now called "trans".

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 09/05/2026 10:05

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 09/05/2026 09:47

Nicely argued paper, and (sadly) still as relevant today as when it was written. It applies outside what's narrowly called "drag" to a lot of what is now called "trans".

Thanks for sharing @EdithStourton and for reminding me I wanted to read the linked article. Crikey, it’s prescient, isn’t it? Makes all the arguments we make on here. Ugh, when do we get to say stop with this parody of womanhood?

eta: A sample from the article:

DRAG = BLACKFACE
The culture and experience of women is not a costume. Everything I do is feminine, by definition, because I am female, while any decree about what is feminine restricts my range of options. When RuPaul says, "we're born naked and the rest is drag," he is wrong. He is in drag because he is a man, and he can stop being a woman whenever it becomes inconvenient. When being a woman is inconvenient for me, I need to remove the inconvenience. Male ideas of "femininity" are a major inconvenience to those of us who are actually women and have to live our lives in that state.

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 09/05/2026 10:10

KnottyAuty · 09/05/2026 07:14

This is why this whole thing is ridiculous. Deadnaming or using the pronoun is “literal violence” while a bloke in fake tits is just expressing himself. I think we would see quite a different reaction if any of us turned up as a parody of a TIM…. What are Oxford Uni thinking? It’s really making me think hard about whether a uni degree at this point is the right path for my kids. These institutions seem really unhealthy places with horribly misogynistic attitudes. I had been thinking a year out might be good but now thinking an extended break/travelling and then self employment/starting a business might be a much healthier way to go

Nah, he's annoying but he's one bloke at one university. He's not representative of anything much (apart from weak local management I suppose) Yes it's one kind of misogyny but the business and travel worlds are not exactly misogyny-free zones either and your DDs will encounter plenty of other kinds. They shouldn't let this put them off.

GenderlessVoid · 09/05/2026 10:10

KnottyAuty · 08/05/2026 22:54

Just looking up the Equality Act to see what it said about the Alison Bailey case and accidentally landed on this text which seems very relevant to Biggus Tittus:

https://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2010/15/data.pdf

40A Employer duty to prevent sexual harassment of employees

(1) An employer (A) must take reasonable steps to prevent sexual harassment of employees of A in the course of their employment.

(2) “Sexual harassment” in subsection (1) means harassment of the kind described in section 26(2) (unwanted conduct of a sexual nature).

(3) A contravention of subsection (1) (or a contravention of section 111 or 112 that relates to a contravention of subsection (1)) is enforceable as an unlawful act under Part 1 of the Equality Act 2006 (and, by virtue of section 120(8) and (9), is enforceable only by the Commission under that Part or by an employment tribunal in accordance with section 124A (compensation uplift in employee sexual harassment cases)).

And 26(2) says:
(2) A also harasses B if—
(a) A engages in unwanted conduct of a sexual nature, and
(b) the conduct has the purpose or effect referred to in subsection (1)(b).

and 1(b) states:
(b) the conduct has the purpose or effect of—
(i) violating B's dignity, or
(ii) creating an intimidating, hostile, degrading, humiliating or offensive environment for B.

Oxford Uni seems to be letting Matt create a hostile, degrading and offensive environment for some of the female staff and students.

Thanks, Knotty Auty.

Akua Reindorf KC and Naomi Cunningham posted about this on X. It's mentioned in this thread at page 24 for me. (Not saying you should have seen it bc it's a long thread).

Here is the link to Akua Reindorf's thread https://threadreaderapp.com/thread/2049489384945107214.html

Naomi Cunningham replied, saying
My only point of disagreement is that I feel rather more confident than Akua that wearing giant prosthetic breasts at work (or indeed anywhere else) is "conduct of a sexual nature." I honestly can't think what on earth it would be.

https://x.com/LoudBonnet/status/2049501190149243141

Akua was not as sure bc she thought the law was not clear about whether "conduct of a sexual nature" under s.26(2) applied to behaviour that was not targeted at an individual.

https://x.com/akuareindorf/status/2049502166834975231

Thread by @elonmusk on Thread Reader App

@akuareindorf: 1/ There are 3 kinds of relevant harassment For all 3, A engages in unwanted conduct which violates B’s dignity or creates an intimidating, hostile, degrading, humiliating or offensive environment for...…

https://threadreaderapp.com/thread/2049489384945107214.html

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 09/05/2026 10:18

Still dying to hear why indulging blokes tarting their fetish about in huge rubber tits in a professional role facing young people is supposedly 'trans inclusionary feminism'. Boundary between people with trans identities and people with major sexual behaviour problems unfit for the workplace seems to have become a bit lost there.

Unless we're now saying the quiet bit out loud and activists would like to openly acknowledge that in their view Trans/sexually and socially inappropriate and unacceptable has become one and the same thing. Which seems to me really transphobic. I have yet to see for example India Willoughby or the barrister White dressed inappropriately when working.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 09/05/2026 10:22

The 'feminism' descriptor there is also a bit dodgy; I would absolutely not support a woman flashing her tits around inappropriate in a professional workplace. Why would that be 'feminist' ffs?

lcakethereforeIam · 09/05/2026 11:38

I asked upthread but I'll repeat myself, what if Matt suddenly decided that to feel comfortable he needed to start wearing a codpiece à la Grayson Perry. Would that be okay? If not, why not?

Side issue, if you want to know where Grayson wore this note the 'Children with Cancer' sign in the background.

Eta MN might censor it, I wouldn't blame them. They may have a better grasp of what's appropriate than a children's cancer event...or an Oxford feminist college.

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EdithStourton · 09/05/2026 15:30

That's more a dildo than a codpiece.
Grim.

SinnerBoy · 09/05/2026 15:50

And the thing in his trousers looks like one, too.

lcakethereforeIam · 09/05/2026 16:21

Apologies, I thought I'd read the thread but if I did I'd missed that the 'codpiece' comparison had already been...ahem...raised by pp (around pg.9).

DrBlackbird · 09/05/2026 16:24

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 09/05/2026 10:10

Nah, he's annoying but he's one bloke at one university. He's not representative of anything much (apart from weak local management I suppose) Yes it's one kind of misogyny but the business and travel worlds are not exactly misogyny-free zones either and your DDs will encounter plenty of other kinds. They shouldn't let this put them off.

I agree but I’d also look carefully at the possible choices. I’m aware of one university with a Fetish Society that teaches 18 yr olds how to be tied up safely (ropes provided).

I wonder what sort of liberal progressive bloke likes to teach these 18 yr olds to do that? Just bringing his authentic self to work. Common safeguarding has gone out the window in allowing ‘liberal’ progressives full rein of policies and practices but which is actually anything but progressive.

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 09/05/2026 16:31

DrBlackbird · 09/05/2026 16:24

I agree but I’d also look carefully at the possible choices. I’m aware of one university with a Fetish Society that teaches 18 yr olds how to be tied up safely (ropes provided).

I wonder what sort of liberal progressive bloke likes to teach these 18 yr olds to do that? Just bringing his authentic self to work. Common safeguarding has gone out the window in allowing ‘liberal’ progressives full rein of policies and practices but which is actually anything but progressive.

W. T. A. F.

DeanElderberry · 09/05/2026 16:36

Stuff like that is why when the UK university system collapses some people will treat it as good riddance, rather than the appalling national tragedy it will be.

And the irony is that Oxford will keep right on trucking.

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