As said up thread the real problem is there is no organised, coherent application process for those seeking asylum in individual countries (this is what caused chaos when the UK said it would accept applications from Ukrainians).
This why we have the silly game, which a lot of people are making a lot of money out of, which is if you get to the UK you can claim asylum.
So, like it or not, even if a family as a whole wants to come to the UK from Afghanistan, or any number of countries where people are oppressed or starving, old fashioned sexism decides who goes, who stays to look after the children.
And even if not stated openly, women trying this route are from more likely to end up being exploited, raped and forced into prostitution.
If you were a cynic you might say that the current situation, created by various UK Governments, is intended to deliberately bring about really negative images of refugees.
If instead you saw planes or even cross channel ferries disembarking families with an voice over saying this family has a father bringing X skills, and a mother ready to work for the NHS there wouldn't be anything for all the outrage.
And as said on so many other threads, if more Brits aren't prepared to have children, we are going to need people who want to come and live here.
Of course it would be nice to think that the UK would want to work out a system that helped women who wanted to escape their oppression in a fundamentalist country.
If I remember rightly there was a privately organised escape route for some women from Afghanistan, but they were all women who had a level of education and high powered job experience.
So the ordinary Afghan woman on her own probably has little or no chance to apply.