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Touchdown at the Newest Bluestocking Inn. Pudding, cups of tea, the vegetable garden coming into its own, and gerbils beautiful gerbils all furry.

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DeanElderberry · 12/04/2026 18:36

All females welcome for intelligent discourse and non-harmful comestibles.

Touchdown at the Newest Bluestocking Inn. Pudding, cups of tea, the vegetable garden coming into its own, and gerbils beautiful gerbils all furry.
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AngleofRepose · 16/04/2026 08:54

EmpressaurusKitty · 15/04/2026 16:53

I’m so sorry, @AngleofRepose.

I fostered for 2 years & then Kitty arrived & announced that she was staying. So that was that.

oh, look at that face! Prettiest cat in the world ? Possibly!

AngleofRepose · 16/04/2026 08:56

AsWithGlad · 15/04/2026 23:56

I saw a badger in my tiny garden once: I took its photograph but must have deleted it by mistake. There are several badgers in the garden of the large establishment next door so it must have wandered away.

Then, when I had the patio doors open last (?) summer, I looked up to see a fox in my living room. I stood up to take its picture but it shot away.

Yes, I do live quite close to a city centre. 😕

A fox in your living room -that's astounding! It probably was as surprised to see you as you were to see it

DeanElderberry · 16/04/2026 09:21

A red squirrel came into our living room one day long ago, and hopped around, mostly along the tops of picture frames. The dogs completely ignored it, and it hopped off out again.

My father, always slightly obsessive about pictures hanging straight, then had a few happy hours with his spirit level.

Dogs were Hector and Gus, so it was pre 1993, and a hot summer hence an open door the squirrel could get in through.

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Chersfrozenface · 16/04/2026 09:31

Just updating @FuzzyPuffling - ignore us.

Latest on today's Spitfire flights.

" SPITFIRE 90 UPDATE - 2 FLIGHTS THURSDAY 16th.... information provided by spitfires.com

Latest route map for the flight from MOD St Atham to RAF St Mawgan

Flight 7 of 9 - Departing (subject to weather) from MOD St Athan at 10:00am on the 16th of April, during the flight K5054 will meet up alongside for an extended duration with 2 x QinetiQ Pilatus PC21 Trainers. Flight time approx 1 hour 05m.

Flight 8 of 9 - Route map will be posted upon release. Departing (subject to weather) from RAF St Mawgan mid afternoon (time TBC) on the 16th of April, during the flight K5054 will meet up alongside for a short duration with the RAF A400M. Flight time approx 0 hour 55m."

Also reports that departure time from St Athan will now be 10.30 due to weather.

Chersfrozenface · 16/04/2026 09:59

Also, I didn't answer @EdithStourton who asked what I was making that required boning.

Stays, or in period correct parlance, a pair of bodies - which, incidentally, is the origin of the word 'bodice'.

Less rigid than a Victorian corset since they don't involve steel boning, and can't be laced very tightly since the lacing holes are sewn, not metal grommets.

PastaAllaNorma · 16/04/2026 10:02

Very encouraging news from Dad - he survived surgery (which was definitely in doubt) the wildly erratic heart rate has stabilised and he's able to sit up and have breakfast.

Chersfrozenface · 16/04/2026 10:03

That's good news, @PastaAllaNorma.

MarieDeGournay · 16/04/2026 10:22

Chersfrozenface · 16/04/2026 09:31

Just updating @FuzzyPuffling - ignore us.

Latest on today's Spitfire flights.

" SPITFIRE 90 UPDATE - 2 FLIGHTS THURSDAY 16th.... information provided by spitfires.com

Latest route map for the flight from MOD St Atham to RAF St Mawgan

Flight 7 of 9 - Departing (subject to weather) from MOD St Athan at 10:00am on the 16th of April, during the flight K5054 will meet up alongside for an extended duration with 2 x QinetiQ Pilatus PC21 Trainers. Flight time approx 1 hour 05m.

Flight 8 of 9 - Route map will be posted upon release. Departing (subject to weather) from RAF St Mawgan mid afternoon (time TBC) on the 16th of April, during the flight K5054 will meet up alongside for a short duration with the RAF A400M. Flight time approx 0 hour 55m."

Also reports that departure time from St Athan will now be 10.30 due to weather.

The gerbils are onto it!

Touchdown at the Newest Bluestocking Inn. Pudding, cups of tea, the vegetable garden coming into its own, and gerbils beautiful gerbils all furry.
MarieDeGournay · 16/04/2026 10:25

PastaAllaNorma · 16/04/2026 10:02

Very encouraging news from Dad - he survived surgery (which was definitely in doubt) the wildly erratic heart rate has stabilised and he's able to sit up and have breakfast.

Great news about Mr Pasta Senior, Pasta! I bet he enjoyed that tea and toast like he's never enjoyed tea and toast before😄
Enjoy today, with that weight of your shoulders Flowers

MarieDeGournay · 16/04/2026 10:28

AngleofRepose · 16/04/2026 08:54

oh, look at that face! Prettiest cat in the world ? Possibly!

You know the way there's special Bluestocking magic which means that food and drink don't have troublesome things like gluten or calories etc?

Well the same magic means that every Stockinger's cat is 100% the prettiest cat in the worldSmile🐱

MarieDeGournay · 16/04/2026 10:32

I keep forgetting to express delight on her behalf, and envy on my own, that Errol is in Paris!
Something keeps cropping up just after you post something nice from there, Errol, and I get sidetracked - thank you for the reports and the lovely photos, hope you're having? have had? a lovely time in Paris 'au temps des lilas'Smile

MarieDeGournay · 16/04/2026 10:38

SionnachRuadh · 16/04/2026 00:03

My granny used to have a big fat black and white cat, and I remember once she went out in the evening, when the light was failing, to bring in the washing, and saw him sitting by the line, and had a whole conversation with him, and it wasn't until she got back indoors that she saw Harry dozing away in his chair as usual, and realised she'd been stood there talking to a badger.

I also remember a cat we once had who was very antisocial and would chase any other cats who turned up in the garden, but there was a fox cub who would come by and they would play together. They were friends, like in Beatrix Potter. He was a ginger cat, and not very bright, so he may have thought they were related.

I've completely taking over the airwaves😐I'm catching up on posts I missed!

There are so many lovely stories about badgers and foxes and so on but I love these two from Sionnach - chatting to a badger unbeknownst, and a cranky cat charmed by a wee fox cub Smile

MarieDeGournay · 16/04/2026 10:39

I'm going to make a cuppa now, so I won't be posting again for a bit, and y'all have a chance to get a word in edgeways nowGrin

AngleofRepose · 16/04/2026 10:40

PastaAllaNorma · 16/04/2026 10:02

Very encouraging news from Dad - he survived surgery (which was definitely in doubt) the wildly erratic heart rate has stabilised and he's able to sit up and have breakfast.

Pasta, I'm so glad you've had some good news!

AngleofRepose · 16/04/2026 10:41

MarieDeGournay · 16/04/2026 10:39

I'm going to make a cuppa now, so I won't be posting again for a bit, and y'all have a chance to get a word in edgeways nowGrin

Hmmm yes, I tend to do this as well. It's just so much more efficient

AuntieMsDamsonCrumble · 16/04/2026 11:26

Good news about your dad @PastaAllaNorma I hope his recovery continues apace.

I'm finding it difficult to keep up with the thread at the moment - it's all go.

Just wanted to say how lovely it is to read all the tales of flora and fauna.

Hope you enjoyed the Spitfire flypast @FuzzyPuffling We have a Spitfire museum at a private airfield a few miles from here, which is very popular. I'm also near the flight path for the annual airshow and get to see the planes coming in for their displays, including the Red Arrows.

I hope the tanks in the gerbil control room are not due to be deployed today @MarieDeGournay

One of my best memories of iconic planes is when, on a visit to Windsor Castle with some foreign visitors, we saw (and heard!) Concorde just after take-off from Heathrow. The sight of the ultra modern aircraft appearing just above the ancient towers of the castle (it was actually several miles away) and against the background of the steel-grey sky, was awe inspiring.

Edited for spelling

FranticFrankie · 16/04/2026 11:38

Good news @PastaAllaNorma - wishing him well

A friend saw two badgers recently, walking up the road together! Perhaps they'd been trying to get into the Bluey? Or maybe they'd been?🐾

MyrtleLion · 16/04/2026 12:21

The gerbils are tremendously excited about the Spitfire.

The Sleep and Dream Logistics Unit has quietly pivoted into full wartime mode.

At the centre, Commander Gwendoline is gripping the rail, eyes fixed on the route board with the intensity of someone who has absolutely decided this is now her life’s work. The Spitfire’s path has been translated into gerbil-scale operational detail: coloured pins, string lines, and at least three slightly conflicting interpretations of where “Bristol-ish” actually is.

Around the table, the junior gerbils are doing what they do best—pointing at things with sticks while looking extremely purposeful. One has commandeered the toy vehicles to simulate ground support (unrequested, but tolerated). Another is updating the chalkboard, which still faintly reads “Bluestockingers Asleep” beneath a hastily added “—unless Spitfire passes overhead.”

There is a noticeable tension between their original remit (gentle, reassuring sleep support) and their current priority (tracking an aircraft with military precision). No one has formally acknowledged this shift.

In the corner, a stack of sleep rota schedules lies untouched.

Somewhere in the pub, a patron is probably trying to drift off to a calming dream sequence… while six gerbils in uniform argue about airspeed and whether Swansea counts as “on the way.”

Obviously the map bears no resemblance to the actual route. But no-one is that surprised.

Touchdown at the Newest Bluestocking Inn. Pudding, cups of tea, the vegetable garden coming into its own, and gerbils beautiful gerbils all furry.
Magpiecomplex · 16/04/2026 12:29

I've been trying to get Gemini to help me decide whether a pair of sandals will fit, or be excruciatingly painful. It should be simple - give me a picture of my feet in the given sandals. It's given me pictures of my feet in two different pairs of sandals, a cheery warning to make sure they don't pinch (yes thanks, that's what you're supposed to be helping with) and when I got really specific, a total failure to understand that when I asked it to scale the picture of my feet so they would be the right size for the picture of the sandals, I wanted it to actually, y'know, scale the picture of my feet etc...
I may have to take a trip to Canterbury to try them on, this being the nearest physical shop. Grrr.

MarieDeGournay · 16/04/2026 12:48

Magpiecomplex · 16/04/2026 12:29

I've been trying to get Gemini to help me decide whether a pair of sandals will fit, or be excruciatingly painful. It should be simple - give me a picture of my feet in the given sandals. It's given me pictures of my feet in two different pairs of sandals, a cheery warning to make sure they don't pinch (yes thanks, that's what you're supposed to be helping with) and when I got really specific, a total failure to understand that when I asked it to scale the picture of my feet so they would be the right size for the picture of the sandals, I wanted it to actually, y'know, scale the picture of my feet etc...
I may have to take a trip to Canterbury to try them on, this being the nearest physical shop. Grrr.

Don't forget to tell us tales about all the interesting people you meet on your way to Canterbury😁

AsWithGlad · 16/04/2026 12:51

Excellent news @PastaAllaNorma . Best wishes for his comfortable recovery.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 16/04/2026 12:56

I am having sandal dilemmas too, @Magpiecomplex. I need a pair to go with the dress I’ve bought for ds2’s wedding in the autumn. I bought a pair of Varca sandals from Vinted, but they don’t fit - and I can’t keep on buying shoes in the hopes I’ll find a pair that does fit, so my choices are wither a pair of Very Sensible walking tyke sandals in red to match the dress, a pair of red ballet flats (which will rub my heel even if I’m in a wheelchair most of the day), or the Hush Puppy mules I wear all the time.

Oh the dilemmas involved in being a style icon. 😂😂😂

PastaAllaNorma · 16/04/2026 13:00

You're an inspiration, carrying that burden for us, Wole! I think I'm being stylish just by remembering to wear a bra when I leave the house!

My power chair and I are now on a lovely jaunt, seeing as we're going to Wales for Dad tomorrow for a few days.

I'm on a train to see Operation Mincemeat in Sheffield, which was one of my Christmas presents. I'm delighted I get to go after all

Magpiecomplex · 16/04/2026 13:04

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 16/04/2026 12:56

I am having sandal dilemmas too, @Magpiecomplex. I need a pair to go with the dress I’ve bought for ds2’s wedding in the autumn. I bought a pair of Varca sandals from Vinted, but they don’t fit - and I can’t keep on buying shoes in the hopes I’ll find a pair that does fit, so my choices are wither a pair of Very Sensible walking tyke sandals in red to match the dress, a pair of red ballet flats (which will rub my heel even if I’m in a wheelchair most of the day), or the Hush Puppy mules I wear all the time.

Oh the dilemmas involved in being a style icon. 😂😂😂

Ballet flats and preventative blister plasters? The ones I'm looking at are très sexy and from Hotter.

Magpiecomplex · 16/04/2026 13:08

MarieDeGournay · 16/04/2026 12:48

Don't forget to tell us tales about all the interesting people you meet on your way to Canterbury😁

I last did the trip almost exactly a year ago, on the train (the Canterbury ring road is a thing of nightmares) and found myself sitting behind a group of women who started talking about plastic surgery, moved on to skincare, then how much JK had ruined their childhoods, and "would you want to share a loo with a transman?" 🤦🏻‍♀️
Not sure what title I'd give that one!

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