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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

The new WI equality, diversity and inclusion policy - it’s worse and includes the thought police

321 replies

Marmaladelover · 27/02/2026 11:05

This is the new EDI policy all WIs have to sign and agree .

The last one was bad enough , the new one discriminates against anyone who doesn’t think Transwomen are women. Please note the sentence
We expect all those who engage in the WI movement to uphold the same values.

I am furious! So what to do about it ?

Main bits I disagree with copied below

Our inclusion of transgender women in activities outside of membership is based on our belief that being a woman is about biology and lived experience

One of the objectives

• Highlight and celebrate the diverse membership of the WI, and ensure that our wider movement offers support and fellowship to all women, including transgender women and others.

Aside from WI membership, we offer other ways to engage with the WI movement, locally, regionally and nationally, including being a WI Supporter and belonging to one
of our Sisterhood groups. We expect all those who engage in the WI movement to uphold the same values.

11. Transgender inclusion
The WI is an inclusive, supportive, and progressive organisation that offers different ways to engage in our movement for members and non-members. The WI provides
educational opportunities and the platform to campaign on important issues, whilst celebrating the WI’s long history of trans inclusion, and embracing the sisterhood and
solidarity of our movement
.
Transgender women are welcomed to a range of local and national activities that are open to non-members, as well as our national Supporter scheme. Based on the WI’s
history of trans inclusion, we believe that including transgender women in these activities enriches our organisation to ensure we are a place for both biological women and transgender women to celebrate who they are and influence positive change in their communities.

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ApplebyArrows · 27/02/2026 18:16

Why would a person who transitioned purely because of their own personal feelings about their own personal body care if they are allowed in a women's social club or not? If they've got the body they want then what organisations they're allowed to join shouldn't make any difference to anything. If they don't have the body they want then what organisations they're allowed to join isn't going to change that.

NowNoMoreBiscuits · 27/02/2026 18:16

As regards the trans son trans daughter debate.

Helen Joyce of Sex Matters said that these parents are writing a cheque that they cannot cash. Despite their own affirmation that their son/daughter is now the opposite sex the truth is that they aren’t, and society will not see them as such.

In schools ‘being trans’ is now becoming yesterday’s trend. Those still enmeshed, often meeting the findings outlined in the Cass report (often autistic, same sex attracted, bereaved, trauma, in care, abused, anxious, depressed) are stuck in their social transition.

The setting I worked in several years ago, we had 4 pre teen and teenage girls all identify as trans. All of them were autistic and had at least two of the other experiences/issues in that list.

As Billboard Chris states, there’s no right or wrong way to be a girl or a boy. and it’s incredibly regressive to suggest that a boy or girl not matching the sex stereotypes is possibly ‘the other sex’. As he says, two sexes, no such thing as gender and infinite personalities.

Returning to Helen Joyce, she said that parents who had transitioned their children will never give up this ideology. To do so would be to admit to the very worst thing, that you had harmed your own child.

Ramblingnamechanger · 27/02/2026 18:19

Any woman here knows exactly why men are not welcome in our groups. Moreover since the 90s womens and lesbians groups have been destroyed by men who say they are women, as soon as one is let in. We are sick of it , and having to meet underground as a result. We are not letting a tiny part of this ideology into our thoughts so don’t expect us to be sympathetic.

MyAmpleSheep · 27/02/2026 18:29

igivein · 27/02/2026 17:44

So, to practicalities.
I've got a WI committee meeting next week and this policy is on the agenda for discussion.
I don't believe it's a lawful policy. I don't think they can compel my beliefs, and I'm GC. I also think they can't chuck me out for being GC (Forstater, but I'm not sure if this applies outside of employment).
I think including TIM in non-member events, but not other men is not legal. A lot of our group's non-member events are women-only, so would exclude TIM. Where they're not women-only then TIM would be welcome, but so would all other men. I think this is in line with the SC ruling.
I think the whole 'sisterhood groups' thing puts the WI on very dodgy ground as it would include TIM but not other men. I would not be happy with part of my membership fees being used to fund this activity that I believe to be unlawful.
I have to go out now but will check back later. I would really appreciate advice on whether I've got my facts / ideas straight, before I advocate for our group to challenge this policy.
I really don't want this stupid policy to be the hill that I have to die on, but I can't just sign up to it.

I think you might want to refer to the charitable purpose of the National Federation of Women's Institutes of ENGLAND, WALES, JERSEY, GUERNSEY AND THE ISLE OF MAN, charity number 803793 which is listed according to the Charity Commission:

THE MAIN PURPOSES OF THE WOMEN'S INSTITUTE ORGANISATION ARE: (A) TO ADVANCE THE EDUCATION OF WOMEN AND GIRLS FOR THE PUBLIC BENEFIT IN ALL AREAS INCLUDING (WITHOUT LIMITATION): (I) LOCAL, NATIONAL AND INTERNATIONAL ISSUES OF POLITICAL AND SOCIAL IMPORTANCE; (II) MUSIC, DRAMA AND OTHER CULTURAL SUBJECTS; AND (III) ALL BRANCHES OF AGRICULTURE, CRAFTS, HOME ECONOMICS, SCIENCE, HEALTH, AND SOCIAL WELFARE; (B) TO PROMOTE SUSTAINABLE DEVELOPMENT FOR THE PUBLIC BENEFIT BY: (I) EDUCATING PEOPLE IN THE PRESERVATION, CONSERVATION AND PROTECTION OF THE ENVIRONMENT AND THE PRUDENT USE OF NATURAL RESOURCES; AND (II) PROMOTING SUSTAINABLE MEANS OF ACHIEVING ECONOMIC GROWTH AND REGENERATION; (C) TO ADVANCE HEALTH FOR THE PUBLIC BENEFIT; AND (D) TO ADVANCE CITIZENSHIP FOR THE PUBLIC BENEFIT BY THE PROMOTION OF CIVIC RESPONSIBILITY AND VOLUNTEERING.

And ask them to justify how including TiMs but not other men advances their charitable aims.

Those aims are the only lawful way the charity can use its resources.

ArabellaScott · 27/02/2026 18:31

igivein · 27/02/2026 17:44

So, to practicalities.
I've got a WI committee meeting next week and this policy is on the agenda for discussion.
I don't believe it's a lawful policy. I don't think they can compel my beliefs, and I'm GC. I also think they can't chuck me out for being GC (Forstater, but I'm not sure if this applies outside of employment).
I think including TIM in non-member events, but not other men is not legal. A lot of our group's non-member events are women-only, so would exclude TIM. Where they're not women-only then TIM would be welcome, but so would all other men. I think this is in line with the SC ruling.
I think the whole 'sisterhood groups' thing puts the WI on very dodgy ground as it would include TIM but not other men. I would not be happy with part of my membership fees being used to fund this activity that I believe to be unlawful.
I have to go out now but will check back later. I would really appreciate advice on whether I've got my facts / ideas straight, before I advocate for our group to challenge this policy.
I really don't want this stupid policy to be the hill that I have to die on, but I can't just sign up to it.

https://www.equalityhumanrights.com/equality/equality-act-2010/equality-act-2010-guiding-principles-associations?utm_source=chatgpt.com

GC beliefs are protected in law and this applies to membership organisations. Its been tested wrt Green Party v Sharar Ali, iirc, and there was a report commissioned by the GPEW that confirmed this. They can no more expel you for GC views than they could expel you for any other protected characteristic.

DialSquare · 27/02/2026 18:31

Another2Cats · 27/02/2026 18:00

The WI settled with my DH (and paid his legal costs) back at the end of December.

The difference here is that the WI used to accept trans-identifying men as full members of the WI. They are now saying:

"Transgender women are welcomed to a range of local and national activities that are open to non-members" [emphasis added].

My take on that is that an event which accepts non-members allows men of any description to attend. If there are limits on what type of non-members may attend then that would be a different story.

Sorry, I must have missed the update. Glad they settled.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 27/02/2026 18:38

igivein · 27/02/2026 18:02

Thanks @Coatsoff42 , it helps to know I'm making sense.
I don't think we could put it forward to support all disadvantaged men however they are living without discrimination, because that would go against the charitable purpose of the WI being about supporting and educating women.

Wholly agree. Women are enough. Women as half of the human race have many specific disadvantages, needs, groups desperate for support, the purpose of the WI is to support women.

The women who find these women so unimportant and boring that it's only worth it if they can involve men really need to learn more about their own sex and their own internalised sexism.

MyAmpleSheep · 27/02/2026 18:59

@igivein Here's another point you might want to raise:

As a single protected characteristic association (women only) the WI has a defence to a challenge from men denied membership.

But: once an organization runs events open to non-members it is now operating 'services' to the public, and those don't have blanket permission to exclude on the basis of protected characteristics: not even for women only. Women only services open to the public have to meet the tests specified in schedule 3 of the EA to justify the inherent sex discrimination involved. It's not a given.

It's easy to assume that open to the public events (like, RSPB, take note: bird walks) are just fine, which they would be if for members. It would be even harder to justify including women and trans identifying men only into an event. There are legitimate reasons to have women only services, but they must be carefully thought through, and if those reasons can be seen to be false because TiMs are also allowed to enter then any defence against unlawful discrimination is lost.

To put it another way: any event including TiMs but not @Another2Cats 's husband leaves the WI open to exactly the same legal action her husband initiated for being denied membership.

Another2Cats · 27/02/2026 19:04

igivein · 27/02/2026 18:05

We have some non-member events that are women-only. For example we have a book group that non-members can attend, but it's women-only. We made this decision when we set it up as we felt that allowing men to come would change the dynamic.

Yes, of course. Sorry, it's my fault for not fully explaining my thoughts.

I was trying to say that if trans-identifying men were able to attend then all men must be allowed to attend

MyAmpleSheep · 27/02/2026 19:10

igivein · 27/02/2026 18:05

We have some non-member events that are women-only. For example we have a book group that non-members can attend, but it's women-only. We made this decision when we set it up as we felt that allowing men to come would change the dynamic.

As a mental exercise, you might consider how you would justify running a single-sex women only public service against a hypothetical claim of discrimination from a man (any man).

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 27/02/2026 19:24

No one is talking about hate. Would it be hateful to run a youth club for under 18s and exclude adults (even ones who identify as young at heart)?

When did disagreement become 'hate', or even being able to notice that some things (men) are different to some other things (women)?

Its all such hyperbolic nonsense. (See also 'can't exist in public).

It must be heartbreaking to have a child mixed up in all of this. Its still not reasonable though to expect 51% of the population to give up all their spaces and services because otherwise your child will be sad.

Read '(un)kind' by Victoria Smith.

Another2Cats · 27/02/2026 19:24

igivein · 27/02/2026 18:02

Thanks @Coatsoff42 , it helps to know I'm making sense.
I don't think we could put it forward to support all disadvantaged men however they are living without discrimination, because that would go against the charitable purpose of the WI being about supporting and educating women.

I would agree with you. The charitable objects are very clear about it primarily being for the benefit of women.

However, just a very small point, the latest constitution does include as one of the charitable objects:

(c) to advance health for the public benefit;

So it would be open to the WI to help with initiatives that would help "advance health for the public benefit" which might include eg learning disabled people (both men and women).

But I don't believe that help would include offering WI membership to learning disabled men (or any other type of men) for example.

EuclidianGeometryFan · 27/02/2026 19:28

MyAmpleSheep · 27/02/2026 18:59

@igivein Here's another point you might want to raise:

As a single protected characteristic association (women only) the WI has a defence to a challenge from men denied membership.

But: once an organization runs events open to non-members it is now operating 'services' to the public, and those don't have blanket permission to exclude on the basis of protected characteristics: not even for women only. Women only services open to the public have to meet the tests specified in schedule 3 of the EA to justify the inherent sex discrimination involved. It's not a given.

It's easy to assume that open to the public events (like, RSPB, take note: bird walks) are just fine, which they would be if for members. It would be even harder to justify including women and trans identifying men only into an event. There are legitimate reasons to have women only services, but they must be carefully thought through, and if those reasons can be seen to be false because TiMs are also allowed to enter then any defence against unlawful discrimination is lost.

To put it another way: any event including TiMs but not @Another2Cats 's husband leaves the WI open to exactly the same legal action her husband initiated for being denied membership.

Edited

once an organization runs events open to non-members it is now operating 'services' to the public

Is this clear in law? Does it depend on the status of the organisation, or the definition of 'services'?

Another2Cats · 27/02/2026 19:38

igivein · 27/02/2026 17:44

So, to practicalities.
I've got a WI committee meeting next week and this policy is on the agenda for discussion.
I don't believe it's a lawful policy. I don't think they can compel my beliefs, and I'm GC. I also think they can't chuck me out for being GC (Forstater, but I'm not sure if this applies outside of employment).
I think including TIM in non-member events, but not other men is not legal. A lot of our group's non-member events are women-only, so would exclude TIM. Where they're not women-only then TIM would be welcome, but so would all other men. I think this is in line with the SC ruling.
I think the whole 'sisterhood groups' thing puts the WI on very dodgy ground as it would include TIM but not other men. I would not be happy with part of my membership fees being used to fund this activity that I believe to be unlawful.
I have to go out now but will check back later. I would really appreciate advice on whether I've got my facts / ideas straight, before I advocate for our group to challenge this policy.
I really don't want this stupid policy to be the hill that I have to die on, but I can't just sign up to it.

"So, to practicalities ...

I think the whole 'sisterhood groups' thing puts the WI on very dodgy ground as it would include TIM but not other men."

I think that a very important issue is who exactly is allowed to attend the 'sisterhood groups'? What rules or policies exist in writing about this?

If you push to see what the actual rules say about who is allowed to attend (and also, who is paying for these events) then this will clear everything up. They must have some written policy about who can attend and who cannot.

Seeing the policy written down is the first thing to get hold of. If the policy says that anyone can attend a 'sisterhood group' then that would be lawful. If it says something else then that is a whole other ball game.

MyAmpleSheep · 27/02/2026 19:44

EuclidianGeometryFan · 27/02/2026 19:28

once an organization runs events open to non-members it is now operating 'services' to the public

Is this clear in law? Does it depend on the status of the organisation, or the definition of 'services'?

It's very clear in law.

An association can't discriminate (as defined in the Act) amongst its members; it can, however deny membership to people who don't share one (or more) PCs, and then have an event open only to members on a non-discriminatory basis.

As far as services go, section 29 of the Act begins:

A person (a “service-provider”) concerned with the provision of a service to the public or a section of the public (for payment or not) must not discriminate...

So any service provided to the public or a section of the public - even if free - may not offered on a discriminatory basis, regardless of who (or what organisation) offers it.

The difference between an association's book club and an open to the public book club is that the association must have more than 25 members and rules for membership.

Then you need to get into the weeds of Schedule 3, which lists the exceptions where you can discriminate who a service is provided to.

We spend a lot of time reading and writing about justifying excluding TiMs from women only spaces, services, associations etc. In doing so we only have in our frame of reference women only services, spaces like toilets, crisis centres etc. which have already and unremarkably passed the threshold for one of the exceptions that makes it lawful to exclude men, and for many of those (toilets) it's only lawful because there's an exact equivalent men only service. It's easy but wrong to assume that any service can be provided to women only, just because.

That's the argument against "trans inclusive single sex" services: there are only certain reasons you can exclude men at all, and if you include some men you can't hang on to those reasons any more, so the exclusion of the other men becomes unlawful. Or so the argument goes.

I'd like to see the RSPB publish a justification for a women only bird-walk, specifically in terms of schedule 3. I think it's justifiable, but I think the exercise of doing so would focus the right minds on why a "trans-inclusive women only bird-walk" is a problem.

Ditto the WI for whatever it has planned.

Haulage · 27/02/2026 19:53

FlirtsWithRhinos · 27/02/2026 14:57

  1. please don't insult us with milquetoast AI slop
  2. assuming a human was involved somewhere in this and it does express their actual beliefs:
  • This is not rocket science. Female people exist. So if you believe that something in trans women (men)'s minds makes them somehow really (or even just a bit more like) women, makes them really (or just a bit) interchangeable with people who are physically female, you are also unavoidably saying that the thing that makes us women is also partially or fully in our minds, and therefore that there are ways of thinking that are "correct" for women and ways of thinking that that are not.
  • Furthermore, you are disconnecting the real history of women, the one in which we were exploited, disempowered, marginalized and abused by society's norms and often through the actual law because of our sex, from the reality and position of women in society today and from the very reason we need female-only supports and spaces, and replacing that history and meaning with some sort of fluffy "all girls together" fantasy that not only trivializes the very real inequalities and challenges we still face, but also prevents these provisions achieving the very purpose for which they exist.

So while you might be super-happy-smiley excited about that wonderful sexism and the way it forces us all to participate in trans people's disordered and prejudiced ideas about what type of mind is right for which body, please don't patronize women who think about the implications of this more deeply than you.

👏👏👏
Brava

FlirtsWithRhinos · 27/02/2026 22:14

If you want a group that excludes certain women, why don't you go from it yourself instead of trying to force other women to do what YOU want?

Ah, the TRA catch 22.

We don't want to stop women getting together without us when it's justified, oh heavens no. We aren't like that at all. We just want to stop them when it's done for transphobic reasons.

Of course, we also say that excluding trans women is by definition transphobic because noticing there's any difference between transwomen and women in the first place is transphobic. So any actual action by any actual women to set up their own spaces and supports is absolutely a legitimate target, of course.

But not because it's women and we want to control and dominate them, oh no! Just because in the specific case of it ever actually happening, it's transphobic.

But we don't want to stop women getting together without us when it's justified, oh heavens no. We aren't like that at all.

SidewaysOtter · 27/02/2026 22:21

ATranssexualWoman · 27/02/2026 16:09

Men who feel like they're women don't belong in the WI, but that's got nothing to do with trans women who absolutely do belong in the WI.

If you want a group that excludes certain women, why don't you go from it yourself instead of trying to force other women to do what YOU want?

We’ve got such a group, mate. It’s called the WI and it’s for women. Women, by law, are defined as biological females (that’s the only definition of women so there’s none of this “certain” women bullshit) and the WI should not be open to men.

Trans women are men. You’re a man. Stay out of women’s spaces because they’re not for you.

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 27/02/2026 22:30

sarahd89 · 27/02/2026 15:11

I'm not AI slop. I'm a mother who has spent four years reading, thinking, and arguing about these questions because my child's life depends on getting them right. You can disagree with me, but please don't dismiss me as not having thought about this.
On your substantive points:
You're arguing that if we accept trans women have any claim to womanhood, we're necessarily saying there's a "correct" way for women to think. I don't agree. My daughter didn't transition because she likes pink or wants to be nurturing or thinks in some stereotypically feminine way. She transitioned because her relationship to her body was unbearable in a way that had nothing to do with personality or interests or ways of thinking. She's still the same person she always was. She just isn't in constant distress anymore.
On your second point, about women's history and the material basis of oppression: I don't disagree that women have been oppressed because of their sex. That's obviously true. I don't think acknowledging my daughter's existence erases that history or trivialises the challenges women still face.
But here's what I notice. You're telling me I haven't thought deeply enough. You're telling me I'm participating in sexism. You're telling me my views are disordered and prejudiced. And yet you haven't asked me a single question. You haven't engaged with the possibility that I might have reasons for my position that aren't stupidity or shallow thinking.
I'm willing to sit with the discomfort of disagreement. I'm willing to examine my own views. Are you?

what your child has or hasn’t done with their body is irrelevant to women. I’m glad it’s worked and they are more comfortable. They are still not female.

teawamutu · 27/02/2026 22:31

sarahd89 · 27/02/2026 15:12

I'm aware you see my daughter as my son. You've made that clear. Repeating it doesn't change my view, and I suspect my disagreement doesn't change yours.
But to answer your actual question about relevance to the WI discussion:
The policy we're discussing includes trans women in non-membership activities. That's the stated position of the organisation. You object to it. I don't. We disagree about whether that policy is right.
My daughter is relevant because she's why I'm in this conversation at all. Before she came out, I probably would have had vague opinions on these questions and moved on with my day. Now I don't have that luxury. Every policy, every debate, every forum thread is about whether my child gets to exist in public life or not.
You might say that's emotional reasoning. That my personal stake clouds my judgment. Maybe. But I'd gently suggest that having no personal stake doesn't automatically make someone's judgment clearer. It sometimes just makes it easier to treat other people's lives as abstractions.
I'm not asking you to agree with me. I'm not even asking you to stop thinking what you think. I'm asking whether there's any version of this conversation where we're actually talking to each other rather than past each other.
What would you want me to understand about your position that you don't think I've grasped?

That your child is, remains, and ever will be, male. And however sweet he is and however sad it makes him, he isn't entitled to, or welcome in, female spaces.

Women and girls matter and they deserve space away from males. That's it, and that's all.

ArabellaScott · 27/02/2026 23:22

teawamutu · 27/02/2026 22:31

That your child is, remains, and ever will be, male. And however sweet he is and however sad it makes him, he isn't entitled to, or welcome in, female spaces.

Women and girls matter and they deserve space away from males. That's it, and that's all.

Yes.

My daughter's rights matter just as much as someone's son's. She is entitled to a single sex space for privacy, dignity, and safety.

A male will never be or become female. He does not and cannot know what it means to be a girl or a woman. He may feel unhappy about his male body - that is unfortunate, but it doesnt mean my daughter is obliged to give up her spaces and rights to make him feel better.

Easytoconfuse · 28/02/2026 15:51

ATranssexualWoman · 27/02/2026 16:08

I hope your daughter is going well amongst all this. Transition saved my life and turned me from an isolated and depressed boy into the confident and outgoing woman I am today. Supporting your daughter is so important and I know how much it will mean to her.

This place doesn't care how much it benefits your daughter to be the person she truly is, the people here only care about their existing ingrained prejudice against trans people's existence.

Aren't you amazing to know what everyone here thinks and believes? Do you do lottery numbers as well?

It's almost as if you have some ingrained prejudice against anyone who holds the protected belief that the words male and female are defined by biology not beliefs.

Easytoconfuse · 28/02/2026 15:53

ATranssexualWoman · 27/02/2026 16:11

Unless of course that opinion is being pro-trans in which cause TERFs like to use lawfare and threats of legal action to force those women into submission

As opposed to organisations who use disciplinary action to crush women who hold a protected belief that has been upheld in the Supreme Court. Or those who turn up at meetings to disrupt them. Or threaten women physically.

Easytoconfuse · 28/02/2026 15:55

dotsock · 27/02/2026 16:14

Sorry? If you look again you'll see that I agree with you and as I said before their is nothing in a trans identifying males "lived experience" that is remotely female or related to real women. Essentially either something is for women only i.e. actually female or if it insisted on admitting males who choose to identify as women then its mixed sex admitting both men and women.

I agree that women for any reason but especially those who have been victims to male violence and abuse should be able to rely on organisations like the WI not to throw them under a bus to appease the dubious desires of a certain group of men.

I'm sorry too, because I was agreeing with you and trying to show the absurdity of this common trans attitude that goes on about their feelings while dismissing other people's

EyesOpening · 28/02/2026 19:10

ATranssexualWoman · 27/02/2026 16:09

Men who feel like they're women don't belong in the WI, but that's got nothing to do with trans women who absolutely do belong in the WI.

If you want a group that excludes certain women, why don't you go from it yourself instead of trying to force other women to do what YOU want?

Men who feel like they're women don't belong in the WI, but that's got nothing to do with trans women who absolutely do belong in the WI.

According to you maybe but not the law of the land which is what counts, take it up with The Supreme Court.

If you want a group that excludes certain women, why don't you go from it yourself instead of trying to force other women to do what YOU want?

Like Sisters Heal have tried to do, do you mean?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c8jxek8w8m0o?

Rosie Hayes told the BBC multiple venues in Brighton had cancelled or stopped hosting trauma-healing classes organised by her group Sisters Heal for the victims of sexual assault, rape and domestic abuse, which were limited to "biological women only".
She has claimed the venues were pressured into dropping the event due to "intense harassment" from what she called "trans activists".

She continued that, since the trans community in Brighton had access to mixed spaces and their own dedicated services, women should have their own spaces too.

Terf Watch Brighton said the line drawn for the need for "single-sex services" was "arbitrary, unevidenced, and based on prejudiced myths about how gender operates in society".

A woman in a colourful jacket.

Row breaks out over event's single-sex policy in Brighton

One woman claims "trans activists" have harassed venues, although this is disputed.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c8jxek8w8m0o