Ill come back tomorrow to engage with you all if i have the energy, been a while since i debated this topic this long, its as exhausting as i remember!
Apologies for anyone who may of been engaging with me today and i didn't always reply to, hopefully you can appreciate i have about 20 people debating with me at this point all on slightly different areas :D
im off to make a sphag bol and spend some time with the kiddos, hope you all have a great night, hopefully we all remember that we may have differences but ultimatel, hopefully we all want the same thing, for everyone to be able to just be happy and healthy!
I’ll leave you with this thought specifically around safe spaces as its a hot topic on this and requires great thought and consideration.
women needed safe spaces because the main threat to their safety historically came from men. Those protections were created in response to male violence and long‑standing misogyny — that’s the foundation of the whole framework we’re talking about.
But that history isn’t a reason to target trans people. They didn’t create the problem, and they’re not the ones women needed protecting from. The roots of all this lie in male dominance, not in people who are simply trying to live their lives without harm.
If the goal is a fair society where everyone can coexist without conflict, it’s worth noting that the Nordic countries are already trying to model this. They’ve been working on practical solutions that balance women’s safety, trans people’s dignity, and social cohesion — things like mixed‑use facilities alongside protected spaces, and policy frameworks that focus on reducing friction rather than creating new fault lines.
That’s the kind of direction the UK civil service position will hopefully be aiming towards: not picking sides, but building systems where people can actually live alongside each other without turning every issue into a culture war.
or so one would hope :)