Collat, you lost me at
About a year and a half ago, i was on your side of the debate... until someone pointed out that sex and gender is different... i went and did some research ..
There's nothing wrong with not knowing something, there's loads of stuff I don't know, but I've known for decades that sex and gender are different.
You only found that out about a year and a half ago. OK, fine.
But your attitude is condescending; you write as if you are talking to people who have not had that revelation that you had a year and a half ago, and have not done any research, who think sex and gender are the same thing, who have not studied the subject in great detail, who have not, in some cases, got professional qualifications in areas related to sex and gender, who have not thought as deeply as you have about this topic..
We have- most of us for more than a year and a half. We've been around this block, we've done our research, we've verified our scientific facts, and on that basis we've formed our opinions. We defend our opinions on the basis of verifiable facts.
Inconvenient for some, obviously...