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Is the Gender Critical Movement Bound to Remain Rudderless?

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UtopiaPlanitia · 21/12/2025 22:17

I came across a recommendation on TwiX for this interesting article and thought I'd post a link here (with a few excerpts to give an idea) for anyone who might be interested.

https://www.the11thhourblog.com/post/is-the-gender-critical-movement-bound-to-remain-rudderless

'For all its apparent moral clarity and empirical grounding, the gender critical movement suffers from a deep structural weakness. It lacks a horizon, a vision to move toward. Though move it does, it is rudderless, hitting targets on its way to nowhere definite or well-defined.

And without any clear vision, it’s destined to remain merely reactive, the reluctance or inability to say what it’s for or what kind of world it’s attempting to bring into being likely to ensure its eventual failure to win institutional power or systemic reform.

Every transformative movement needs the vision of a future worth defending beyond merely resisting the course of events and the GC project is no different…

…As such then, the movement resists but doesn’t envision what its own success looks like, thereby confining itself to the conceptual and institutional boundaries set by the very ‘gender industrial complex’ it opposes.

…The ‘trans-activist’ (or ‘sex denialism’) side, in contrast - along with the wider techno-capital system in which we, and it, find ourselves situated does have a vision – a horizon toward which it’s heading. It imagines a future where everything about us is flexible, modifiable, and optimizable. A world where identity, bodies, and even ordinary life can be upgraded, medicalized, data-tracked, and endlessly redesigned, all framed as liberation or ‘becoming your truest self.’

But underneath the uplifting language a simpler logic is at work: turn everything into something that can be engineered, monetized, connected, or (ideally) all three.

…[gender identity] is the ideal entry point for a form of capitalism that now treats the human body and personal identity as further sites to extract value from.

This is why “gender” has become a privileged site of transformation. It isn’t uniquely ‘fragile’ (as some would so vocally claim) but it is viewed by the system as uniquely modifiable making it a space perfectly suited for ‘optimization’, where the ‘optimal’ is simply the continued expansion of the system itself…'

Is The Gender Critical Movement Bound to Remain Rudderless?

By Ian DavidA Movement Without A HorizonFor all its apparent moral clarity and empirical grounding, the gender critical movement suffers from a deep structural weakness. It lacks a horizon, a vision to move toward. Though move it does, it is rudderless...

https://www.the11thhourblog.com/post/is-the-gender-critical-movement-bound-to-remain-rudderless

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1984Now · 22/12/2025 19:07

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 22/12/2025 18:55

Yes.

Streeting is one of the biggest disappointments in modern politics. So instrumental in getting GC voters to placate their fears over Sir Keir "99% of women don't have a penis" Starmer, straddling the divide of seemingly being skeptical on Stonewall Law, while maintaining the modern left's Live Your Best Life acceptance of the concept of the trans child. Coming out to uphold Cass and even the SC ruling in the faint praise way that is the best anyone could hope for.
Yet in championing the PB trial, he ties his colours to the mast, and comes full circle back to everything he always thought about GC women, and was never slow to tell them on Twitter, 7-8 years ago.
The Q is, do Labour survive this storm, Streeting unconscionably putting this cohort test group in danger, Phillipson looking to kick roll out of advice from the SC ruling, Starmer permitting both of these on his watch (and I'd add his lack of urgency on the grooming gangs inquiry, using a Labour peer as head)?
Or will women en masse vote Labour again because they truly believe the party has been open and honest with them, and has women and children's best interests at heart?

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 22/12/2025 19:12

There really is no disgust like the disgust when you realise how blatantly and shamelessly you were lied to.

I think Labour have spent the 'believe in who we were in our imaginations thirty years ago' coin though, even with women who against their own interests, again and again, are willing to try and understand and think the best of people. Not realising that often those people are laughing at them for being such gullible idiots.

Carla786 · 22/12/2025 19:12

moto748e · 22/12/2025 18:22

Can't begin to imagine what it was like for women back in the days when 8 or 10 kids was commonplace. And almost certainly, even more pregnancies. The Good Old Days weren't indeed all they are cracked up to be, whatever the drawbacks of the Pill.

Yes, not to mention the higher rates of maternal mortality then... Maternity care in UK is terrible but it's also one area where we CAN measurably say there has been tremendous progress.

Carla786 · 22/12/2025 19:15

FallenSloppyDead2 · 22/12/2025 18:33

Is the Pill the first time we have used medication to fix something that isn't broken, so to speak? I guess cosmetic surgeries would come under this heading too.

Hmm...possibly. I want to think further about this.

Otoh it's fair to point out the Pill can be used to regulate periods, though this isn't the most common use, and the use of it by GPs etc to manage PCOS is questionable.

Carla786 · 22/12/2025 19:17

FallenSloppyDead2 · 22/12/2025 18:42

@Carla786 I think there should be birth certificates with biological parents on, but also parenting certificates to show who is actually raising the child & being the parent in daily life.

Interesting thought. Thanks

Some of the (more speculative) science is looking at using cells from each person in same-sex relationships so that the child genetically belongs to both of them.

(Bilek is a woman btw)

Thank you, yes there are definitely serious ethical questions about that.

Sorry for calling Bilek 'he'! I thought there was a transwoman who had investigated some of this & I seem to have mixed them up with Bilek.

Carla786 · 22/12/2025 19:20

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 22/12/2025 19:00

Women have done everything they can think of for millenia to try to stop men from leaving us pregnant. Inserting foreign objects in the uterus, drinking concoctions of herbs, taking sylphium until it was overharvested to extinction, putting vinegar-soaked sponges into our vaginas, using strips of bamboo as curettes for abortions, you name it, we have done it.

What's broken is the male sexual appetite and entitlement, and yet it's us who is left trying to fix it.

Great post. Otoh, women also want sex...I mean, I know you're not saying they don't, but rather putting the focus on men who push for sex/lie & then abandon, but I think it's also fair to point out that even if men weren't (sadly) often lying/abandoning/pressuring women into sex, women would still want sex without having to have a baby & unwanted pregnancies would still be an issue.

TempestTost · 22/12/2025 19:22

nicepotoftea · 22/12/2025 18:05

There is a significant change of perspective from, let's fix this part of your body that isn't working properly, and restore health, vs, let's take this part of your body that is working as it ought to and stop it from working the way it is supposed to.

Having seen the impact of unplanned pregnancy on women in my family before the availability of contraception, I would argue that 'the body working the way it is supposed to' might not be all it's cracked up to be.

That's not really the point, is it.

It is a huge shift to see tech as a way to heal a body that is not working properly, to one that is changing the nature of the body itself.

It is a huge shift to say,, not, we should live in a way that is in harmony with the real needs of our body, in terms of eating, reproduction, and so on, to, let's change what it is to be human into some conceptualisation of what we would like it to mean.

That is the mindset that we are in now in terms of things like cosmetic procedures or gender reassignment - it makes total sense within that paradigm.

Imdunfer · 22/12/2025 19:27

There is nothing wrong with the gender critical movement being about protecting existing women's rights.

It does not need a horizon or any other future to move towards than refusing to give up existing women's rights.

It is not rudderless, the authors don't seem to have heard of Sex Matters, who are doing great work.

TempestTost · 22/12/2025 19:28

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 22/12/2025 18:49

The Vorkosigan Saga idea of uterine replicators disintegrates on contact with medical ethics and the realisation that we aren't even close to understanding gestation yet.

You'd have to have a means of testing them ethically on embryoes, foetuses, and babies. There is no means to ethically test them on that class of very young humans.

As for us losing that reproductive role: we'd still have to choose between contraception with a risk of failure, or sexual abstinence, to avoid pregnancy. Men would still not face that choice. I've spent my whole life using the most reliable contraceptives possible, some of which turned out to endanger my life, to avoid becoming a mother. The reproductive role might be latent, it might be one that we reject, but we, never men, are still the ones who have to alter our bodies because of it.

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All you would have to do is reclassify infants up to a certain point as not people.

Or possibly certain ones, maybe ones without parents, or the products of unsuccessful abortions, or human-ape hybrids, or ones that will be euthanized under medically assisted death programs, or ones produced by surrogates for the purpose, maybe with some genetic modification.

I know people will think that sounds like a sci-fi novel but I think that given the arguments people make with some of the active controversies now, we are actually not that far away from a possibility like that.

FallenSloppyDead2 · 22/12/2025 19:31

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 22/12/2025 18:49

The Vorkosigan Saga idea of uterine replicators disintegrates on contact with medical ethics and the realisation that we aren't even close to understanding gestation yet.

You'd have to have a means of testing them ethically on embryoes, foetuses, and babies. There is no means to ethically test them on that class of very young humans.

As for us losing that reproductive role: we'd still have to choose between contraception with a risk of failure, or sexual abstinence, to avoid pregnancy. Men would still not face that choice. I've spent my whole life using the most reliable contraceptives possible, some of which turned out to endanger my life, to avoid becoming a mother. The reproductive role might be latent, it might be one that we reject, but we, never men, are still the ones who have to alter our bodies because of it.

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Well I like a bit of SciFi, so I shall investigate the Saga. Thanks!

Ethics <hollow laughter>. PB trial.

Most of the advancements so far have been done in the name of helping infertile couples and preventing miscarriages. Very worthy aims which can then be subverted. That womb transfer, from one sister to another, made me feel very uneasy. Plus I imagine some countries are less on board with the ethical concerns than others.

In my (unhappy) vision of the future the option of permanent sterilisation will be offered to all women (and men) at 18. If it becomes the norm in a society that reproduction is removed from the sexual act and subsequent pregnancy, then perhaps fertile women will become an aberration and considered less worthy of rights relating to their (voluntary) fertility.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 22/12/2025 19:36

Carla786 · 22/12/2025 19:20

Great post. Otoh, women also want sex...I mean, I know you're not saying they don't, but rather putting the focus on men who push for sex/lie & then abandon, but I think it's also fair to point out that even if men weren't (sadly) often lying/abandoning/pressuring women into sex, women would still want sex without having to have a baby & unwanted pregnancies would still be an issue.

There is that too. However, I think almost every married woman has had sex with her husband that she didn't actually want, at least once, and him forcing her to submit to him sexually wasn't illegal until the early 1990s.

It has absolutely been a matter of utter desperation driving women to dangerous concoctions of pennyroyal and black cohosh, paying unqualified people to insert knitting needles and umbrella spokes through their cervixes to try to "get rid", the lethally dangerous early IUDs like the Dalkon Shield, and everything else they could think of, because "no" wasn't a legal option for us.

I am the first to criticise the Pill as it nearly killed my sister and put my life at risk, but it was better, at least for women who don't get aura-type migraines and don't have clotting disorders, than the options available before it. We now have even safer options, like the slim-line copper IUDs, so I always recommend that women reconsider the Pill because it quadruples your risk of having a stroke. I don't tell women to rid their bodies of all contraceptives and just abstain or use NFP, because I recognise that many women like sex and don't want to be stuck to a calendar.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 22/12/2025 19:39

TempestTost · 22/12/2025 19:28

All you would have to do is reclassify infants up to a certain point as not people.

Or possibly certain ones, maybe ones without parents, or the products of unsuccessful abortions, or human-ape hybrids, or ones that will be euthanized under medically assisted death programs, or ones produced by surrogates for the purpose, maybe with some genetic modification.

I know people will think that sounds like a sci-fi novel but I think that given the arguments people make with some of the active controversies now, we are actually not that far away from a possibility like that.

Ironically, some early Greek civilisations thought of babies like that, hence the exposure overnight on the mountain top to weed out the weak ones.

It would be astonishingly barbaric to go back to a Spartan ideal of how to treat children.

nicepotoftea · 22/12/2025 20:37

TempestTost · 22/12/2025 19:22

That's not really the point, is it.

It is a huge shift to see tech as a way to heal a body that is not working properly, to one that is changing the nature of the body itself.

It is a huge shift to say,, not, we should live in a way that is in harmony with the real needs of our body, in terms of eating, reproduction, and so on, to, let's change what it is to be human into some conceptualisation of what we would like it to mean.

That is the mindset that we are in now in terms of things like cosmetic procedures or gender reassignment - it makes total sense within that paradigm.

Why is it not the point?

Pregnancy might be natural, but It doesn't mean that it always has a positive outcome.

For some women the ability to avoid another pregnancy is life saving.

Arran2024 · 22/12/2025 21:12

FallenSloppyDead2 · 22/12/2025 18:42

@Carla786 I think there should be birth certificates with biological parents on, but also parenting certificates to show who is actually raising the child & being the parent in daily life.

Interesting thought. Thanks

Some of the (more speculative) science is looking at using cells from each person in same-sex relationships so that the child genetically belongs to both of them.

(Bilek is a woman btw)

Of course they started messing around with birth certificates for adoption in the 1920s and this set the precedent for same sex couples and surrogacy (and becoming trans).

I say this as an adopter btw. My younger daughter tells no one she is adopted (she is an adult now) and she has completely rejected her (abusive) birth family and she welcomes having a certificate that doesn't flag her adoption up.

But it is messing with the facts.

My dad lived next door to a lesbian couple who had a son. They split up and both have remarried other women. So this boy now has four mothers!

We have moved away from biological reality in so many ways for what were considered good reasons at the time.

JanesLittleGirl · 22/12/2025 21:16

nicepotoftea · 22/12/2025 20:37

Why is it not the point?

Pregnancy might be natural, but It doesn't mean that it always has a positive outcome.

For some women the ability to avoid another pregnancy is life saving.

This was my situation. There wasn't enough of me to sustain DD growing inside me. Either I would die, she would die or we would both die. The CS at 32 weeks worked for both of us but I actively avoided another pregnancy.

ScathingAngelAgrona · 22/12/2025 21:44

HildegardP · 22/12/2025 13:03

I can recall my Nana slightly misquoting Rousseau's "The English people believes itself to be free; it is gravely mistaken; it is free only during the election of Members of Parliament; as soon as the Members are elected, the people is enslaved; it is nothing."
We live in a time of widespread Presentism & many longstanding problems have been given fresh names & wrappings but remain very much the same.

Thank you. This is brilliant.

Carla786 · 22/12/2025 23:21

nicepotoftea · 22/12/2025 20:37

Why is it not the point?

Pregnancy might be natural, but It doesn't mean that it always has a positive outcome.

For some women the ability to avoid another pregnancy is life saving.

Yes....'natural' obviously doesn't equal 'good'. There was far too little emphasis in the past on the potential negative side effects of the Pill, but swinging too far the other way is throwing the baby out with the bathwater.

Carla786 · 22/12/2025 23:31

Arran2024 · 22/12/2025 21:12

Of course they started messing around with birth certificates for adoption in the 1920s and this set the precedent for same sex couples and surrogacy (and becoming trans).

I say this as an adopter btw. My younger daughter tells no one she is adopted (she is an adult now) and she has completely rejected her (abusive) birth family and she welcomes having a certificate that doesn't flag her adoption up.

But it is messing with the facts.

My dad lived next door to a lesbian couple who had a son. They split up and both have remarried other women. So this boy now has four mothers!

We have moved away from biological reality in so many ways for what were considered good reasons at the time.

And sperm donation for straight couples, which began around the 1940s... (Google children's author Eva Ibbotson's father Berthold Wiesner, who secretly fathered around 600 children via substituting his own sperm for the purported donors 😢).

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bertold_Wiesner

I can definitely see the value of having certificates that don't show adoption for cases like your daughter's, it would be really hard to have to show both....but otoh I think at least the general rule should be to have 2...

The case you mention with the boy having 4 mothers due to divorces....new stepparents taking care when older are never good, lesbian or not.. I support same sex parenting but I think the parents should always keep the child in as much contact with other biological parent as possible. This should also apply to straight couples using a sperm donor or egg donor, which is for some reason talked of far less.

Do you support same sex parenting? Or do you think it is too much of a move from biological reality?

UtopiaPlanitia · 12/01/2026 02:24

TempestTost · 22/12/2025 15:57

I think this is true - but it's much bigger than gender Ideology and I wouldn't really have put it in those terms.

But maybe it's fair to do so. I've often felt that GI won't really go away until id pol is dismantled, but that too means people have to see some alternative.

Transhumanism and the weird tech-utopia some seem to think is the future does seem to have been taken up by the uber-capitalists. And many normal people have vaguely fallen in line with that, they seem to see it as inevitable, almost like there is no other road. I've thought for a long time that the main reason the dominant feminism in the west is all about women in the workforce is similarly a folding in of feminism to capitalism.

Who will offer another vision? To be honest I don't see that coming out of gender critical thinking, I believe it would need to come from some wider vision of reality.

I think the article makes some sense for me because, in the face of reality, a lot of humans have a deep need to believe in something that explains existence and their special place in the universe. I've lost count of the number of people who have told me that atheism depresses them because, to them, atheism is so bald and final and doesn't see a special place for humanity in the universe.

Genderism makes everyone the king of their own wee world where they feel they can decide who and what they are and force other people to go along with it. It allows people who hate themselves and their life circumstance to try and hide from them.

Gender Critical thought on the whole is, at times, like herding cats but it also tends towards conceiving of humanity as a whole and examining what we owe to each other as citizens and fellow members of society - even if there are many answers within the GC movement to those two questions.

I think, ultimately, that whether it's GC thinkers, feminists, political theorists, eco-activists etc, someone needs to make the argument that humanity has to work together to survive challenging economic, social and environmental circumstances and that fleeing from your humanity into transhumanism is not a rational response.

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