I am no expert or scholar but I see his point.
Gender has colonised society, institutions, offered a vision, and the structural tools to propagate it, creating academia, scholars, jobs, careers, awards, bs dreams, lifestyles to its believers, and we don’t even think or dream of doing the same. And I m going to be very reductive here, but in contrast, it seems we would be happy to stop at the door of our toilets and changing rooms.
We decry woo woo gender studies departments by example, but we just would like to see them disappear or at least stop their drivel, we aren’t fighting to make them ours or create their equivalent to promote our own vision.
Women’s experience is central in our fight, we claim for its right to exist, but we are still not thinking too much of taking over institutions one by one to make our vision matter like they did. Why not?
(important note: not saying there are not women doing fighting for these things, but that the collective psyche of the GC movement has not naturally and broadly embraced these causes as the natural evolution and widening of their fight)
And when I see so many comments saying “it’s so male”, and pinching their nose every time the word “power” is mentioned anywhere or saying that you just want x or y, don’t you realise you are staying in your lane the men want you to? Of course, they have gaslit you telling you it’s too heavy for your pretty little heads, of course, they are showing an awful and unappealing example of it, but rather than avoiding power and ambition, we should realise we would actually be much better at it than they are and that they are doing all they can to turn us off from it because they wouldn’t stand the competition. And even without wanting all the power, deserve at the very least a much bigger seat at the table of things.
if we want men to become more attuned and empathetic to female reality, we need to be a bit more attuned to the male reality, power and ambition are not anti feminine, they are not a bad word, they exist, they matter. We are more than a bunch of testosterone, we could handle it without losing ourselves if we wanted to, if we dreamt of it, if we believed in us.
I m no historian of feminism but if someone knows if something similar didn’t happen to the floundering of second wave feminism, its importance within mainstream society tapered off to oblivion because it was go big or go home and they went home
And if we don’t develop that vision and meekly accept to return to the historical status quo of just being women in a men s world, they ll find something else to shaft us with and we will have to spend another generation in defensive mode again at best
woman, be ambitchious for yourself, for your sisters and for your sex, you make the world go round already, take your power back
(Writing this a bit rushed on a phone because it s dear to my heart, sorry for ramblings)