We don’t have to abandon anything.
you can still be found guilty of murder even if you’ve acted in self defence. It’s whether it was proportionate.
so even if his story was true that she had gone crazy, killing her looked way over the top. The child had a superficial cut, so did the murderer.
she can’t be both too strong to control ( his story), and not strong enough to inflict more serious injuries.
he had cut her throat so violently he had almost beheaded her- how likely is it that you could do that to someone in self defence? I couldn’t. Most reasonable people couldn’t.
the point is that a jury are a reflection of society and unfortunately we blame women and make excuses for men.
its why, with even a long list of evidence to show abuse, Sally Challinor was still convicted of murdering her abusive husband.