This safe thing is really disturbing. It seems to
Had a conversation with some people at work recently, including a new Gen Z employee who is very in gender ideology. We were discussing why people might not want to come to an NA meeting in a semi-public space like a library and why the more common church basement approach is better. Her feeling was that "but some people might not feel safe in a church." And could not seem to see that some sense of discomfort in a room at a church, but not anything to actually do with a church, is not the same as people worried their employer or MIL might see them at a meeting for addicts. Because both are about feeling unsafe, right?
It's all about the feeling, I guess, in this view, not the chance that your boss might actually think an addict might not be the best person to be driving a school bus or something, and you'd lose your job.