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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions
SquirrelosaurusSoShiny · 13/11/2025 17:29

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 13/11/2025 09:51

Given that non-binary is a stupid made up term, then no, he's exploited nothing.

There is no qualifying criteria for being non-binary other than saying the magic words "Look at me, I'm non-binary!" (The look at me bit seems to be important as far as I can tell.)

I'm non-binary right now!

And now I'm not.

Changed my mind, wanna be a cool hip enby again.

Actually, you know what, this isn't for me.

Good on this guy for showing up the bollocks for what it truly is.

👏👏👏

ErrolTheDragon · 13/11/2025 17:41

EveningSpread · 13/11/2025 15:43

I mean, much of this could be solved if organisations just acknowledged that sport has categories of sex, not gender.

The widespread conflation of sex and gender has a lot to answer for, imo.

Well quite. Unless participants the current three supposed ‘gender’ categories have to wear ‘masculine’, androgynous and ‘feminine’ shorts with designs that somehow significantly affect performance, why on earth is ‘gender’ supposed to be a relevant categorisation?

HaveYouActuallyDoneAnyWashingThisWeekMum · 13/11/2025 17:48

Please tell me the article is actually from Private Eye. This gem at the end of the second paragraph:

Qualified .. for the non binary division despite not meeting the male standard.

Meaningless bollix

ADHDHDHDHD · 13/11/2025 17:53

I think this chap has done us all a favour! He clearly wants to run in this particular marathon. He read the rules. And applied as per the rules. Obviously the NB rules are ridiculous and unnecessary but hey.

the journalist writing the article is so close to realising the new category is a load of nonsense. But she can’t quite get over the leap of - no this is just really ridiculous.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 14/11/2025 00:07

Oh my.

So BM, who do not recognise the significance of sex in the female category, might be nevertheless forced to recognise it in the NB category?

Will this be the point where we pass through the Gender Singularity and into the Gender Inversion, with women able again to run a women's race but only by not identifying as wonen?

Truly, no matter how the Gender Duvet tries to smother it, the Fart of Truth will always seep out somewhere!

ThatBlackCat · 14/11/2025 02:35

Toutafait · 13/11/2025 13:26

What's funny about that? Pips Bunce is a British banking executive who identifies as non-binary and gender fluid. They were assigned male at birth and kept their non-binariness hidden while they established their banking career. They then started to change their expressed gender several times a week. They've explained that it's like getting up in the morning and realising that you feel like wearing a certain colour. So on some days they dress as a man and use a male name. On the other days they dress as a woman and use a female name. This has won them fame and fortune.
But it isn't clear to me how being non-binary fits into that. Is Pips Bunce always non-binary, or are they non-binary one day, a woman the next and a man on the 3rd day?
Transformed: The Credit Suisse director known as Pippa and Philip

No one is 'assigned' a sex at birth. Sex is assigned the moment the sperm enters the ova. And observed at birth (and beforehand at ultrasound).

DrBlackbird · 14/11/2025 09:02

Helleofabore · 13/11/2025 13:56

It is always funny to remember there have been comments in the past that they needed a male and a female non binary category, so split out the sexes, for fairness.

However, in saying that, there has been a female entering and winning some of the US city marathons. Cal Calamba. She uses testosterone so I guess this gives her an avenue to compete.

I find it perplexing though when some of the marathons give equal prize money that matches the male and female categories. Because usually these athletes are way down the rankings, begging the question of why they should be rewarded in this way.

I hadn’t heard of Cal Calamba but having now read the Wikipedia page I might imagine Cal being v upset about this turn of events.

Presumably Cal wasn’t allowed (or wanted to?) enter the female category because of taking CSH, but knew that Cal would struggle to make entry in the men’s category because of sex-based differences.

Now, having campaigned hard for marathons to include a new NB category, it must be upsetting for Cal and other genuine NBs to suspect that an AMAB runner is not really NB but is pretending to be one to gain access to resources previously exclusive to genuine NBs.

"the interim system may be vulnerable to good-faith loopholes, scenarios where runners register in a category not as an expression of identity, but as a way to meet easier entry standards"

It might even be enraging that this brand new NB entering the NB category could end up winning all the prize money in that category. And yet, I’d place any amount of money that when it’s pointed out that men can exploit gender ID for not nice reasons is precisely why women do not want any man to use ssss, Cal and co would say "that’s different!".

DrBlackbird · 14/11/2025 09:05

ThatBlackCat · 14/11/2025 02:35

No one is 'assigned' a sex at birth. Sex is assigned the moment the sperm enters the ova. And observed at birth (and beforehand at ultrasound).

Edited

I think @Toutafait is being ironic with their comments.

Kuretake · 14/11/2025 09:05

So BM, who do not recognise the significance of sex in the female category, might be nevertheless forced to recognise it in the NB category?

This puts it brilliantly. It's fantastically absurd.

DrBlackbird · 14/11/2025 09:17

ErrolTheDragon · 13/11/2025 17:41

Well quite. Unless participants the current three supposed ‘gender’ categories have to wear ‘masculine’, androgynous and ‘feminine’ shorts with designs that somehow significantly affect performance, why on earth is ‘gender’ supposed to be a relevant categorisation?

Going by the Wikipedia page, the new category came about because of a female runner who takes testosterone and identities as male/NB wasn’t allowed to compete in the female category anymore yet wouldn’t have qualified in the male category but still wanted to run marathons.

And now to everyone’s utter surprise, it feels like a man has come along and taken advantage of that space previously reserved for just them to win woman of the year, woman’s short list, woman’s medal, woman’s space in a refuge, a bed on the woman’s ward a place on the BM podium.

Who could have possibly guessed that might happen?

WetCat · 14/11/2025 09:35

DrBlackbird · 14/11/2025 09:02

I hadn’t heard of Cal Calamba but having now read the Wikipedia page I might imagine Cal being v upset about this turn of events.

Presumably Cal wasn’t allowed (or wanted to?) enter the female category because of taking CSH, but knew that Cal would struggle to make entry in the men’s category because of sex-based differences.

Now, having campaigned hard for marathons to include a new NB category, it must be upsetting for Cal and other genuine NBs to suspect that an AMAB runner is not really NB but is pretending to be one to gain access to resources previously exclusive to genuine NBs.

"the interim system may be vulnerable to good-faith loopholes, scenarios where runners register in a category not as an expression of identity, but as a way to meet easier entry standards"

It might even be enraging that this brand new NB entering the NB category could end up winning all the prize money in that category. And yet, I’d place any amount of money that when it’s pointed out that men can exploit gender ID for not nice reasons is precisely why women do not want any man to use ssss, Cal and co would say "that’s different!".

So are they going to have something like the Spanish Inquisition to test genuineness of faith before being allowed to sign up?

Kuretake · 14/11/2025 09:37

WetCat · 14/11/2025 09:35

So are they going to have something like the Spanish Inquisition to test genuineness of faith before being allowed to sign up?

I could see they having a screening process where they check social media for pronouns and things. So stupid though.

Chersfrozenface · 14/11/2025 09:44

Kuretake · 14/11/2025 09:37

I could see they having a screening process where they check social media for pronouns and things. So stupid though.

Er, isn't that gatekeeping? Which, if I recall correctly, is so, so wrong.

ETA comma

LongOutBreath · 14/11/2025 09:49

This is starting to remind me of the heavily oversubscribed local C of E primary school, and the increasingly committed performances of devotion required before the vicar will sign off a family as being a regular member of his congregation.

ErrolTheDragon · 14/11/2025 10:08

DrBlackbird · 14/11/2025 09:17

Going by the Wikipedia page, the new category came about because of a female runner who takes testosterone and identities as male/NB wasn’t allowed to compete in the female category anymore yet wouldn’t have qualified in the male category but still wanted to run marathons.

And now to everyone’s utter surprise, it feels like a man has come along and taken advantage of that space previously reserved for just them to win woman of the year, woman’s short list, woman’s medal, woman’s space in a refuge, a bed on the woman’s ward a place on the BM podium.

Who could have possibly guessed that might happen?

But if they now realise they need to divide NBs into ‘AFAB’ and ‘AMAB’ subgroups, WTF do they do about hormonal performance enhancement in the former group?
This runner should have been told doping is doping, women athletes have to make huge choices and sacrifices.

DrBlackbird · 14/11/2025 12:33

ErrolTheDragon · 14/11/2025 10:08

But if they now realise they need to divide NBs into ‘AFAB’ and ‘AMAB’ subgroups, WTF do they do about hormonal performance enhancement in the former group?
This runner should have been told doping is doping, women athletes have to make huge choices and sacrifices.

I don’t disagree, but in the case of this one runner, along with surgery to remove their breasts, seems to be taking testosterone as part of identifying as ‘transmasc’. What you might have thought of as really a trans man. Whether the ‘NB’ aspect is prioritised only because of the marathon race element is anyone’s guess.

NB I’ve noticed that Gen z don’t really use TM or TW but transmasc or transfemme. What’s that about?

And they seem entirely comfortable linguistically shifting between making sex-based references (men are stronger) and gender identity reference (if a man feels he’s a woman then he should be allowed to compete in the female category) without missing a beat. It’s the craziness of our educational and health professionals adopted wholeheartedly aide and abetted by trans influencers.

Apileofballyhoo · 14/11/2025 14:18

Maybe the journalist is well aware but can't say.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 14/11/2025 17:30

Apileofballyhoo · 14/11/2025 14:18

Maybe the journalist is well aware but can't say.

That direction of travel I'm actually ok with. A world where "masc" and "femme" and all sorts of other labels outside sex simply become people declaring how they think about themselves like their clothes and tech choices and don't claim ownership of the actual opposite sex experience or identity, I'm ok with.

I think it may be the way this mess gets unwound, where sex quietly comes back but everyone can still continue to claim their trans identity so no one had to admit the politics of trans identities in the 2010s and 2020s was wrong, nor admit or even recognise the Terfs were right all along.

Toutafait · 14/11/2025 17:34

DrBlackbird · 14/11/2025 09:17

Going by the Wikipedia page, the new category came about because of a female runner who takes testosterone and identities as male/NB wasn’t allowed to compete in the female category anymore yet wouldn’t have qualified in the male category but still wanted to run marathons.

And now to everyone’s utter surprise, it feels like a man has come along and taken advantage of that space previously reserved for just them to win woman of the year, woman’s short list, woman’s medal, woman’s space in a refuge, a bed on the woman’s ward a place on the BM podium.

Who could have possibly guessed that might happen?

What about all those transmen on testosterone, who are not good enough to compete against actual men and are no longer allowed to compete against women? Sometimes sacrifices have to be made.

Okiedokie123 · 14/11/2025 21:49

Nobody is non binary.

WetCat · 14/11/2025 22:03

Okiedokie123 · 14/11/2025 21:49

Nobody is non binary.

Either that or everyone is.

viques · 15/11/2025 11:32

Chersfrozenface · 13/11/2025 11:11

The full results for the non-binary category at the 2025 event are here - all 72 finishers.
https://www.baa.org/races/boston-marathon/results/

Little frisson of national pride here for EDEN RAINBOW COOPER a UK runner with a proper non binary name. You go Eden Rainbow!

SunnieShine · 15/11/2025 11:35

There is no such thing as "non binary". Total cringe.

viques · 15/11/2025 11:44

Justme56 · 13/11/2025 09:44

Love the comment by Naunet. Says it all.

LiveLuvLaugh · 15/11/2025 12:12

I don’t think anyone should be policing Peter’s Non Binary Identity. We should accept that people are who they say they are - maybe Peter is gender fluid Non Binary. If Peter feels they belong in the NB category no one should gate keep. Sport should be inclusive but the more athletic will always do better, so why should people be rigidly categorised.