A lot of women are feeling politically homeless and it is wrong.
However, feeling sad about it achieves NOTHING. What you need to do is get mad about it and take action.
Every election, no matter how small, demand to know from ALL the candidates do they think women are real. Tell them it is a red line. Write short, write long, but always, always kick up a fuss. Go to hustings, ask awkward questions. Write to your local paper. Get together with other women stage a demo during the election. Men get stuff because they DEMAND it. Women can do the same. That is how women win.
I know a lot of you are doing some of this and no doubt you may be feeling despondent and thinking nothing I have done matters. Again, this is just despondency talking. Wake up, Mumsnet matters. Every little action has chipped away at the gender monster and we are bringing it down.
In 2018 TAs had huge power inside the Conservatives. That power has been destroyed because ordinary Conservative women banded together and fought to get their reality back. Kemi would NOT be leader without this. That is a massive win. The fact that dumb battle had to happen at all is one reason the Tories are screwed right now though.
Inside Labour and the Lib Dems things have changed radically. We now have a Home Secretary who is happy to support Labour's Women's Declaration. That is a huge win. Lib Dem women are getting their motions at conference, but the TAs have to resort to sneaky bullshit to block them, but they will be back again and again.
Both Labour and Lib Dem rules now say women are actually a thing. That is because women forced that to happen.
The SNP are terrified of women now as they should be. Scottish Women took down Sturgeon and that fight is not over.
Even in the Greens biology knowers are still fighting. Hypnoboobs might think he is winning right now, but long term he is going to have to admit women are real. Because women are going to make him.
I am not saying vote for any of these parties. You have the right to demand whatever you want from the parties representing you. Reject all of them. Totally fine.
What you absolutely must not do is make your choice silently. Posting on Mumsnet is great. To change things you have to do more than that and keep doing it.
The MAY 2026 elections change power in Scotland, Wales, London and many councils across England. It is your chance again to demand stuff from politicians, to make them fear and respect you. Never back down, never give up.
Women can totally win this.
In the 1910s women won the vote.
In 60s - 80s women won the chance to have a career.
Those fights were WAY, WAY tougher than this nonsense. It is very demoralizing to fight against something so dumb in a sense. Yet keep going folks.