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Riot Women sums up everything wrong with the BBC

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IwantToRetire · 27/10/2025 21:40

Riot Women, by Sally Wainwright, is not the first drama to challenge traditional gender roles in the name of female empowerment, but it really seems to hate men. The six-part series is ostensibly about how five menopausal women come together to make music and inspire each other to rise above the difficulties they face. But another way of seeing it is that it is six hours of prime-time television in which every male character is portrayed as (at best) hopelessly ineffectual and dishonest or (at worst) a psychopathic murderer and rapist, with not much in between.

what it does tell us is that, five years after being appointed as Director General, Tim Davie’s BBC is still, fundamentally, a place that sees such dramas as suitable for mainstream viewing, and that the ideas it promotes are essentially incontestable and inoffensive. Wainwright’s world view is indistinguishable from the BBC’s because they originate from the same set of values.

https://www.spectator.co.uk/article/riot-women-sums-up-everything-wrong-with-the-bbc/ and at https://archive.is/iEEB9

Riot Women sums up everything wrong with the BBC

Picture the scene: five middle-aged male actors playing rockstars are lolling about on sofas in a recording studio. In front of them is an attractive young female producer; the men start making obscene gestures behind her about her bottom, sniggering a...

https://www.spectator.co.uk/article/riot-women-sums-up-everything-wrong-with-the-bbc/

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NeverDropYourMooncup · 28/10/2025 16:12

halfandhalfchipsandrice · 28/10/2025 15:13

I wasn't going to watch it on principle because of the cross dressing man. Is it worth watching?

I wasn't going to watch it on principle because it appears that the only reason women could ever possibly be musicians is to wang on about their reproductive system in a novelty band. The trans musician is the least of my concerns - when your original drummer (or whatever) has dropped out at the last minute, you'd take a Pit Bull Terrier or rabid gibbon as long as it could play.

Was there a female sound engineer at all? Any random female drummer in about five different bands because it's really difficult to get a reliable one, especially one with their own van and they're all booked up for months in advance? No bassist in another band getting pissed off with the assumption that she's a WAG rather than holding down the backline with the drummer? Nobody enduring a lecture from a random about how she should listen to what is on the original recording and try to be more like that when she wrote and recorded the fucking track in the first place? Nobody rolling their eyes at the novelty 'We're GIRLS' group showing up and being treated as though they're the only women who have ever stepped on a stage after the age of 24? No pain in the arse shoegazing band taking so long to set up that they've only got time for a quick linecheck?

TempestTost · 28/10/2025 16:42

I've not watched it, so no idea if his characterisations are accurate.

I will say that I have no issue with tv or film that is centred on one sex, or even only includes one sex.

I don't really like it when the members of the opposite sex are all shits or pathetic. That's whether it's men or women. It's just a sign of bad writing, imo.

tobee · 28/10/2025 17:09

Jumpeduppantry · 27/10/2025 21:58

Well a lot of the story rings true, sadly. I doubt The Spectator would ever be positive about a drama centred on the lives of women.

Right wing media never misses on opportunity to give the BBC a good kicking. Whether deserved or not.

LeftieRightsHoarder · 28/10/2025 17:14

pontefractals · 28/10/2025 13:56

I've not even watched it, but that quotation from his article reminds me really strongly of a time in secondary school where we were going to read "Roll of Thunder, Hear my Cry" and a load of the boys complained because, for the first chapter, the main character was a girl. They said it was man-hating feminist rubbish, so instead we all got to read Lord of the bloody Flies, in which the ONLY female character is a hunted pig.

Shame! But I suppose the teacher was intimidated by the aggressive boys. There’s a lesson from life.

LeftieRightsHoarder · 28/10/2025 17:17

BlueEyedBogWitch · 28/10/2025 16:01

The Spectator thinks the BBC has a poor view of men?

The magazine that happily published a review of a lecture given by a female historian, which culminated in the reviewer going to visit a sex worker because the lecturer’s hair turned him on?

That Spectator?

Ugh! And that was real life. So yes: pot, kettle.

SevenYellowHammers · 28/10/2025 17:42

If they had stuck the Thelma and Louise Harvey Keitel character, too balance, in that would be a bit weak and obvious. I actually thought the son was ok, him being a bit screwed up was understandable. A lot of it was about women’s invisibility and not that I’m excusing men, they are subject to same ideology with this - i.e conditioned not to notice older women. The land lady’s boyfriend was a benign character, Beth’s student who she chatted to in music shop was quite sweet (when Beth wasn’t invisible anymore), I’m not sure what to say about “Jack the Rimmer” if I’m honest but wasn’t evil . And sponge bob the dealer was harmless (notwithstanding he was a coke dealer!) And of course, then there were some total stinkers - Gavin, the cop, the bloke that used to be The Doctor… In terms of a feminist reading, my problem with it was the restoration of the patriarchal order when Kitty’s dad came up with the names of the rapists . I hope season two isn’t going to be him and Kitty hunting them down but I fear it is because he (Jonathan Pryce) is a big name and must be due a bigger role? Other than all that, I liked it very much because it was spirited and I had forgotten how much I love Hole/Courtney. I also want those doc martens and an animal print coat .

IwantToRetire · 28/10/2025 18:49

I think what this male writer fails to grasp is that those who are not part of the dominante group experience life differently.

Nobody objected when there was a very good series of tv plays about living life in London as part of the Afro Carribean community. ie it showed that apart from showing actually them being the target of overt racism, it showed how these lived experiences influenced how they experienced or reacted.

Many (most) of the women in Riot Women were heterosexual. And so on one level showed that they certainly dont hate men. But on the other hand all had shared negative experiences of men in their personal and work life, which meant when together they could share and support each other.

And just because it was about women challenging the stereotypes they felt trapped in, it doesn't mean it turns them into saints.

So strange to be so critical of this series when so many centre on men who when with other men are shown to be sexist bigots, and patronising towards women, and revelling in "masculine" targets.

That was why I said up thread how could anyone, other than a man, think this series was an example of what is wrong with the BBC.

When it was nothing like 99% of BBC output.

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Holdonforsummer · 28/10/2025 18:52

What a weird take on it. Most of the female characters were pretty flawed too. Didn’t make it any less enjoyable to watch (which is the point of entertainment last time I checked!)

Thatstheheatingon · 28/10/2025 19:07

I thought it was great.
I thought the focus would be on the band alone, and was surprised at the horrific treatment of the young police officer and the violence from Kitty's boyfriend - and of course her horrendous experience as a child. It was a lot darker - and yet warming in terms of the female anger expressed - than I expected.
Which was great.

Sausagenbacon · 28/10/2025 19:08

I haven't read the article, but those of you slagging off the Spectator have pretty short memories.
They have consistently supported GC issues when other outlets have pretended nothing was happening. Especially ? Kirkup (I can't remember his 1st name) who wrote some very impressive articles.

Sausagenbacon · 28/10/2025 19:10

I'm put off when a friend told me that the Menapause is treated as some kind of pathological event.

Bladderpool · 28/10/2025 19:17

I tried to like this show as I loved Happy Valley and most of Last Tango but I thought it was terrible, full of cliches and stereotypes and the acting was woeful, I hate when you can “see” the acting and you definitely could in this production.

DuesToTheDirt · 28/10/2025 20:50

Sausagenbacon · 28/10/2025 19:08

I haven't read the article, but those of you slagging off the Spectator have pretty short memories.
They have consistently supported GC issues when other outlets have pretended nothing was happening. Especially ? Kirkup (I can't remember his 1st name) who wrote some very impressive articles.

Yes, absolutely, the Spectator has published lots of woman-friendly and rather scathing articles.

No comment from me on Riot Women as I haven't seen it. Someone said there's a trans woman in it singing about menopause - is that true, because it puts me right off giving it the time of day.

Howseitgoin · 28/10/2025 20:59

Sausagenbacon · 28/10/2025 19:08

I haven't read the article, but those of you slagging off the Spectator have pretty short memories.
They have consistently supported GC issues when other outlets have pretended nothing was happening. Especially ? Kirkup (I can't remember his 1st name) who wrote some very impressive articles.

By this goofy logic, if the The Völkischer Beobachter supported GC issues they too shouldn't have been slagged off?

No prizes for guessing why GC issues are associated with the far right…

Bladderpool · 28/10/2025 21:02

Howseitgoin · 28/10/2025 20:59

By this goofy logic, if the The Völkischer Beobachter supported GC issues they too shouldn't have been slagged off?

No prizes for guessing why GC issues are associated with the far right…

Agree, so sick of this “the enemy of my enemy is my friend” bizarro logic on here. Tired of reading “at least (insert name of right wing racist , homophobic, misogynistic cunt) knows what a woman is” 🙄

Zippidydoodah · 28/10/2025 21:06

Loved it. Agree that not all men were shits. Gerry was ok.

Howseitgoin · 28/10/2025 21:11

Bladderpool · 28/10/2025 21:02

Agree, so sick of this “the enemy of my enemy is my friend” bizarro logic on here. Tired of reading “at least (insert name of right wing racist , homophobic, misogynistic cunt) knows what a woman is” 🙄

Yup, it just exposes them as faux feminists getting into bed with dyed in the wool misogynists. They can't have it both ways.

Scorpion hitching a ride on the back of a frog vibes?

Greyskybluesky · 28/10/2025 21:21

Howseitgoin · 28/10/2025 20:59

By this goofy logic, if the The Völkischer Beobachter supported GC issues they too shouldn't have been slagged off?

No prizes for guessing why GC issues are associated with the far right…

Morning Star is firmly supportive of gender critical views

ParkAndThenRide · 28/10/2025 21:28

I didn’t mind Miranda. There was no storyline there, just ‘we need someone to stand in and Miranda knows the words because she heard them all rehearsing a hundred times’.

There was no ‘oh, isn’t Miranda stunning and brave’.

Sausagenbacon · 28/10/2025 21:54

No prizes for guessing why GC issues are associated with the far right
My god, i thought this had been done to death already …

IwantToRetire · 29/10/2025 01:21

Sausagenbacon · 28/10/2025 21:54

No prizes for guessing why GC issues are associated with the far right
My god, i thought this had been done to death already …

No they just send out the bots, because this attempt to slur and create a false link never works.

Because everyone know the real issue is not why some right wing paper or writer support gender critical views, but why the so called left and liberals are terrified to publicly support the reality that sex is biological.

The best response is dont feed the trolls. It just gives them oxygen to go huff and puff I will blow your house down.

And contributes to their dillusion they are making valid points.

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highame · 29/10/2025 07:31

Spectator - wasn't that one of the first, or maybe the first to get GC and support?

Zippidydoodah · 29/10/2025 07:37

ParkAndThenRide · 28/10/2025 21:28

I didn’t mind Miranda. There was no storyline there, just ‘we need someone to stand in and Miranda knows the words because she heard them all rehearsing a hundred times’.

There was no ‘oh, isn’t Miranda stunning and brave’.

Exactly. I didn’t know how to word it.

WhereDidSummerGoAgain · 29/10/2025 07:48

Sausagenbacon · 28/10/2025 19:08

I haven't read the article, but those of you slagging off the Spectator have pretty short memories.
They have consistently supported GC issues when other outlets have pretended nothing was happening. Especially ? Kirkup (I can't remember his 1st name) who wrote some very impressive articles.

WTF?

No one owes any source of information / news / journalism ANY loyalty whatsoever.

We should all be engaging our critical thinking skills whenever we read anything, and reading a wide range of sources if we don't want to be on the receiving end of misinformation/ propaganda / taken for mugs.

RayonSunrise · 29/10/2025 07:48

highame · 29/10/2025 07:31

Spectator - wasn't that one of the first, or maybe the first to get GC and support?

James Kirkup at the Spectator has been GC from early on, along with Helen Joyce at the Economist, Helen Lewis at the New Statesman, Suszanne Moore and Hadley Freeman at the Guardian and Janice Turner at the Times.

With all of the above, there has been “balancing” pushback against women’s rights by other columnists. Left-leaning ones do it with TWAW, right-leaning by calling for women to be economically dependent.