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UN expert calls for recognition of surrogacy as system of violence, exploitation and abuse, urges abolition

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IwantToRetire · 17/10/2025 18:12

A UN expert today (10 October 2025) called for the recognition of surrogacy as a system of violence, exploitation and abuse against women, and called for the practice to be abolished globally.

“Surrogacy reduces women and children including girls to mere commodities, stripping them of their equality and dignity and encouraging their exploitation and abuse,” said Reem Alsalem, Special Rapporteur on violence against women, its causes and consequences in a report to the United Nations General Assembly.

The report examines the different manifestations of violence against women and girls related to surrogacy, focusing on drivers like patriarchal norms, sex and gender inequalities, economic disparities, and globalisation.

“Surrogacy is the result of commodification and commercialisation of women’s reproductive capacities, and it preys on and exploits women, particularly those from marginalised and impoverished backgrounds,” Alsalem said.

Article continues at https://www.ohchr.org/en/press-releases/2025/10/un-expert-calls-recognition-surrogacy-system-violence-exploitation-and-abuse

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twinklystar23 · 21/10/2025 10:44

Scout2016 · 18/10/2025 23:17

Adopters are also assessed, trained, references sought....all to ensure they are suited able to meet the needs of a child who will at the least have the trauma of being separated from birth family and experience the life long impact and knowledge of that. Life story and later life leters are meant to be provided and post adoption support available. Because we know they have to live with that life long trauma of being separated from birth family. Relinquished rather than removed children and adults struggle too, the choice of the mother to give them up isn't a balm. We know all this, we have enough evidence by now. There are reasons we don't do secretive adoptions anymore with a pretence at a new and fresh start- those children grew up into adults and told how it messed them up. We understand more about attachment, resilience, identity... legally social workers and courts have to keep a child with a birth family member if at all possible. Because it is accepted as the best outcome for the child, and they have the right to family life and many more reasons.

Yet as far as I know commissioning parents undergo no training, assessment, reference checks, no life story support is provided. Why? The child was removed from their birth mother and grows up without them, sometimes not knowing either biological parent - egg or sperm donor. It makes no sense. The fact they were created for the purpose of removal is somehow meant to make it all ok; a happy story for the child, rather than making the best of a bad situation as adoption is. But the bare bones are the same. Or worse, I would argue, because the child was conceived with every intention of inflicting such traumas on it.

And that's before the significant risks and impact for the surrogate and egg donor are considered.

Why? ££££$$$$
& entitled influential people " male privilege"

LeftieRightsHoarder · 21/10/2025 12:51

deadpan · 17/10/2025 20:07

I bloody love Reem Alsalem.

Me too. She's a heroine.

IwantToRetire · 31/10/2025 01:38

Haven't listened to this but thought RA fans might be interested!
https://savageminds.substack.com/p/reem-alsalem

Reem Alsalem

S5E13

https://savageminds.substack.com/p/reem-alsalem

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Delphinium20 · 31/10/2025 01:46

Wonderful news!

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