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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Teacher forced to use terms

29 replies

TheAmpleRedTurtle · 14/10/2025 20:32

Hi,
Sorry, haven’t posted here before. I just need some advice. I teach in a secondary school and have to deliver a session next week and the PowerPoint uses the terms cisgender and discusses other related issues. I’m very very uncomfortable with this as I feel this is being forced on me and the students. How on earth do I deal with this?

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FrenchBunionSoup · 14/10/2025 20:40

Who prepared the slides?

TheAmpleRedTurtle · 14/10/2025 20:41

An external company.

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BonfireLady · 14/10/2025 20:42

Welcome to posting on this board OP 💐

I'm not a teacher but my suggestion would be to say that you feel uncomfortable using content that affirns gender identity as if it's factual because there may be children in the class who are vulnerable to believing they are in the wrong body.

You could point to paras 204-208 of the KCSIE guidance, which in turn mentions the Cass Report where it is stated that social transition is not a neutral act. Therefore, from a safeguarding perspective, you don't feel comfortable promoting a belief which celebrates social transition, putting the vulnerable children described in the KCSIE paras at risk of entering a pathway towards irrerversible medical intervention.

TheAmpleRedTurtle · 14/10/2025 20:44

Thank you. It’s such a minefield. I feel like I’m definitely in the minority at my school. I just don’t feel it’s fair to tell the children this when their parents may not agree with any of this.

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Justme56 · 14/10/2025 21:07

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/relationships-education-relationships-and-sex-education-rse-and-health-education

I would have a browse through some of these documents. Not intro till next year but says it’s about preparing - good practice. Bits about need to work with parents, using external providers, GI contested etc. Maybe there is something in it you can use to question the presentation. As you say there maybe complaints from parents after the event so you are just making sure that the school is prepared.

Relationships and sex education (RSE) and health education

Statutory guidance on relationships education, relationships and sex education (RSE) and health education.

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/relationships-education-relationships-and-sex-education-rse-and-health-education

IwantToRetire · 14/10/2025 21:16

TheAmpleRedTurtle · 14/10/2025 20:32

Hi,
Sorry, haven’t posted here before. I just need some advice. I teach in a secondary school and have to deliver a session next week and the PowerPoint uses the terms cisgender and discusses other related issues. I’m very very uncomfortable with this as I feel this is being forced on me and the students. How on earth do I deal with this?

I am not saying this is fact, but could you query them using an outside group and not finding out if the content is in line with the Supreme Court ruling.

Also as a teacher not sure why you have to use an external groups material, but you could say it isn't comfortable for you to use terms that are part of a political group or campaign, let alone implying to children that they are normal.

As a school they should be apolitical.

Not using campaign material from a group with a specific agenda.

TheAmpleRedTurtle · 14/10/2025 21:27

This is all really helpful. Thank you so much.

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TheAmpleRedTurtle · 14/10/2025 21:30

Just had a look at that new guidance. Very interesting. I bet there’s been no consultation with parents on this material, and it is definitely being taught as fact.

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MrsOvertonsWindow · 14/10/2025 22:26

If you say who the external gaslighter provider is OP there's likely been some analysis done of their output

LoveBunnies · 14/10/2025 22:36

TheAmpleRedTurtle · 14/10/2025 20:32

Hi,
Sorry, haven’t posted here before. I just need some advice. I teach in a secondary school and have to deliver a session next week and the PowerPoint uses the terms cisgender and discusses other related issues. I’m very very uncomfortable with this as I feel this is being forced on me and the students. How on earth do I deal with this?

For your own professional career absolutely draw a line here.

You don't want to have any association with this. The truth is coming out and I would run a mile.

If you present this, you'll potentially be the face of trans for an entire group of kids.

Don't do it. I really wish you well. This is so difficult.

DrPrunesqualer · 15/10/2025 01:01

Don’t say terms you don’t agree with or find offensive to women
We have that legal right

JazzyBBBG · 15/10/2025 01:04

Could you teach it like an RE lesson eg "some people believe"?

(Not that you should have to)

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 15/10/2025 06:52

What subject do you teach, OP, and in what capacity are you being asked to present this material?

hellowhaaat3632 · 15/10/2025 10:28

At the very least, you could present it, but make it clear that it is a belief system, like any religion. Or just delete the words from the powerpoint?

It's awful schools are using external companies which have ulterior motives and not good ones.

Needlenardlenoo · 15/10/2025 10:37

I am a teacher and I think @BonfireLady's advice is good.

Contact the link governor for safeguarding if you aren't supported by your line manager. Their email should be on your school or trust website.

CatrionaBalfour · 15/10/2025 10:40

As pp have said, school is in the wrong here. Whatever you do, do not present that lesson. Please speak to your link SLT and Safeguarding Lead.
You should have had these updates, it sounds like the school is being very remiss.

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 15/10/2025 10:42

@TheAmpleRedTurtle Few points that occur, part of my own school investigations into teaching this nonsense:

Don’t teach ideology as fact. In RSHE, you must avoid presenting contested ideas (like “everyone has a gender identity” or “cisgender”) as objective truth. Frame them as opinions some people hold, and give a balanced account. The 2025 RSHE guidance says schools “should not teach as fact that all people have a gender identity” and warns against materials that oversimplify gender identity or portray social transition as a simple solution.

Use the political-impartiality rule. When a topic is political/contested, schools must forbid promotion of one-sided views and ensure a balanced presentation of opposing views. If a slide deck asserts “cisgender” as a given, ask to amend it so it’s taught as a contested term with alternative perspectives included. (Education Act 1996 ss.406–407; DfE guidance updated Mar 21, 2025.)

Stick to age-appropriate, factual RSHE and show parents the materials. RSHE 2025 requires transparency: schools should make all materials available to parents and be cautious about partisan resources. Use this to push back on third-party slides that promote an activist line.

Protect your own lawful belief. Gender-critical views (“sex is real, binary and matters”) are a protected philosophical belief. You can request a reasonable accommodation not to endorse terminology you don’t believe in, provided you remain respectful to pupils. (Forstater EAT, 2021; subsequent ET discrimination finding 2022.)

Recent case law helps. The Court of Appeal found a school unlawfully discriminated against an employee over gender-critical social-media posts—emphasising protected belief and proportionality. That strengthens your right to raise concerns politely through proper channels.

Safeguarding context (Cass). The Cass Review highlights a weak evidence base and urges caution around social transition and teaching materials that over-simplify. You can reference this to justify a careful, non-directive approach.

Something you could ping to your head of department perhaps -

Hi xxx, for next week’s session the deck presents “cisgender” and related concepts as settled facts. I'm concerned that I and the school may be unknowingly hitting some rules and guidelines here - Under RSHE (July 2025) we shouldn’t teach as fact that all people have a gender identity, and should avoid oversimplified visuals or implying social transition is a simple solution; we must also keep political impartiality and provide balanced views (EA 1996 ss.406–407; DfE Political Impartiality guidance). Please can we amend the slides so these terms are framed as contested, include opposing perspectives, and ensure any third-party material is neutral and shareable with parents? I’m happy to deliver a factual, age-appropriate, balanced lesson and to avoid endorsing terminology I don’t hold, consistent with protected-belief case law.

BonfireLady · 15/10/2025 11:06

The 2025 RSHE guidance says schools “should not teach as fact that all people have a gender identity” and warns against materials that oversimplify gender identity or portray social transition as a simple solution.

Assuming that's a direct quote from the current guidance, I'd forgotten that there was a small amount of useful stuff in it. Unfortunately the most useful information is in the guidance that won't apply until next academic year.

This is a great one to quote.

BlueLegume · 15/10/2025 14:32

GC views are a protected characteristic. Lots of good advice already so hope it helps.

Recent episode of Beyond Gender podcast with Stella O’Malley of Genspect is worth a listen….as others have said the tide is turning….hopefully in the direction of getting the right kind of help for these children.

https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/beyond-gender/id1795722610?i=1000731198940

Why The Drive For Medical Transition Should Be Re-Psychopathologized

Why The Drive For Medical Transition Should Be Re-Psychopathologized

Podcast Episode · Beyond Gender · 10/10/2025 · 1h 6m

https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/why-the-drive-for-medical-transition-should-be-re/id1795722610?i=1000731198940

LittleBitofBread · 15/10/2025 14:41

TheAmpleRedTurtle · 14/10/2025 20:41

An external company.

What company?

CatrionaBalfour · 15/10/2025 15:18

This does seem very unusual, most schools are aware of the recommendations. I think someone is being a bit foolish.

TheAmpleRedTurtle · 17/10/2025 17:33

I’m a bit worried that the name of the external company will be a bit outing. It’s not one you would associate with these issues normally. It’s a programme that many schools use.

I have another query regarding toilets. My son’s company released new guidance last month about toilets and it says that they will give transgender employees appropriate toilets from the point at which they declare that they are living in that gender. Does this seem right? I thought it should be based on sex now.

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Dragonasaurus · 17/10/2025 17:43

I think it’s fine (legally/ethically etc) to provide an appropriate third (fourth) space. If they mean give someone access to facilities which are specifically for the opposite sex, then no, I think that would be illegal.

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