I know the tone of the thread was a bit more jovial earlier but the case is obviously a serious subject. There is a short and unpleasant history to disabled toilets - they haven’t been around that long. They are misused because of their design (mixed sex, private, large space). Because of their design they are out of order a lot, and used for other purposes (rough sleeping, storage). It has to be remembered that are the only toilets most people in wheelchairs can use.
They were renamed ‘accessible’ so people don’t have a go at people without wheelchairs that genuinely need them and ‘disabled’ being an emotive term. But they are the most important toilets of all. They should be the most respected and cleaned toilets. They also benefit society in general in so many ways not least they enable society to see people in wheelchairs and it be normalised for planning to be accessible for everyone. Any of us could become a wheelchair user by tomorrow. I have cared for two wheelchair users and so know about the extra worry and hassle planning where they are going. It is made easier by details on websites showing details such as which side the transfer is on as there’s a lot of factors to consider. It shouldn’t be this much of a battle.
From my research most men who don’t want to be men will not want to use any mixed sex toilets and protest. Most women who don’t want to be women want mixed sex toilets as they don’t like the men’s but, there is evidence that after time, depending on how bad the mixed sex toilets get, they will start using the women’s again. Young women (and their parents) protest for gender neutral toilets then a few years down the line they are using women’s. I also know a lot of people have problems with urgency and need sanitary protection when they have had genital surgery (irrespective of the reason for surgery).
Ambulant toilet designs can take away some of the congestion. But not for people in wheelchairs. They are ‘stuck’ with one toilet design. You can’t identify out of it and some of the language used has been disgustingly belittling of accessible toilets and their users.
This is a new problem. Men and women using each others toilets was not even discussed in the 2008 government documents on public toilet provision (and they didn’t hold back with views on sex, drugs etc). There was a lot of talk about disabled toilets and assisting disabled people in that report and it seems we are going backwards in provision - we seem to have become more prudish about discussing toilet problems.
Can I take this opportunity for a shout out for ‘Euans Guide’, particularly their campaign to make sure the red emergency cords aren’t tied up and disabled toilets are not used for storage. This is the kind of practical stuff disabled people have hassle with all the time.
Rather than create more mixed sex ‘gender-neutral’ private toilets I think one way forward is to design in single sex toilets for wheelchair users within single sex provision. For those disabled people who don’t need carers, (or carers of the same sex) it would give them the health and safety benefits, independence and dignity that able-bodied people enjoy in single sex toilets.
It took years to get women’s loos. It took much longer to get disabled loos. And yes, wants and needs are completely different things - for such wants by so few people to potentially change provision* across the country on this time scale is quite staggering.
*in terms of the massive introduction of ‘gender neutral’ loos