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EDI training for freshers

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GCburneraccount · 02/10/2025 12:05

I recently went back to uni for a reunion and saw the timetable for freshers week pinned up. Certainly more structured and less booze focussed than my hazy memory of the 90's.
I noticed they have a mandatory sexual consent session and a whole day of mandatory EDI sessions. I think my year would have been a bit bemused at that.
I'd be interested to know how this stuff is perceived by students now - anyone have insight into what sort of content its likely to cover? Do they think its odd for a uni to give young adults mandatory moral education sessions? (if thats what it is!) Do they turn up and behave?

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JHound · 03/10/2025 02:11

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Cool adhominem.

If you are going to have such strong views on a topic you should probably do some basic research first.

JaninaDuszejko · 03/10/2025 06:32

The number of working & lower-middle class kids who tell me about feeling intimidated & stupid because of class backgrounds is legion. And I've generally only worked in elite and/or Russell Group universities.

There's loads of stuff online about northerners getting slagged off for their accent at Leeds and Scots getting the same in Edinburgh. DD1 loved Liverpool when she went there because one of the students who gave a talk had a proper Scouse accent.

Feels like a backwards step though, when I went to Glasgow Uni a million years ago the halls were very much a melting pot of the middle class from across all of Scotland but the University always had contextual offers for working class Glaswegians (about half the students were local) and so I was friends with people from the Gorbals to Glenalmond College.

Soontobe60 · 03/10/2025 06:55

Comefromaway · 02/10/2025 12:30

Let ne get this straight. You think that sessions on not discriminating against someone who is disabled, of an ethnic minority or a woman etc is NOT a good idea. wow.

If only it were that simple…

JellySaurus · 03/10/2025 07:09

It’s necessary. But there are always going to be those who ignore it. A male student groped ds in his first week at uni. Ds was upset and disgusted, felt assaulted. The uni took it seriously, including involving the police, and ds felt supported by the uni. Ds was also appalled because he and the other student would have both had years of PSHCE lessons at school, plus the orientations at the uni, plus the posters everywhere about consent - yet the other student chose to break those rules.

Completely different to our experiences and expectations as female students years ago.

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 03/10/2025 07:42

Universities have to provide training to students on harassment and sexual misconduct as part of their Office for Students registration. It’s a new requirement which has come on this academic year.

GodwatchoverCharlieK · 03/10/2025 07:43

C0NFUSEDIAM · 02/10/2025 12:06

What’s edi

Crackpot woke ideology that has pushed transgenderism and critical race theory into the heart of British institutions.

RedToothBrush · 03/10/2025 08:09

ThatZanyFatball · 02/10/2025 15:14

I'm in US and here we call it DEI. And the "E" stands for equity not equality. Equality is actually considered a bigoted concept by SJWs here bc it means we should treat all people equally, vs. equity which means we should infantalize people who have been designated perpetual victims based on the color of their skin or whatever victim class they self-idenfy into. And so those people need to be provided all sorts of special (not equal) treatment bc their inherent victimhood prevents them from achieving anything based on their own merit, skills, or drive. I mean, how on earth could you want to treat a person of color equally to everyone when they're clearly permanently traumatized from experiencing every injustice imaginable bc - well just look at them!

Yup, that's considered the non-racist, non-bigoted mentality here. Shame on all you UK people still using that antiquated "equality" term which is clearly a dog whistle.

Wow.

I have no desire to aspire to be like the US.

I'm not sure it is ahead of us on acceptance anyway.

I am still unconvinced that all this EDI training actually improves matters too. What we are seeing is a massive backlash against it, which suggests it's very resented.

We'll do things in a British way, that reflects British history and British cultural differences. And by that I actually mean not just in terms of immigration patterns but also the difference between Brits and Americans who are white and have lived in their respective countries for generations.

The UK has a very different culture and way of dealing with things to America even though we share a language. DH works for a US company and comes across this daily. It causes conflict in ways which are invisible. Some manners when asking for things wouldn't go amiss as a simple example.

We are actually meeting a friend who is American later today who lives in Europe as well as her American friend from home and we are very aware of these differences and how we approach certain topics and make jokes.

The UK is not some kind of backwards American colony, which some Americans seem to think. We are just different. We don't like the arrogance.

Stop telling us what we should do and get your own house in order first.

RedToothBrush · 03/10/2025 08:12

JaninaDuszejko · 03/10/2025 06:32

The number of working & lower-middle class kids who tell me about feeling intimidated & stupid because of class backgrounds is legion. And I've generally only worked in elite and/or Russell Group universities.

There's loads of stuff online about northerners getting slagged off for their accent at Leeds and Scots getting the same in Edinburgh. DD1 loved Liverpool when she went there because one of the students who gave a talk had a proper Scouse accent.

Feels like a backwards step though, when I went to Glasgow Uni a million years ago the halls were very much a melting pot of the middle class from across all of Scotland but the University always had contextual offers for working class Glaswegians (about half the students were local) and so I was friends with people from the Gorbals to Glenalmond College.

I'm middle class and went to uni in the north. It was a decent uni.

There's a difference between the northern middle class and the middle class from London. It's not a lower-middle class thing. It's a 'god they have no idea outside their own class bubble and outside London' thing.

Complet · 03/10/2025 08:21

GCburneraccount · 02/10/2025 13:02

Steady on @Comefromaway I didn't say say that!
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My first reaction on seeing it was to think about 18 year old me and my cohort in the 90's. I reckon faced with a day of EDI training most wouldn't have turned up, and some would have come and messed about. Things have changed since then and I'm interested in what todays 18 year olds would do. And I guess the wider question is does this achieve its aim?
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I'm not sure what I think about all this, which is why I'm asking. I've gone in a big circle with this stuff in the last 15 years or so. I was very enthusiastic about training on all aspects of EA2010, and have seen various iterations of what you end up getting when you do that, some good, some bad. If anything I'm now instinctively averse to 'moral' training for adults unless theres very good reason.

Hopefully today’s class would be more respectful. Which, according to my friend who is a lecturer they are. I can’t speak for all universities but her EDI training covers everything, including class-based discrimination. As does my company’s EDI training. I can’t see how discussing consent and being aware of other people’s differences is a bad thing?

I went to uni in the 2000s and luckily most people in my class were there to learn. You don’t always learn about things you agree with, that’s sort of the whole point. People were respectful though and wouldn’t have been mucking about like being at primary school.

JaninaDuszejko · 03/10/2025 08:28

RedToothBrush · 03/10/2025 08:12

I'm middle class and went to uni in the north. It was a decent uni.

There's a difference between the northern middle class and the middle class from London. It's not a lower-middle class thing. It's a 'god they have no idea outside their own class bubble and outside London' thing.

Completely agree.

CatchingtheCat · 03/10/2025 10:36

JaninaDuszejko · 03/10/2025 06:32

The number of working & lower-middle class kids who tell me about feeling intimidated & stupid because of class backgrounds is legion. And I've generally only worked in elite and/or Russell Group universities.

There's loads of stuff online about northerners getting slagged off for their accent at Leeds and Scots getting the same in Edinburgh. DD1 loved Liverpool when she went there because one of the students who gave a talk had a proper Scouse accent.

Feels like a backwards step though, when I went to Glasgow Uni a million years ago the halls were very much a melting pot of the middle class from across all of Scotland but the University always had contextual offers for working class Glaswegians (about half the students were local) and so I was friends with people from the Gorbals to Glenalmond College.

There was a big push of publicity around this by a newly set up Scottish socialist society at Edinburgh uni, especially complaining about English students. Of course no bias or conflict there…

Notmycircusnotmyotter · 03/10/2025 11:04

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 02/10/2025 12:17

I see you've already been enlightened but I just thought I'd add that the original acronym was not a good acronym ('DIE'), so the letters were switched around.

See also IED

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 03/10/2025 11:05

Notmycircusnotmyotter · 03/10/2025 11:04

See also IED

Indeed. Talk about a minefield. (no pun intended)

ParmaVioletTea · 03/10/2025 11:19

RedToothBrush · 03/10/2025 08:12

I'm middle class and went to uni in the north. It was a decent uni.

There's a difference between the northern middle class and the middle class from London. It's not a lower-middle class thing. It's a 'god they have no idea outside their own class bubble and outside London' thing.

Yup, that as well @RedToothBrush (I taught for a long time in an excellent university in north-west England). Students were very aware of regional differences.

Comefromaway · 03/10/2025 11:23

My daughter always considered herself to be from a fairly affluent family and she recognised how privileged she was - until she went to uni in London for a year when she was considered to be poor amongst her peers. It's a different world.

ThatZanyFatball · 03/10/2025 11:25

RedToothBrush · 03/10/2025 08:09

Wow.

I have no desire to aspire to be like the US.

I'm not sure it is ahead of us on acceptance anyway.

I am still unconvinced that all this EDI training actually improves matters too. What we are seeing is a massive backlash against it, which suggests it's very resented.

We'll do things in a British way, that reflects British history and British cultural differences. And by that I actually mean not just in terms of immigration patterns but also the difference between Brits and Americans who are white and have lived in their respective countries for generations.

The UK has a very different culture and way of dealing with things to America even though we share a language. DH works for a US company and comes across this daily. It causes conflict in ways which are invisible. Some manners when asking for things wouldn't go amiss as a simple example.

We are actually meeting a friend who is American later today who lives in Europe as well as her American friend from home and we are very aware of these differences and how we approach certain topics and make jokes.

The UK is not some kind of backwards American colony, which some Americans seem to think. We are just different. We don't like the arrogance.

Stop telling us what we should do and get your own house in order first.

I'm really sorry but you do understand I was being sarcastic? I was pointing out how America, like we always do, has taken things to an even further extreme when it comes to DEI or EDI or whatever. I do NOT think the UK should adopt American DEI practices I think America has taken our own DEI to a place of, well, it's own form of perverted bigotry.

Sorry if my American sarcasm wasn't clear.

GCburneraccount · 03/10/2025 13:44

Thanks for the insights into what this looks like in practice.

My recent experiences of this stuff is of it going bad and leading to divisiveness and bullying, often led by recent grads so I suppose I come to it a bit jaded and cynical. Its nice to hear some positive examples.

It doesn't seem like a bad idea to tell them something like 'you are going to meet loads of people who are very different to you, enjoy the experience, be excellent to each other and don't be an idiot'. Perhaps we had something like that as part of a welcome talk, I can't remember now.
I'm not sure how they spin it out to a whole day, but perhaps they wrap in some getting to know you activities. If they socalise less in person now due to devices etc perhaps thats valuable.

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GCburneraccount · 03/10/2025 13:46

Class is an interesting one. I've thought in the past of how to bring it in to stuff around EA2010 but its hard - how do you define it? How do you do it without stigmatising people or starting a load of class/money based conversations and prying? I've always ended up giving up.

I came to uni from a UK backwater which didn't really have any 'rich' people. Uni was the first time I met people who were properly wealthy or had been to private school. To be fair, I was pretty oblivious to it then, I only got tuned into it a few years after leaving when I'd lived in wealthier areas and learnt more about the signifiers of status and wealth. Shame, if I'd learned this earlier I could have been much more successful in bagging a rich husband (JOKE).

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GCburneraccount · 03/10/2025 13:50

CatchingtheCat · 03/10/2025 10:36

There was a big push of publicity around this by a newly set up Scottish socialist society at Edinburgh uni, especially complaining about English students. Of course no bias or conflict there…

Haha - there is nothing new under the sun! I remember similar from friends at Edinburgh in the 90's. Except perhaps its easier now for overenthusiastic student outrage to jump into the mainstream?

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ImthatBoleyngirl · 03/10/2025 16:30

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That's out of order!

TheCatsTongue · 03/10/2025 16:36

I bet the mandatory sexual consent classes won't mention that you need to disclose your biological sex if you present as the opposite sex.

CatchingtheCat · 03/10/2025 18:18

TheCatsTongue · 03/10/2025 16:36

I bet the mandatory sexual consent classes won't mention that you need to disclose your biological sex if you present as the opposite sex.

Or that you cannot consent on behalf of other women to allow men into female changing rooms.

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