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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Bristol Council insists women be called ‘people with ovaries’

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IwantToRetire · 23/09/2025 20:24

The comments were made in a 39-page response to a consultation by the Equality and Human Rights Commission (EHRC) on updates to its guidance, following the ruling that sex in equality laws refers to biological sex.

It wrote that “not all pregnant individuals would use the pronouns ‘she/her’” so it could lead to “emotional and psychological distress” for “trans men, non-binary, gender diverse or intersex individuals”.

“We strongly advise the use of more inclusive language such as using ‘they/them’ to refer to all individuals, or include other identities to reflect the diversity of individuals who access maternity or paternity services,” officials said.

“This could include ‘people with ovaries’ or the term ‘people who use paternity services’. We also recognise that individuals may not identify with the word maternity and prefer paternity as it is gender neutral.

“Additionally, it is unclear what support will be available to trans people who chest-feed to ensure they are protected from discrimination.”
Protections based on biological sex are “too vague”, the response added, as: “It is unclear whether it refers to anyone capable of pregnancy, or only those who were assigned female at birth.”

Council officials complained that the new guidance implies that “trans women are not ‘really’ women” and risked “creating a hostile environment in public services”.

Full article at https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/09/22/council-says-women-called-people-with-ovaries/

And at https://archive.is/TOgKA

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Merrymouse · 25/09/2025 14:36

But the guidelines don't only exist in my mind, and I'm starting to be quite concerned about your lack of knowledge and understanding of ethics, if you really are a midwife working in the NHS.

www.nhs.uk/tests-and-treatments/consent-to-treatment/

Defining consent
For consent to be valid, it must be voluntary and informed, and the person consenting must have the capacity to make the decision.
The meaning of these terms are:

  • voluntary – the decision to either consent or not to consent to treatment must be made by the person, and must not be influenced by pressure from medical staff, friends or family
  • informed – the person must be given all of the information about what the treatment involves, including the benefits and risks, whether there are reasonable alternative treatments, and what will happen if treatment does not go ahead
  • capacity – the person must be capable of giving consent, which means they understand the information given to them and can use it to make an informed decision

https://www.cqc.org.uk/guidance-regulation/providers/regulations-service-providers-and-managers/health-social-care-act/regulation-11

  • When a person is asked for their consent, information about the proposed care and treatment must be provided in a way that they can understand. This should include information about the risks, complications and any alternatives. A person with the necessary knowledge and understanding of the care and treatment should provide this information so that they can answer any questions about it to help the person consent to it.
LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:37

TheignT · 25/09/2025 14:34

It's never occurred to me, I just accepted the information that I no longer needed to have smears. Interesting particularly coming from a family where every female in the generation above me died of cervical, ovarian, bowel or vulvar cancer. Both sides of the family.

I'd definitely screen for HPV by vaginal swab with some regularity.

childofthe607080s · 25/09/2025 14:38

Given the data coming out I think the idea that doctors have decided it’s best may be a little premature

I do think there are a few people for whom surgery might be appropriate but given the Alzheimer’s patients looking for their lost genitals , the lack of improvement in mental health , the number who change their minds - I suspect doctors will be changing their own minds soon enough

Merrymouse · 25/09/2025 14:39

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:34

Who says they believe it will change their sex. It is gender affirming surgery. Look we get that you don't want trans people to jave any surgeries or whatever but you're just not making sense. Doctors have decided as a whole that gender affirming surgery is not only ethical, it is the only right thing to do for people who want it. You need to accept that and move on..your opinions mean nothing to the people who decide these things.

Doctors have decided as a whole that gender affirming surgery is not only ethical, it is the only right thing to do for people who want it.

I suggest you read 'Time to Think' by Hannah Barnes.

Taking your posts and face value and on the basis that you are sincere, I think your problem might be that you don't know what you don't know.

Merrymouse · 25/09/2025 14:41

TheignT · 25/09/2025 14:34

It's never occurred to me, I just accepted the information that I no longer needed to have smears. Interesting particularly coming from a family where every female in the generation above me died of cervical, ovarian, bowel or vulvar cancer. Both sides of the family.

Without wishing to cast aspersions on anyone on posting not his thread, I suggest you seek advice from somebody who you know to be a doctor.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 14:43

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:34

Who says they believe it will change their sex. It is gender affirming surgery. Look we get that you don't want trans people to jave any surgeries or whatever but you're just not making sense. Doctors have decided as a whole that gender affirming surgery is not only ethical, it is the only right thing to do for people who want it. You need to accept that and move on..your opinions mean nothing to the people who decide these things.

Some of them clearly do believe it will change or has changed their sex.

Their doctor has a professional duty to make sure they understand the following things BEFORE they agree to do the surgery:

  • it will result in total and permanent loss of fertility and sexual function;
  • it has a high complication/failure rate and they may need multiple follow up surgeries to try to make the end result acceptable;
  • there is no guarantee that the end result will ever be acceptable;
  • it may cause urinary and/or fecal incontinence;
  • it may make it difficult or impossible to attract sexual partners in the future;
  • they will need to inform all potential sexual partners about it in advance, as if it were an incurable STD;
  • it will not have an impact on whether they are able to "pass" as the opposite sex in everyday life;
  • it may not alleviate their dysphoria;
  • it will not change their sex; and
  • it will not guarantee their entitlement to access, either now or in the future, single sex spaces for the opposite sex.

If the patient understands all of these things and is an adult with a fully developed brain and has been judged to be mentally competent and capable of giving informed consent after undergoing a rigorous psychiatric assessment, then and only then should the doctor agree to operate.

But that's not what happens, is it?

Shortshriftandlethal · 25/09/2025 14:45

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 08:33

And lol how is the issue of trans people using the materniry service irrelevant to this thread about what language the healthcare service uses.

You wanted to pretend that it was about men giving birth and breastfeeding when it was always about women who dont identify as women but do give birth. It's just more attractive for many of you to fit this into your anti-man agenda.

Don't be daft!

We all know you are talking about women who don't like to think of themselves as women. Men, clearly cannot give birth and wouldn't require maternity services, would they? And I for one do not have an 'anti man' agenda. i like men, generally, but I just don't want them intruding upon facilities set aside for the privacy and dignity of women and girls. All good, decent men understand this, anyway.

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:45

Merrymouse · 25/09/2025 14:39

Doctors have decided as a whole that gender affirming surgery is not only ethical, it is the only right thing to do for people who want it.

I suggest you read 'Time to Think' by Hannah Barnes.

Taking your posts and face value and on the basis that you are sincere, I think your problem might be that you don't know what you don't know.

I dont have to read the article because I know I could get a sex change if I wanted to right now regardless of what Hannah has to say about it

TheignT · 25/09/2025 14:45

Merrymouse · 25/09/2025 14:41

Without wishing to cast aspersions on anyone on posting not his thread, I suggest you seek advice from somebody who you know to be a doctor.

Well I might, obviously I wouldn't have done that before as it hadn't occurred to me that there might be a reason for screening if I no longer have a cervix

I have no idea why aspersions come into it, I read a thread which has alerted me to something I had no idea about. Surely that is a positive and not a problem?

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:47

Shortshriftandlethal · 25/09/2025 14:45

Don't be daft!

We all know you are talking about women who don't like to think of themselves as women. Men, clearly cannot give birth and wouldn't require maternity services, would they? And I for one do not have an 'anti man' agenda. i like men, generally, but I just don't want them intruding upon facilities set aside for the privacy and dignity of women and girls. All good, decent men understand this, anyway.

We are only speaking about trans men and non binary people whi can conceive because I rose the topic. You'd still be talking about the possibility of men coming to breastfeeding classes if it wasnt for me pulling this back around to what is actually relevant in maternity care.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 14:48

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:45

I dont have to read the article because I know I could get a sex change if I wanted to right now regardless of what Hannah has to say about it

There's no such thing as a sex change.

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:48

TheignT · 25/09/2025 14:45

Well I might, obviously I wouldn't have done that before as it hadn't occurred to me that there might be a reason for screening if I no longer have a cervix

I have no idea why aspersions come into it, I read a thread which has alerted me to something I had no idea about. Surely that is a positive and not a problem?

You can read up online about vaginal swabs for HPV.

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:49

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 14:48

There's no such thing as a sex change.

If i call it that, then the surgery id have to create a penis and remove my breasts absolutely would be and there is nothing you can do about it

Merrymouse · 25/09/2025 14:49

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:45

I dont have to read the article because I know I could get a sex change if I wanted to right now regardless of what Hannah has to say about it

It's not an article.

It is a book, and the investigation carried out by Hannah Barnes contributed to the closure of the Tavistock clinic.

You really aren't coming across as a midwife working in the NHS, or as somebody who even lives in the UK if you aren't aware of any of this.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 14:50

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:49

If i call it that, then the surgery id have to create a penis and remove my breasts absolutely would be and there is nothing you can do about it

Have you ever seen a picture of a phalloplasty? Would you really call that a penis?

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 14:50

Merrymouse · 25/09/2025 14:49

It's not an article.

It is a book, and the investigation carried out by Hannah Barnes contributed to the closure of the Tavistock clinic.

You really aren't coming across as a midwife working in the NHS, or as somebody who even lives in the UK if you aren't aware of any of this.

No wonder maternity care in the UK is in such a state.

TheignT · 25/09/2025 14:50

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:48

You can read up online about vaginal swabs for HPV.

Thank you, obviously I've never done that because I just believed the medical advice I was given. I will check it out.

Shortshriftandlethal · 25/09/2025 14:51

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 11:07

Who thinks a man can have a cervix?

David Lammy, for one.

Merrymouse · 25/09/2025 14:53

TheignT · 25/09/2025 14:45

Well I might, obviously I wouldn't have done that before as it hadn't occurred to me that there might be a reason for screening if I no longer have a cervix

I have no idea why aspersions come into it, I read a thread which has alerted me to something I had no idea about. Surely that is a positive and not a problem?

Wasn't casting aspersions on you at all.

I just think that you are getting advice from somebody who is presenting themselves as medically qualified, when they may not be.

Obviously we could all be lorry drivers called Steve having a break on the M4.

Shortshriftandlethal · 25/09/2025 14:56

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 11:56

I dont know enough about the intricacies of sex changes to know if they do create an artifical cervix or not.

However, if the increased risk of HPV can be detected by the smear programme, then why wouldn't they be included?

If uptake was dependent on inclusive language in this population, then I see no issue with using their preferred terms for their anatomy. Whatever it is.

No, they don't and if they could where, conceivably, would it lead?

A neo vagina is technically a blind fistula not a functioning human organ

Shortshriftandlethal · 25/09/2025 14:59

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 12:01

For who?

If everyone who identifies as a woman for whatever reason and who has a vagina or neovagina attends for the screening they need, where is the roadblock?

What it does is buy into their belief that they are a woman with a cervix. As HCPs, it is more important that they access heath promotion initiatives than for us to worry about that as a wider issue. Our first job is to deliver healthcare to the population and it is never our job to exclude people.

A male person with a neo vagina would not need cervical screening of course, nor the services of a gynaecologist or an obstetrician, as both of these specialists deal with the female reproductive system.

TheignT · 25/09/2025 15:01

Merrymouse · 25/09/2025 14:53

Wasn't casting aspersions on you at all.

I just think that you are getting advice from somebody who is presenting themselves as medically qualified, when they may not be.

Obviously we could all be lorry drivers called Steve having a break on the M4.

Well yes but obviously if I think I need this I have to speak to a HCP. I might give my DIL a call later, she's a doctor so she can advise me.

If this is a thing women need to be made aware of it.

Shortshriftandlethal · 25/09/2025 15:02

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 12:02

That's your opinion on trans issues. Many doctors believe the complete opposite hence their decision to specialise in such surgery.

It is re-assignment surgery, though, not gynaecology.

Shortshriftandlethal · 25/09/2025 15:05

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 12:41

So this is about your personal opinion that trans related healthcare shouldn't be offered by the medical system at all.

Not on the NHS, no.

Mmmnotsure · 25/09/2025 15:06

@LoftyRobin
You appear to be just playing with words now. You admit it isn’t a sex change, and a few minutes later you state that it is if you say it is.

This is people’s bodies and lives. Material reality. We can play linguistics/post-modernism/queer theory/structuralism and post-structuralism as long as you like, but in the real world words need to have meaning.

LoftyRobin · Today 14:34

MissScarletInTheBallroom · Today 14:31
I'm talking about INFORMED CONSENT.
How can you give informed consent to having your genitals irreparably butchered if you mistakenly believe it will make you change sex?
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Who says they believe it will change their sex. It is gender affirming surgery.

LoftyRobin · Today 14:49

MissScarletInTheBallroom · Today 14:48
There's no such thing as a sex change.
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If i call it that, then the surgery id have to create a penis and remove my breasts absolutely would be and there is nothing you can do about it