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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Bristol Council insists women be called ‘people with ovaries’

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IwantToRetire · 23/09/2025 20:24

The comments were made in a 39-page response to a consultation by the Equality and Human Rights Commission (EHRC) on updates to its guidance, following the ruling that sex in equality laws refers to biological sex.

It wrote that “not all pregnant individuals would use the pronouns ‘she/her’” so it could lead to “emotional and psychological distress” for “trans men, non-binary, gender diverse or intersex individuals”.

“We strongly advise the use of more inclusive language such as using ‘they/them’ to refer to all individuals, or include other identities to reflect the diversity of individuals who access maternity or paternity services,” officials said.

“This could include ‘people with ovaries’ or the term ‘people who use paternity services’. We also recognise that individuals may not identify with the word maternity and prefer paternity as it is gender neutral.

“Additionally, it is unclear what support will be available to trans people who chest-feed to ensure they are protected from discrimination.”
Protections based on biological sex are “too vague”, the response added, as: “It is unclear whether it refers to anyone capable of pregnancy, or only those who were assigned female at birth.”

Council officials complained that the new guidance implies that “trans women are not ‘really’ women” and risked “creating a hostile environment in public services”.

Full article at https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/09/22/council-says-women-called-people-with-ovaries/

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Merrymouse · 25/09/2025 14:10

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:08

I'm not sure you do tbh. Can you point to what literature for clinicians says that you must tell them this? I have no idea. It might exist. Or is this you saying what you think should happen?

It's the lack of evidence based studies supporting the treatment, set against the impact of turning somebody into a life long patient that is the problem.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 14:12

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:08

I'm not sure you do tbh. Can you point to what literature for clinicians says that you must tell them this? I have no idea. It might exist. Or is this you saying what you think should happen?

Of course that's what should happen. Are you actually mad?

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:13

https://gynecolsurg.springeropen.com/articles/10.1007/s10397-016-0981-1

Congenital cervical atresia is a Müllerian ducts anomaly of the female reproductive tract that is challenging to treat; it includes agenesis and dysgenesis of the cervix 1]. The incidence of Müllerian ducts anomalies in the general female population is estimated to be 0.001 to 10 % 2]. Complete vaginal agenesis with an absent uterus and cervix occurs in 1 in 4000 to 1 in 10,000 female births 2]. Cervical atresia was managed with hysterectomy; however, several surgical procedures have been proposed to preserve a healthy sexual life with the possibility of successful fertility outcomes in female patients 37]. These procedures include laparoscopic surgeries, skin graft, and use of Foley’s catheter and silicone stents

Minimally invasive technique for the reconstruction of the cervix in cervical atresia - Gynecological Surgery

Cervical atresia is a challenging anomaly with an invasive management. We describe a case of cervical atresia who had multiple surgeries before this case was treated by using a minimal invasive technique by inserting gastrostomy tube with guide wire th...

https://gynecolsurg.springeropen.com/articles/10.1007/s10397-016-0981-1

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:14

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 14:12

Of course that's what should happen. Are you actually mad?

So its based on your wishes and not what any medical board has concluded afte rigorous debate and discussion about the ethics of offering such procedures. Okay Mary-Annabelle, we'll all listen to you 🙄

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:15

Merrymouse · 25/09/2025 14:10

It's the lack of evidence based studies supporting the treatment, set against the impact of turning somebody into a life long patient that is the problem.

Ah well the medical field disagrees.

Merrymouse · 25/09/2025 14:17

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:08

I'm not sure you do tbh. Can you point to what literature for clinicians says that you must tell them this? I have no idea. It might exist. Or is this you saying what you think should happen?

Hang on a sec - are you genuinely saying that clinicians don't have a duty to inform patients that their sex can't be changed?

I'm shocked that anyone would think this would be OK anyway, but this was one of the problems picked up in the Cass report - that children didn't comprehend that they couldn't change sex.

I don't think it's more ethical to treat an adult who doesn't understand the limits of their treatment.

How can somebody consent to treatment that they don't understand?

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 14:17

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:14

So its based on your wishes and not what any medical board has concluded afte rigorous debate and discussion about the ethics of offering such procedures. Okay Mary-Annabelle, we'll all listen to you 🙄

Sorry, what? You think it's acceptable for doctors to perform dangerous surgery with an extremely high complication rate, resulting in the permanent loss of fertility and sexual function, on physically healthy patients with a mental health disorder, without making sure they understand that the changes will only be cosmetic and that they cannot actually change sex?

Do you understand the principle of informed consent?

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:17

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 12:55

So what do you think the two words mean now then?

It's only now that people have separated them so my use of sex and gender interchangeably isn't radical in the slightest. But again, my personal views or experiences have no bearing on the clinical care I am obliged to give as a HCP

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:20

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 14:17

Sorry, what? You think it's acceptable for doctors to perform dangerous surgery with an extremely high complication rate, resulting in the permanent loss of fertility and sexual function, on physically healthy patients with a mental health disorder, without making sure they understand that the changes will only be cosmetic and that they cannot actually change sex?

Do you understand the principle of informed consent?

They think it acceptable as do the people who seek out that much desired surgery, for the very most part.

It doesnt matter what me or you think, Sarah-Louise. The medical board have looked at this and decided yes they want to offer these surgeries, privately and otherwise. It is completely out of our hands and again, has no obligation for me to.fulfil my role as a midwife and not berate and argue with any trans maternity service users I come across.

TheignT · 25/09/2025 14:20

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 12:43

If it is an orifice and HPV can "get in there", I think that general area might be suspectible as someone else pointed out. Whether a smear test could screen for that, i don't know. If it can, as in taking a smear of cells from that area for screening can be of predictive value, then I see no reason not to offer it on the NHS.

My cervix was removed along with womb, ovaries and fallopian tubes. I still have a vagina. I was told I no longer needed smear tests due to no cervix. I wonder if I still needed them to test for hpv. Admittedly it was years ago so things might have changed.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 14:21

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:15

Ah well the medical field disagrees.

Happy Music Video GIF by DJ Mustard

Here's a gif of the medical field disagreeing.

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:22

Merrymouse · 25/09/2025 14:17

Hang on a sec - are you genuinely saying that clinicians don't have a duty to inform patients that their sex can't be changed?

I'm shocked that anyone would think this would be OK anyway, but this was one of the problems picked up in the Cass report - that children didn't comprehend that they couldn't change sex.

I don't think it's more ethical to treat an adult who doesn't understand the limits of their treatment.

How can somebody consent to treatment that they don't understand?

No I don't think that is in their guidelines even if you, me or a boy named Boo thinks it should be. I might be wrong and it is in there, but a lot of you here have to separate what you think should be the case from what is the case.

A doctor can't be breaching a guideline that only exists in your mind.

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:22

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 14:21

Here's a gif of the medical field disagreeing.

Yes our NHS docs who get paid per operation right! Tin foil hats on!

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 14:23

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:20

They think it acceptable as do the people who seek out that much desired surgery, for the very most part.

It doesnt matter what me or you think, Sarah-Louise. The medical board have looked at this and decided yes they want to offer these surgeries, privately and otherwise. It is completely out of our hands and again, has no obligation for me to.fulfil my role as a midwife and not berate and argue with any trans maternity service users I come across.

If they think it is acceptable, they aren't fit to practice.

Your role as a midwife means you're supposed to understand what informed consent means.

I'm appalled that you don't.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 14:24

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:22

Yes our NHS docs who get paid per operation right! Tin foil hats on!

This shit comes from America, like so much other shit. Doctors in America get rich from it, then patients in the UK believe they want it and demand that the NHS pays for it.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 14:25

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:22

No I don't think that is in their guidelines even if you, me or a boy named Boo thinks it should be. I might be wrong and it is in there, but a lot of you here have to separate what you think should be the case from what is the case.

A doctor can't be breaching a guideline that only exists in your mind.

Medical ethics exist, even if doctors working in this particular field believe they are exempt.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 14:26

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:17

It's only now that people have separated them so my use of sex and gender interchangeably isn't radical in the slightest. But again, my personal views or experiences have no bearing on the clinical care I am obliged to give as a HCP

Let us all observe that this is not by any stretch of the imagination an answer to my actual question.

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:26

TheignT · 25/09/2025 14:20

My cervix was removed along with womb, ovaries and fallopian tubes. I still have a vagina. I was told I no longer needed smear tests due to no cervix. I wonder if I still needed them to test for hpv. Admittedly it was years ago so things might have changed.

Its a good question. I'm pretty sure vayibal swabs would tell you your HPV status on the absence of a cervix to screen.

Merrymouse · 25/09/2025 14:26

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:22

Yes our NHS docs who get paid per operation right! Tin foil hats on!

Are you not aware of Cass report and investigations into the Tavistock.

This treatment is no longer given to children in the UK.

You are giving the impression that you don't know enough about this topic to comment.

Merrymouse · 25/09/2025 14:27

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:15

Ah well the medical field disagrees.

Did you not understand my post? There is a lack of evidence, so no 'the medical field (whoever they are)' don't disagree, they just don't know.

Particularly regarding treatment of children, there is increasing evidence that 'gender affirming' treatment is harmful. Apart form anything else, 'successful' treatment it depends on suppressing puberty permanently because you can't go through opposite sex puberty.

https://jessesingal.substack.com/p/the-disaster-at-mcmaster-part-1

Jesse Singal has done extensive research into the active suppression of research.

This is the full version of an article he wrote for the Economist

https://jessesingal.substack.com/p/childhood-gender-research-is-increasingly

The Disaster At McMaster, Part 1

Scholars are being “traumatized,” a long-running collaboration is being torched. . . what is going on?

https://jessesingal.substack.com/p/the-disaster-at-mcmaster-part-1

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:28

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 14:23

If they think it is acceptable, they aren't fit to practice.

Your role as a midwife means you're supposed to understand what informed consent means.

I'm appalled that you don't.

You can keep arguing this on the basis that trans people are given inclusive healthcare but it won't make it true. It just makes you seem like you'll lash out with anything to try and be right but youre not. Your opinions on this arent going to change anything when it comes to patient care of trans people. We aren't going to punish them, sorry.

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:30

Merrymouse · 25/09/2025 14:27

Did you not understand my post? There is a lack of evidence, so no 'the medical field (whoever they are)' don't disagree, they just don't know.

Particularly regarding treatment of children, there is increasing evidence that 'gender affirming' treatment is harmful. Apart form anything else, 'successful' treatment it depends on suppressing puberty permanently because you can't go through opposite sex puberty.

https://jessesingal.substack.com/p/the-disaster-at-mcmaster-part-1

Jesse Singal has done extensive research into the active suppression of research.

This is the full version of an article he wrote for the Economist

https://jessesingal.substack.com/p/childhood-gender-research-is-increasingly

Children are a different matter.

Most trans people are thankful and happier once they receive this kind of care. Those who regret are a minority. So every bit of evidence pointed towards more and better care for trans people, not excluding them or debating their identity. All the supreme court ruling has done in terms of NHS staff is ensure that we have regular diversity training around trans healthcare.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 14:31

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:28

You can keep arguing this on the basis that trans people are given inclusive healthcare but it won't make it true. It just makes you seem like you'll lash out with anything to try and be right but youre not. Your opinions on this arent going to change anything when it comes to patient care of trans people. We aren't going to punish them, sorry.

I'm talking about INFORMED CONSENT.

How can you give informed consent to having your genitals irreparably butchered if you mistakenly believe it will make you change sex?

TheignT · 25/09/2025 14:34

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:26

Its a good question. I'm pretty sure vayibal swabs would tell you your HPV status on the absence of a cervix to screen.

It's never occurred to me, I just accepted the information that I no longer needed to have smears. Interesting particularly coming from a family where every female in the generation above me died of cervical, ovarian, bowel or vulvar cancer. Both sides of the family.

LoftyRobin · 25/09/2025 14:34

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 14:31

I'm talking about INFORMED CONSENT.

How can you give informed consent to having your genitals irreparably butchered if you mistakenly believe it will make you change sex?

Who says they believe it will change their sex. It is gender affirming surgery. Look we get that you don't want trans people to jave any surgeries or whatever but you're just not making sense. Doctors have decided as a whole that gender affirming surgery is not only ethical, it is the only right thing to do for people who want it. You need to accept that and move on..your opinions mean nothing to the people who decide these things.