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Stephanie Shirley, early woman tech pioneer

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MsAmerica · 15/09/2025 23:48

Stephanie Shirley, Who Created a Tech World for Women, Dies at 91
In 1962, she started a software company at her dining room table with a revolutionary idea: to create a place where women could find a work-life balance.
By Jeré Longman

A refugee from Nazi-occupied Austria at age 5, just before World War II, Ms. Shirley lived with a foster family in the West Midlands of England, near the Wales border. She often expressed appreciation for her adopted country, which she said gave her a “life worth saving,” but she found career opportunities there for girls and women in the 1950s and early ’60s to be limited and stultifying....

In a 2015 TED Talk, Ms. Shirley said, “You can always tell ambitious women by the shape of our heads — they’re flat on top from being patted patronizingly.”

Ms. Shirley started her company at her dining room table with a revolutionary intention: to offer other women a work-life balance. At the time, many educated women left the computer industry after marrying or having a child. Ms. Shirley provided them an opportunity to re-enter the work force while remaining at home, writing code part time with flexible hours.

When the company’s name was changed to F International — it was later F1, and eventually Xansa — the F stood not only for freelance but also for flexible and free. In job interviews, she asked applicants one simple question: “Do you have access to a telephone?”

For the whole piece:

https://www.nytimes.com/2025/08/20/business/stephanie-shirley-dead.html

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EBearhug · 16/09/2025 00:31

She wasn't from Austria, she was from Dortmund in Germany.

She was brilliant, saw her speak twice at women in tech events.

columnatedruinsdomino · 16/09/2025 01:12

She was a trail-blazer and a hero to us in the 80s. DP and I both worked for F-International/FI/Xansa. RIP Steve.

PikesPeaked · 16/09/2025 06:35

I heard Dame Stephanie Shirley speak at a Holocaust Memorial Day event in her home town. An extraordinary woman whose life was saved by the kindness of strangers, and went on to make her life have meaning by helping others build their lives.

.זיכרונה לברכה May her name and memory be a blessing.

Igneococcus · 16/09/2025 06:37

She was on Radio 3's Private Passion a few years back, worth seeking out and listening to.

PikesPeaked · 16/09/2025 06:38

זיכרונה לברכה

May her name and memory be a blessing.

EBearhug · 16/09/2025 07:27

Igneococcus · 16/09/2025 06:37

She was on Radio 3's Private Passion a few years back, worth seeking out and listening to.

She also did Desert Island Discs and the Life Scientific on Radio 4.

hholiday · 16/09/2025 07:57

In a 2015 TED Talk, Ms. Shirley said, “You can always tell ambitious women by the shape of our heads — they’re flat on top from being patted patronizingly” – this is the most brilliant quote

teawamutu · 16/09/2025 08:04

Amazing sounding woman - heading off to read up, thanks for sharing.

parietal · 16/09/2025 09:03

I met her once. Her son has autism and she put a lot of time and funding into autism research. Excellent woman.

FuzzyPuffling · 16/09/2025 10:46

She supported a charity I worked for. Brilliant woman.
RIP.

PachacutisBadAuntie · 16/09/2025 19:52

A few things on BBC Sounds but this is the most recent, I'll listen tomorrow
www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/m0013hws

LizzieSiddal · 16/09/2025 20:31

EBearhug · 16/09/2025 07:27

She also did Desert Island Discs and the Life Scientific on Radio 4.

I enjoyed listening to her on both of these programmes. A wonderfully inspiring woman who overcame huge challenges. I remember her saying she had to call herself Steve because businesses would not reply to her letters if signed her real name.

RIP Stephanie.

PachacutisBadAuntie · 16/09/2025 21:17

Just read this - what an extraordinary woman.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 16/09/2025 21:49

Thank you. An amazing women.
The comments below are fascinating as well.

deadpan · 17/09/2025 08:15

I love her comment about flat heads!!!

MsAmerica · 19/09/2025 21:34

EBearhug · 16/09/2025 00:31

She wasn't from Austria, she was from Dortmund in Germany.

She was brilliant, saw her speak twice at women in tech events.

This is so nice! I had never heard of her, but I'm glad to know she was so admired.

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MsAmerica · 19/09/2025 21:36

deadpan · 17/09/2025 08:15

I love her comment about flat heads!!!

Me, too! That's why I made a point of including it, for those who don't go on to read the complete article.

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TraceysNan · 19/09/2025 21:54

I was such a fan of Steve, I was subscribed to her excellent newsletter and the announcement they sent sharing news of her death made me cry. An absolutely brilliant woman that most people won't even have heard of. She also appeared on an episode of the high performance podcast if anyone is interested to hear more about her.

NutButterOnToast · 19/09/2025 22:03

I heard her speak at a women in data event years ago, had no idea who she was and I was just blown away. What an incredible person. I feel very lucky that I got to hear her tell her story.

It was a blow to hear that she died. She really made a mark on the world.

MsAmerica · 22/09/2025 00:05

TraceysNan · 19/09/2025 21:54

I was such a fan of Steve, I was subscribed to her excellent newsletter and the announcement they sent sharing news of her death made me cry. An absolutely brilliant woman that most people won't even have heard of. She also appeared on an episode of the high performance podcast if anyone is interested to hear more about her.

Yes, I had never heard of her, but I'm so pleased to hear from others who knew of her and admired her!

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