Charlie Kirk did well at one thing - persuading people that he was interested in a meaningful, honest and respectful debate. That was an incredible achievement given that his aim was simply to indoctrinate young voters into believing his opinions.
He used debating tricks to get Tik Tok suitable clips - short, snappy clips that appear to show his debating opponent as deluded, extremist or ignorant. He framed the questions, moderated most of these and encouraged the crowd to cheer and jeer. He. more often that not, picked who he debated. He had prepared statements full of "facts" but basically it's the same technique that Trumps uses - say that it's true often enough and throw some statistics in. When you're failing, reference God/Jesus/Familty/God Bless America and suddenly you're winning the debate again.
He's not respectful to trans people - he mocks them and sets them up for ridicule but frames it with concern for them and their wellbeing.
He's not respectful to women - he gaslights nearly every woman he has debated and saves his genuine belief that woman are second in God's plan and subordinent to men for his podcasts and tweets.
Once Charlie Kirk and his like have manipulated young voters, they drill down with the more extreme views and leave these young people with a sense that it would be disloyal to go against any of the views proffered up. It's not politics, it's a cult.
Charlie Kirk was not a great orator, or debator but he was a great manipulator and it's okay to call that out. We're so used to framing the bad guys as the ones that use horrible language, make shocking statements, as being shouty, obnoxious and loud that we're in danger of losing sight that calm and respectful can be the mark of a perfect manipulator.
Kirk dies and there are calls for lying in state, flags nationwide to be at half mast, memorial services in stadiums, Vice President escorts, Presidential Medals of Honour. That should all be a red flag - he did nothing for America as a whole to justify that.