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Who‘s coming to FiLIA?

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lanadelgrey · 23/08/2025 10:33

I‘m starting to get excited.
Are there plans for a MN meetup?

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DrSpartacularsMagnificentOctopus · 12/10/2025 20:05

fabricstash · 12/10/2025 19:22

Half of social media is smoke and mirrors- first rule of the internet. Many people trying to pull Filia down were not there

Many of us who are concerned have been regular supporters, attenders and speakers for many years.

Many of us couldn't attend this time because it was too far, or we couldn't afford it, or we couldn't get time off work, or we have caring or mothering responsibilities, or we are unwell or disabled, or some permutation of multiples of these. Do we not get a voice?

CornflakeGirlsClub · 12/10/2025 20:17

Who the fuck are these ‘feminists’ who support Hamas?!

Shameful. Absolute fucking disgrace.

YouveGotNoBloodyIdea · 12/10/2025 20:34

It gets worse, it really does. Someone at FILIA seems to have orchestrated this.

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PronounssheRa · 12/10/2025 20:49

According to that Filia made a conscious decision to platform them because they were pro Palestine. Either they didnt do due diligence beyond that or they did and platformed someone who has declared support for Hamas.

I thought the throwing drinks and trying to punch people was bad, but this another level.

PriOn1 · 12/10/2025 21:09

fabricstash · 12/10/2025 19:22

Half of social media is smoke and mirrors- first rule of the internet. Many people trying to pull Filia down were not there

I was there, including the opening ceremony.

The excitement and feeling of solidarity was building through all the local women, talking about women’s history and Brighton suffragettes. It felt positive and wonderful. My first FiLiA.

Then the Hamas sympathizer started chanting, “Free, free Palestine.” Some women in the audience stood up and joined in, a few women walked out and the rest of us sat there in stunned silence.

It took all the joy out of the occasion and divided the room. The compere could easily have apologized and said that the chanting wasn’t appropriate or that FiLiA didn’t condone it, but there was nothing said. The poor woman who came on to speak last had to talk to a room where everything had fallen flat.

This morning, perhaps as a sop to the FiLiA consciences, a small room was allocated for a meeting of those who wanted to support the Jewish women. Even there, some anti-Semitic women gatecrashed and when one was given the microphone, started on an anti-Israel rant. She was ejected, but it was honestly shocking to do that on the one small session given to the support of Jewish women, some of whom had family members who were directly affected on October 7th. I know they asked FiLiA to say something at the closing ceremony. I didn’t expect FiLiA to say what that group of women hoped they would say, but I did hope they’d at least give some kind of indication that they sympathised.

I waited to see if any apology or even recognition was forthcoming from FiLiA to say that the flag waving and chanting wasn’t appropriate. There was nothing.

The closing ceremony was shortened and fairly muted. After we’d all left, FiLiA sent out an email and I opened it, still hoping for some comment, but it was an email saying there had been two women banned for their actions at the disco. Those women were Jean Hatchet and Aja.

So there has been zero acknowledgment from the management that some women came to FiLiA with the deliberate intention of expressing their anti-Semitism and celebrating terrorists.

There were some brilliant sessions, particularly the Supreme Court session this morning, but the attitude of the FiLiA management in not condemning those who came to cause trouble and hurt genuinely put a dampener on the whole event and I won’t be going again, which is honestly really sad. It should have been amazing, but I can’t give my money to this organisation again.

CrocsNotDocs · 12/10/2025 21:10

@YouveGotNoBloodyIdea and @ResisterOfTwaddleRex that is shocking.

Filia can get fucked.

CrocsNotDocs · 12/10/2025 21:13

Bev Jackson’s tweet

“An organization called @TWVnewsletter had a stand at FiLiA. It has been disseminating a pamphlet with some of the most virulent anti-Jewish tropes I’ve ever seen.”

https://x.com/bevjacksonauth/status/1977367806514434329?s=61

Bev Jackson (@BevJacksonAuth) on X

An organization called @TWVnewsletter had a stand at FiLiA. It has been disseminating a pamphlet with some of the most virulent anti-Jewish tropes I’ve ever seen.

https://x.com/bevjacksonauth/status/1977367806514434329?s=61

IamSarah · 12/10/2025 21:13

fabricstash · 12/10/2025 19:22

Half of social media is smoke and mirrors- first rule of the internet. Many people trying to pull Filia down were not there

This. There is so much more to talk about than some dickhead spoiling for a fight so she can get social media likes.

FiLiA was inspiring, diverse, emotional, thought provoking.

Apart from a tiny minority, women were respectful of other women they weren’t politically aligned with.

PriOn1 · 12/10/2025 21:17

CrocsNotDocs · 12/10/2025 21:13

Bev Jackson’s tweet

“An organization called @TWVnewsletter had a stand at FiLiA. It has been disseminating a pamphlet with some of the most virulent anti-Jewish tropes I’ve ever seen.”

https://x.com/bevjacksonauth/status/1977367806514434329?s=61

The rise in anti-Semitism is frightening and FiLiA has fully opened my eyes to how bad it actually is getting. Not quite the education I was expecting at a women’s lib conference, but there you go.

PriOn1 · 12/10/2025 21:19

IamSarah · 12/10/2025 21:13

This. There is so much more to talk about than some dickhead spoiling for a fight so she can get social media likes.

FiLiA was inspiring, diverse, emotional, thought provoking.

Apart from a tiny minority, women were respectful of other women they weren’t politically aligned with.

And that tiny minority had a significant impact on many women, unfortunately.

Thank you for the IAmSarah part of this morning though. That was one of the positive events.

TeiTetua · 12/10/2025 21:21

Well. Won't the TRA's just be chortling about this.

CaptainWhacky · 12/10/2025 21:21

Has it been announced yet where FILIA is next year?

CrocsNotDocs · 12/10/2025 21:21

PriOn1 · 12/10/2025 21:17

The rise in anti-Semitism is frightening and FiLiA has fully opened my eyes to how bad it actually is getting. Not quite the education I was expecting at a women’s lib conference, but there you go.

In 1930’s Germany antisemitism took root the strongest in academia (and whatever the 1930s version of the lanyard classes was) before filtering through society.

IamSarah · 12/10/2025 21:22

CaptainWhacky · 12/10/2025 21:21

Has it been announced yet where FILIA is next year?

Blackpool

CrocsNotDocs · 12/10/2025 21:22

CaptainWhacky · 12/10/2025 21:21

Has it been announced yet where FILIA is next year?

Gaza City or Kabul would be on trend.

FiliaDebutante · 12/10/2025 21:25

CaptainWhacky · 12/10/2025 21:21

Has it been announced yet where FILIA is next year?

Blackpool

Imnobody4 · 12/10/2025 21:26

This is Filia statement. So there was a fight?
I find the whole thing disgraceful.

x.com/K_IngalaSmith/status/1977455528025444845?t=phiHrOEAah-1GqBH3NIgzg&s=19

DrSpartacularsMagnificentOctopus · 12/10/2025 21:31

Imnobody4 · 12/10/2025 21:26

This is Filia statement. So there was a fight?
I find the whole thing disgraceful.

x.com/K_IngalaSmith/status/1977455528025444845?t=phiHrOEAah-1GqBH3NIgzg&s=19

Except they didn't chuck out the perpetrators.

This whole thing is hideous and shameful. It was bad enough when they had male security staff physically remove a woman from the party in Portsmouth, and then refused entry to her friends the next day. But this is worse.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/10/2025 21:38

TeiTetua · 12/10/2025 21:21

Well. Won't the TRA's just be chortling about this.

To be fair, they’re too self obsessed and patting themselves on the back for their vandalism to notice from what I’ve seen.

FiliaDebutante · 12/10/2025 22:03

For what it’s worth, the atmosphere at the conference was not as sinister as the comments of those who weren’t there would suggest. The incident at the party appears to have been very brief - I was at the party and wasn’t aware of it until I saw people talking about it on Twitter afterwards!

But… I think FiLiA needs to expressly dissociate itself from those Hamas supporters. I can only assume they didn’t research them properly. I’m pretty shocked tbh, I saw them both there and they looked like butter wouldn’t melt…

TinselAngel · 12/10/2025 22:12

Imnobody4 · 12/10/2025 21:26

This is Filia statement. So there was a fight?
I find the whole thing disgraceful.

x.com/K_IngalaSmith/status/1977455528025444845?t=phiHrOEAah-1GqBH3NIgzg&s=19

So no consequences for the woman who threw the drink (a friend of mine was there and saw this) presumably because she’s one of the core soc fems who are entrenched in the organisation.

I’ve been to 3 FILIA conferences but I can’t see me going again.

Imnobody4 · 12/10/2025 22:53

This is heartening.
https://x.com/nicolelampert/status/1977146340736905424?t=Maxf7s8PeVIdzPNohDng3w&s=19

Amazingly powerful event this evening with @bindelj @HWistrich @HeidiBachram @FreyaVanadiss @lubafein and others in Brighton discussing the silence of the feminists post Oct 7 and how the concept of ‘believe her’ was turned on its head.
We were hoping we might get about 70 people - we ended up with 250 (a maximum for the space) with a long waiting list.
It was an important reminder to the Jews in the room that we do have allies who see Jewish women as humans, who understand the fight against Islamism (especially for women) and most of all, a reminder to some at the main @FiLiA_charity conference:
RAPE IS NOT RESISTANCE
Lovely to see so many friends there too.

(pS I’m on the BBC 1 show Sunday Morning Live about 10.30).

Nicole Lampert (@nicolelampert) on X

Amazingly powerful event this evening with @bindelj @HWistrich @HeidiBachram @FreyaVanadiss @lubafein and others in Brighton discussing the silence of the feminists post Oct 7 and how the concept of ‘believe her’ was turned on its head. We were hoping...

https://x.com/nicolelampert/status/1977146340736905424?s=19&t=Maxf7s8PeVIdzPNohDng3w