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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

TiM wonders if he's a 'hypocrite' for requesting all-female care

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MyAmpleSheep · 22/08/2025 12:35

There's a fascinating range of opinions on a Reddit thread today in response to a trans-identifying man who wonders if he's being a hypocrite for asking for (and receiving) female-only care at a hospital appointment.

He write:

Am I a hypocrite for asking to be treated by female staff?
I've now got this uncomfortable feeling that I might have sounded like one of those middle-aged pearl clutching GC 'feminists'. It's bothering me a bit.

Some answers:

Matters of personal comfort in this regard do not necessarily reflect your political views.

And:

There is a massive difference between "I personally would feel more comfortable with a female member of staff" vs. "No woman should ever be treated by a male member of staff"

They so nearly nearly almost almost get the point, don't they?

I won't post a link here, because I suspect that's frowned-upon, but you'll find it easily enough.

The poster is silent on whether having other TiM's providing the care would or wouldn't but count as all-female, but I'm wondering what that person would make of a medical team made up of (assuming they had the correct medical qualifications):

Isla Bryson
Dr. Upton
This person
and Robin Moira Wright

Would that be satisfactory?

Another question: do men in general have the right to female-only care, that is, is it single-sex care everyone can request or only same-sex care?

Yet another question: does anyone in the all-female team rostered the day this person is receiving treatment get a choice in who's allowed to request their care?

Marla-Svenja Liebich wears a blue hat and dark glasses - with a tattoo on her neck

German controversy surrounds jail term for transgender far-right extremist

Marla-Svenja Liebich was sentenced two years ago to a total of one year and six months in prison without parole.

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c3r4zrg35vlo

OP posts:
Igmum · 22/08/2025 15:06

Oh FFS 🤦‍♀️. No mate, you don’t sound like a pearl clutching middle aged woman, you sound like a misogynistic entitled male who would like a harem of affirming handmaidens.

SpiralSpiritSocks · 22/08/2025 15:08

Igmum · 22/08/2025 15:06

Oh FFS 🤦‍♀️. No mate, you don’t sound like a pearl clutching middle aged woman, you sound like a misogynistic entitled male who would like a harem of affirming handmaidens.

Beautifully put.

FeralWoman · 22/08/2025 15:24

There’s another thread running about the same Reddit thread.

Not sure why he needs so many pelvic scans unless he went the chop and has infections and complications.

Alucard55 · 22/08/2025 19:06

So we are told repeatedly that TMAW but as soon as one on their own have to deal with the reality of that TW are no longer W?

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