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National Library of Scotland censors The Women Who Wouldn't Wheesht

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OhBuggerandArse · 12/08/2025 23:46

Took it out of their centenary exhibition because the staff LGBT+ network kicked up a fuss. Craven. This really needs massive public challenge and push back - if the National Library isn't able to fend off the censors we are utterly lost. https://x.com/EthelWrites/status/1955390550494023958

https://x.com/EthelWrites/status/1955390550494023958

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ArabellaScott · 16/08/2025 11:05

Amina Shah seems a thoughtful and eminently well qualified Librarian. Which makes her decision to exclude this book all the more baffling and upsetting.

A long and very interesting interview from last year:

https://www.euppublishing.com/doi/10.3366/irss.2024.0026

'One of the things I think is most dangerous for libraries is when one generation doesn’t value what another generation has collected. I can see that with lots of cultural institutions. Andrew Pettegree, from St. Andrews, has written a book called The Library: A Fragile History, where he examines this subject.5 We feel very strongly that, in order to show how we’re useful to Scottish society, we don’t only need to focus on the future; we also need to talk about why we’re useful to people today. To be able to understand that, we have to know who we’re not reaching'
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'We need to do some targeted outreach work to make sure that we’re connecting with young people, with people who might not have thought about us before, with older people, with people from communities who might not see themselves as reflected within our collections. We have to take steps to do that, to demonstrate that they are welcome here.'
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'You might say, well, where are the silences in a collection that has everything? '
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'Over the years, we’ve made decisions that are exclusionary. We’re making decisions about what’s important and what’s not important. '
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'Some of the silences are around our interpretation of things. In 2021, we had a fantastic exhibition called Petticoats and Pinnacles about woman climbers in Scotland.11 We had diaries, letters, and journals of many women explorers, dressed in petticoats and high heels and all sorts of inappropriate clothing. They were out there doing these things. But, over the years, nobody thought that their accounts were worth publishing. Their stories weren’t brought together in any format, so their voices were, in a sense, silenced. That’s true of many women’s accounts, or accounts from women.'
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'. So, some of the silences are around our own curation and our own research, and some of them are around the actual collections themselves. I don’t want to give you the impression that we’re not aware of our own arrogance here because every generation thinks they have an answer to solve the questions of the generation before, and I have no doubt that we’ll be making mistakes now as well.'
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'Kate Ashley—I’m thinking of Scotland today. Fifty or 100 years from now, historians are going to want to know, for instance, what all the gender identity debate was in Scotland, and so much of that is taking place on Twitter, on Facebook, in these formats where someone can’t just go deliver the document to the library and have it preserved there. That’s a really interesting point that I’d never thought about before. It’s such a very important resource for historians and for cultural understanding as well.'

(Some of us have been busy archiving and have stashes of material on this very debate that may, one day, end up in the NLS. First of all, theough, they might want to spend £20 on a copy of the Women who Wouldn't Wheesht.)

BunfightBetty · 16/08/2025 11:16

Theswiveleyeballsinthesky · 16/08/2025 09:31

Yes but so will their bosses and at a more senior level. Generally contacts with stakeholders mirrors the hierarchy of an organisation so the Board members will know each other, the CEOs will know each other, senior managers will know each other. 20 something activist staff will generally be in contact with their equivalents elsewhere so why don't their actual bosses tell them to get back in their box?

remember when hatchette young activist staff kicked off about JKR? They were told they couldn't refuse to work on her books and if they didn't like it other jobs are available

why do these tough senior ppl crumple so easily

This is baffling. Threatening your own employer with taking confidential information and/or complaints to your own funders is such a clear act of gross misconduct that I cannot fathom just how weak an organisation’s management has to be to tolerate it, and not have the offender on a disciplinary at the very least.

Helleofabore · 16/08/2025 11:20

Arabella, I think that many people will have been convinced by the groups who have been publicly declared to be the victims needing infantilising to protect them.

It has been remarkable to see how this has been so successful. Sadly, it will backfire. And it will take a long time to rebuild trust.

Theswiveleyeballsinthesky · 16/08/2025 11:26

BunfightBetty · 16/08/2025 11:16

This is baffling. Threatening your own employer with taking confidential information and/or complaints to your own funders is such a clear act of gross misconduct that I cannot fathom just how weak an organisation’s management has to be to tolerate it, and not have the offender on a disciplinary at the very least.

Exactly!!!! I cannot fathom how this level of gross misconduct is tolerated by ppl who are supposedly professional managers & leaders

its absolutely baffling that they allow themselves to be bullied like this

WarriorN · 16/08/2025 12:24

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Thank you for trying - very brave of you in the current climate.

Glad Graham is demonstrating that stakeholders are not a monolith and understand the implications of bowing to a minority of activists who do not recognise the importance of that book for women’s rights.

WarriorN · 16/08/2025 12:28

Theswiveleyeballsinthesky · 16/08/2025 11:26

Exactly!!!! I cannot fathom how this level of gross misconduct is tolerated by ppl who are supposedly professional managers & leaders

its absolutely baffling that they allow themselves to be bullied like this

And a public library!

All those who work in libraries should be aware of the slippery censorship slope that has in the past led to disastrous consequences in society.

ArabellaScott · 16/08/2025 12:38

WarriorN · 16/08/2025 12:28

And a public library!

All those who work in libraries should be aware of the slippery censorship slope that has in the past led to disastrous consequences in society.

They are. We know they are. Which is why 1984 is part of the display. And the library talks about challenging views and dissent etc.

It's easier to talk fine words about freedom of speech and belief than actively defend it though.

Helleofabore · 16/08/2025 13:10

BeeSourianteAgain · 16/08/2025 06:30

It's kinda fun that the people who are obsessively trying to remove a marginalised demographic are complaining about being "censored" because people a dreadful gaslighting book that few care about is not being put in an exhibition.

'Gender critical' activists truly are some of the most embarrassingly over-privileged people

I just saw what you just posted on a sex abuse and violence survivor’s support thread. You really don’t recognise what appropriate behaviour is. You also have shown that you have no respect at all for the needs of female people.

How fucking dare you post about being others being ‘over privileged’. The hypocrisy of your posting this while demonising a woman seeking help is off the charts.

AnSolas · 16/08/2025 13:24

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Off topic
(may be selling ice to Raindeer or someone covered this better anyway..)

You have a right to raise a grievance on your manager engaging in Active monitoring of your private life via the personal data of you your partner /child and wider community contained (its not just your data) in your SM.

You dont have to but it is beneficial to collect the evidence if someone decides to kick off.

You have a right to a private life and just as no job should be peeking in your gym window because you once said you go there you manager should not be using similar personal data aquired during (due to) work to collect or process other special class data.

Read your HR policy very carefully
Firstly Misconduct "out of work" then Data Protection and then SM and any Public Service Duty type policy.

Take care to understand what is covered what is [(edit) not ] excluded as personal life and what is silent.

Then do a data wipe of links between you (personal and professional) and the job this way if a staff member has collected data you can date when it was removed.

Start by doing data searches in the SM and remove any link which pops
Search your name /Job, Work. Career... etc
The names of people you work(ed) with and in your case expos or projects
And clear the data

Run searches in google Name /Job Name/SM/keyword etc to see if anything pops you can use the right to be forgotten law to wipe any direct links

Then split work and home by removing access.
Block current staff on SM that you use to express a political opinion (° even if you are friends°).
Change you name slightly
VoleForceOne
VolelyForceOne
VolssFOne
Etc.

And as there was multiple email data leek leeks look for you email and if it links you to SM. You may have linked your personal email address to your work address if you ever emailed yourself.

So you should no longer pop up in a general web search.

° Even if you are friends tell friends in advance but ask them not to speak about it as you dont want drama with staff who "invited themselves" into your personal life

If asked by a non-friend on the block explain that its your personal life and you are being proactive by acting on the email and will not enter into a conversation and note who and when and what was said.

Professional digital footprint is again a change of name V.One to break the link.
Think about removing any work phone number / email address if they are not needed.

Then if a TRA in work or your manager is complaining about your PC of belief by cyberstalking you the Job has to first justify how the staffer got your personal data why they were using it (to collect and process a OC view) and how that SM account links you and the Job. The Staffer going around processing your Personal Data by telling others in the job is not you "bring the Job into disrepute" so staff as insiders would not have known your lawful PC belief/political view if not for the Staffer linking your personal data which they should not have to you. That is bullying and harrassment.

And there is nothing in your public account which can be used by a stranger to directly (your profile pic is a data point link) link you to the Job. Even then once you have kept within the no personal abuse generic slur etc of the Jobs Communication Policy no action can be taken.

ArabellaScott · 16/08/2025 14:29

Theswiveleyeballsinthesky · 16/08/2025 11:26

Exactly!!!! I cannot fathom how this level of gross misconduct is tolerated by ppl who are supposedly professional managers & leaders

its absolutely baffling that they allow themselves to be bullied like this

Employment law offers unlimited fines for successful discrimination claims.

That's how. To be blunt, it's a racket.

The NLS were/are vulnerable both to claims from LGBT network staff and staff with 'gc' views.

As an employer they can be held responsible for any harassment or detriment to staff, including from the public. The state can fine them and tribunals themselves are immensely resource draining and damaging.

Their duties to serve the public are in this instance in conflict with duties of care to staff. So they've chosen staff as that presents the greater immediate risk. I'm not sure that was a.wise longterm move.

MyAmpleSheep · 16/08/2025 14:45

ArabellaScott · 16/08/2025 14:29

Employment law offers unlimited fines for successful discrimination claims.

That's how. To be blunt, it's a racket.

The NLS were/are vulnerable both to claims from LGBT network staff and staff with 'gc' views.

As an employer they can be held responsible for any harassment or detriment to staff, including from the public. The state can fine them and tribunals themselves are immensely resource draining and damaging.

Their duties to serve the public are in this instance in conflict with duties of care to staff. So they've chosen staff as that presents the greater immediate risk. I'm not sure that was a.wise longterm move.

Their duties to serve the public are in this instance in conflict with duties of care to staff.

How, exactly?

ArabellaScott · 16/08/2025 15:27

They have a duty to serve the people of Scotland, as a tax funded govt department (and I guess as a charity as part of their charitable aims, though I couldn't find details on the OSCR). Thus they asked for nominations for books that mattered to people, for this exhibition, but in a broader sense, they're supposed to represent and encompass a broad and diverse range of views, not just a narrow set of beliefs/views.

They also have a duty of care to staff, to protect staff from harassment or discrimination, and various other problems. This can be interpreted in surprising ways - a staff member can feel an action is discriminatory or 'harmful'. and the employer could face a tribunal. Discrimination or harassment is taken very seriously.

https://www.peoplemanagement.co.uk/article/1879732/hmrc-worker-sent-unwanted-birthday-card-awarded-25k-harassment

I'm not sure what the penalties are for failing to fulfil public duty? But I reckon they're probably the lesser. Most importantly, the staff complaining about this book were probably ready to bring a tribunal/grievance, whereas I suppose the Librarian decided members of the public were perhaps less likely to do so.

So the NLS either faced censure for failing to include a broad range of views of the public, or for allowing staff to feel aggrieved.

ArabellaScott · 16/08/2025 15:29

I don't fully understand how the PSED works in addition to employment law in general, but that's another consideration.

www.citizensadvice.org.uk/law-and-courts/discrimination/public-sector-equality-duty/what-s-the-public-sector-equality-duty/

Waitwhat23 · 16/08/2025 16:04

Helleofabore · 16/08/2025 13:10

I just saw what you just posted on a sex abuse and violence survivor’s support thread. You really don’t recognise what appropriate behaviour is. You also have shown that you have no respect at all for the needs of female people.

How fucking dare you post about being others being ‘over privileged’. The hypocrisy of your posting this while demonising a woman seeking help is off the charts.

High School GIF

Par for the course with Bee really.

Anyone surprised?

Conxis · 16/08/2025 16:48

ArabellaScott · 16/08/2025 15:27

They have a duty to serve the people of Scotland, as a tax funded govt department (and I guess as a charity as part of their charitable aims, though I couldn't find details on the OSCR). Thus they asked for nominations for books that mattered to people, for this exhibition, but in a broader sense, they're supposed to represent and encompass a broad and diverse range of views, not just a narrow set of beliefs/views.

They also have a duty of care to staff, to protect staff from harassment or discrimination, and various other problems. This can be interpreted in surprising ways - a staff member can feel an action is discriminatory or 'harmful'. and the employer could face a tribunal. Discrimination or harassment is taken very seriously.

https://www.peoplemanagement.co.uk/article/1879732/hmrc-worker-sent-unwanted-birthday-card-awarded-25k-harassment

I'm not sure what the penalties are for failing to fulfil public duty? But I reckon they're probably the lesser. Most importantly, the staff complaining about this book were probably ready to bring a tribunal/grievance, whereas I suppose the Librarian decided members of the public were perhaps less likely to do so.

So the NLS either faced censure for failing to include a broad range of views of the public, or for allowing staff to feel aggrieved.

But if the job is to provide a service to the public staff cannot let their own beliefs affect their ability to provide that service. It will be in their terms and conditions.
As NHS staff I cannot refuse to provide a service to someone because I don’t agree with their beliefs as long as they’re not abusive and the beliefs are legal.

ArabellaScott · 16/08/2025 17:40

Conxis · 16/08/2025 16:48

But if the job is to provide a service to the public staff cannot let their own beliefs affect their ability to provide that service. It will be in their terms and conditions.
As NHS staff I cannot refuse to provide a service to someone because I don’t agree with their beliefs as long as they’re not abusive and the beliefs are legal.

That would be the reasonable stance.

We aren't dealing with reasonable people, and arguably employment laws protect staff more than they protect the public/service users.

Look at NHS Fife, prioritising Dr Upton's feelings over not only female staff, but any female.patients who'd requested single sex care. See also the GMC, the police, etc.

VoleForceOne · 16/08/2025 20:41

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Conxis · 16/08/2025 20:46

ArabellaScott · 16/08/2025 17:40

That would be the reasonable stance.

We aren't dealing with reasonable people, and arguably employment laws protect staff more than they protect the public/service users.

Look at NHS Fife, prioritising Dr Upton's feelings over not only female staff, but any female.patients who'd requested single sex care. See also the GMC, the police, etc.

If it had gone to tribunal the employee may well lose as their stance could be deemed unreasonable to only have to deal with books that match with their beliefs.
I think the library backed the wrong horse here!

VoleForceOne · 16/08/2025 20:47

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ArabellaScott · 16/08/2025 21:58

Yes, of course, but many organisations are still operating under Stonewall law.

That's why they keep losing tribunals.

They keep forgetting that they have a duty not to discriminate against/protect ALL staff, not just ones with a certain set of views. Specifically, women's rights keep getting ignored, brushed aside, or as in this instance and as shown by the FOIs, actively surrendered in favour of the rights of people who claim women's rights are causing them 'harm'.

If a man (who says he is a woman) wants to use a woman-only space, and woman wants to use a woman-only space, these organisations are favouring men and ignoring women's rights, needs, and wishes.

ArabellaScott · 16/08/2025 22:00

'...since setting it up about 5 years ago, um we fought over 4,000 cases and where they've come to a conclusion we've been successful about 80% of the time. And in our case database on Salesforce, um by far the largest category is sex and gender, about 40% um of those 4,000 plus cases we fought over the past 5 years uh have been defending um uh gender critical women um who've complained about having to share bathrooms, changing rooms with biological men who think they're women....the front line, the people who find themselves cancelled more often, the people who find it more difficult than anyone else to kind of, uh, express how they feel about something, um, even if it's perfectly lawful, um, are women'

Toby Young, Free Speech Union

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ArabellaScott · 16/08/2025 22:07

My shitey maths (feel free to correct it!) suggests that makes around 1,600 cases on the basis of 'gender critical' issues (or possibly sex), and 1,280 cases that have been 'successful' - which here means that it's been shown or admitted that women have been discriminated against or harassed.

About 250 per year. Nearly five a week.

Those are just the ones that the FSU have dealt with.

sashh · 17/08/2025 03:44

A slight side step from the main discussion.

I have the paperback copy that I have not opened yet. I'm wondering whether I should keep it as an investment and buy the kindle version to read.