Actually. I think this is often the problem with what people call radfem/'gc'/'terf' arguments.
We talk about violence against women and girls, and use statistics and data to do so.
It's grim. It's upsetting. It's unpleasant and disturbing to think that all the fucking work and effort of the past has so far made little difference to the numbers of women and girls who are subject to abuse, rape, violence, and murder, at the hands of men.
It's not the pom-pom waving empowerment message anyone wants to hear, is it? Two women a week killed by men in the UK.
I'd say that behind that if one can sit with the stark and heartbreaking reality of the problem, there are also stories of immense and genuine bravery, solidarity, tenaciousness and patience. But it's maybe not as easy and shiny as 'you go, girl!' Instafeminism.