I think that even if it has a neurological basis, like another branch of neurodiversity, we have to tackle the evidently false belief that some trans people have that this gender dysphoria or psychological pain means they are literally the opposite sex.
I know that not all trans people believe this is literally true, but there are so many that do claim this, and it is causing a lot of difficulties for single sex provisions particularly for women.
The belief that it is somehow possible to be really the opposite sex from your body has formed the basis for so much damaging policy and silencing of dissent. It isn’t healthy or sustainable to expect everyone to subsume their own wellbeing to avoid disturbing the bubble of pretence that surrounds the trans person who requires this constant affirmation
I can absolutely see the neurodiversity connection, every trans person I know (all in their 20s) is also neurodiverse. I just wish we could find a common understanding of the phenomenon that doesn’t require magical thinking. In fact I have seen some really interesting and compelling discussion from psychiatrists on the issue. But unfortunately the black and white thinking that often goes with neurodiversity called itself to wanting clear cut simple answers.
And while we are in the current political climate that only wants to “be kind” and to accommodate any and all requests from the trans activist lobby, seeking actual knowledge and understanding about why a person arrives at a trans identity or experiences persistent gender dysphoria remains something that has to be done under the radar. We need open dialogue and research, not gaslighting the population into professing a belief that most people don’t really hold.