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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

DH -v- The WI, Thread 2

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Another2Cats · 22/07/2025 07:33

@RareGoalsVerge rightly pointed out (thank you) on my previous thread that it was getting near the limit and that I should start a second thread, so this is it.

This is a link to the first thread:

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5333650-an-update-to-the-wi-announcement-thread-my-dh-just-got-a-reply-to-his-application-to-join-them

So, a recap.

DH has long had an interest in a couple of activities that were only offered locally by the WI. Obviously, it never crossed his mind to try and join as the WI is a woman only organisation - or so he thought.

But then, following the FWS case, the WI made an announcement that they would continue accepting trans identifying men (TIM) as members.

I suggested to DH that he could now join the WI and jokingly said (although it wasn't really funny, I'm not good at jokes) that he wouldn't have to bother with a wig and lippy any more.

So DH applied to join the local federation and was rejected.

Various things then happened and DH is now bringing a sex discrimination claim against the WI.

The WI instructed a big Tier 1 London law firm, one of the partners of which then called DH and explained that they would be relying on section 158, Equality Act and invited him to withdraw his claim.

After that they sent a letter to DH stating that in addition to the section 158 defence it was also the case that the WI "does not purport to establish single sex membership within the meaning of the EqA"

They went on to say:

"As such, it is free to define “women who have reached the Age of Majority” within its Membership Rules as it pleases, as long as its definition is not discriminatory. As we explain below, the definition “women who live as women, including transgender women” is not discriminatory."

They also said that their membership policy does not discriminate on the grounds of sex or render reassignment and that:

"The Membership Policy does not exclude anyone on these grounds. It allows for the admission of “biological” men as members, as long as they are living as women. It also allows for the admission of people who are not trans, as long as they are living as women."
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So that is where we are as of today. The next step in the process will be in early August so there probably won't be any substantive update to the thread until then.

But, as I said earlier, even though I don't always reply to every post I do read every single comment (often more than once) and having people take an interest really does make a difference. Thank you.
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PS In their letter, they put quotation marks around the word biological - "biological" (see above). Both DH and I were rather confused by this and thought that they were perhaps quoting him in the Particulars of Claim, but DH hadn't used that term.

On looking at the letter in more detail, the answer was found in one of the footnotes. They said:

2 Where references are made to “biological” sex in in this letter, quotation marks are used to make it clear that we refer to the term as used by the Supreme Court in FWS, to mean sex as recorded at birth. This is not a term that NFWI would otherwise use itself, because sex (including the sex of trans and intersex people) is not binary in this way.

[emphasis added]

Well, it's going to be interesting to hear that point argued in court. DH did make a point in the Particulars of Claim to keep referring to "men with the protected characteristic of gender reassignment", perhaps this annoyed them a bit?

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LittleBitofBread · 09/08/2025 11:42

IDareSay · 09/08/2025 11:40

This is just 'women as support humans' again isn't it? Just like in prisons.

Yes. I am interested in how it will go. I would also love an actual lawyer's take on this.

EyesOpening · 09/08/2025 11:54

"Effectively, they are saying that anyone whose sex is female, but identifies as trans cannot join the WI, or must leave the WI. They don't seem to have considered non-binary identities."

except from PP you can see that they do allow people whose sex is female but who call themselves non binary, to join (see post from SabrainaThwaites on page 2 of this thread)
They are contradicting themselves all over the shop!

DH -v- The WI, Thread 2
singthing · 09/08/2025 11:56

Another2Cats · 09/08/2025 10:46

So, DH has received the Defence earlier this week. It was interesting reading and, as @SabrinaThwaite highlighted last Sunday (thank you), they are leaning heavily into the disadvantages suffered by trans identifying men (TiM).

It was written by a leading junior at 11KBW with 14 years call. Apparently, she has previously been instructed in some quite high profile cases.

I will go through some of the major points that they rely on in the Defence and I will quote two paragraphs from the defence as they are, I feel, quite instructive as to how they are looking at this issue.

I very specifically won’t refer in any way at all to what DH is putting in his Reply. Partly because he hasn’t finished writing it yet and, also, because it hasn’t been served on the WI yet.

But I will raise some themes and ideas that come to my own mind around this. This is just me having some random musings. I’ll probably split this up into separate posts as otherwise this will be too long.
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First of all, the quotes from the Defence. It has been a matter of some speculation on this thread as to what “living as women” means. Well, according to the WI, a woman is anyone who says that they are, subjectively, a woman (but trans identifying women are specifically excluded “Biological women living as men may not join”). They say:

“...it is admitted that the term “live as women” is subjective. The Defendant wishes members to be empowered to define themselves, and does not seek to police the definition in its policy. If a member sees themselves as living as a woman, then they will be admitted. As a membership association, the Defendant is entitled to set a subjective Membership Criterion if it wishes to do so. It is denied that this Membership Criterion will encompass all women (as defined under the EqA) as well as men who have the protected characteristic of gender reassignment. Anyone may choose to live as a woman, but women (as defined under the EqA) who choose to live as men are excluded by the Defendant’s membership rules.”

Oops! They seem to have overlooked that they are a charity with a constitution.
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The next paragraph that I will quote is the justification for positive action under Section 158:

In the alternative, even if the Membership Criterion would otherwise be prohibited under the EqA, it is lawful positive action under s.158. The Defendant will say that:

(a) Trans women suffer disadvantages connected to their protected characteristics (for the purposes of the EqA, they are biological men with the further protected characteristic of gender reassignment). These disadvantages include:

(i) Trans women grow up feeling that they are truly female, but are generally excluded by girls and women, or from activities for girls and women.

(ii) Even after transition, trans women often find themselves excluded from spaces and activities for women, compounding the experience of exclusion that they have always suffered. This has only been exacerbated since the judgment in For Women Scotland Ltd v The Scottish Ministers [2025] UKSC 16, [2025] 2 WLR 879.

(iii) These experiences can often result in internalised feelings of exclusion, alienation and self-exclusion, as well as significantly higher levels of loneliness and isolation.

(iv) Trans people suffer disproportionately from poor mental health, including depression, which cannot be disconnected from their experience of exclusion, loneliness and isolation.

(v) Further, older trans women are disproportionately more likely to experience poor mental health.

(b) Arising from the above, trans women have needs connected to their protected characteristics. These needs include:

(i) accessing environments where they can feel included among other people living with the same gender as them; and

(ii) accessing opportunities that they may have been of felt excluded from as a result of being trans.

(c) Trans women have disproportionately low participation in certain activities. These activities include:

(i) educational opportunities;

(ii) professions and jobs; and

(iii) roles in public life.

(d) WI membership enables or encourages trans women to overcome or minimise these disadvantages, and/or meets those needs, and/or enables or encourages trans women to participate in those activities by offering a welcoming place where transgender women can connect with other women, socialise and learn together. To the Defendant’s knowledge, the WI is unique in the United Kingdom, in that there is no other similar organisation for trans women that offers this space. Specifically:

(i) The WI offers trans women an acutely needed sense of community, solidarity, inclusion with and acceptance by other women, including women who are not trans.

(ii) The WI offers trans women a sense of acceptance by providing a space where they can expect to be welcomed as women alongside women who are not trans, with no need to justify their presence, and free from prejudice, discrimination and judgement.

(iii) The WI offers trans women access to practical and educational opportunities that they have not been or felt able to access. Most directly, the WI enables and encourages trans women to access the opportunities and activities offered by WIs.

(iv) More broadly, by offering trans women inclusion, acceptance, mutual support and access to WIs activities (all as detailed above), it gives confidence and encourages their representation in other educational, voluntary and public roles.

This defence is WONDERFUL! I am a fatso but I want to join the local marathon running club. They have a dreadfully nasty, exclusionary rule about needing to be able to run some arbitrary distance to be eligible; which is of course grossly unfair (no pun intended). I can't tell you how much my feelings have long been/are hurt by this, and that they should #BeKind and accommodate me.

I'm going to find-replace-copy-paste this argument and really stick it to them! Am hoping for a sub10hr marathon in 2027!

Ereshkigalangcleg · 09/08/2025 12:01

IDareSay · 09/08/2025 11:40

This is just 'women as support humans' again isn't it? Just like in prisons.

Yes.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 09/08/2025 12:02

Has there been research into how much women value female social groups?

DysmalRadius · 09/08/2025 12:31

(c) Trans women have disproportionately low participation in certain activities. These activities include:
(i) educational opportunities;
(ii) professions and jobs; and
(iii) roles in public life.

Have they provided evidence to support these claims? Surely the WI would have to have evidence that this is the case in order to enact a policy to counteract it (although that is tangiential to your case admittedly but might speak to hue lack of cohesion in drafting the policies they are referring to).

Ereshkigalangcleg · 09/08/2025 12:34

If other tribunals/hearings are a guide, they will just cite a Stonewall or Trevor Project or similar report claiming this without it being examined too deeply.

Another2Cats · 09/08/2025 12:45

Ereshkigalangcleg · 09/08/2025 12:34

If other tribunals/hearings are a guide, they will just cite a Stonewall or Trevor Project or similar report claiming this without it being examined too deeply.

They did in previous correspondence.

A 2024 report from the Trevor Project here:

https://www.thetrevorproject.org/survey-international/assets/static/2024_UK_National_Survey_EN.pdf

But they did also refer to a 2024 study reported in The Lancet that self-reported mental health was worse here:

https://www.thelancet.com/journals/lanpub/article/PIIS2468-2667(23)00301-8/fulltext

A claim by a company that develops student housing that TiM are more likely to miss out on education due to mental health issues here:

https://www.unitegroup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/07/Unite-Applicant-Index-Report-2024.pdf

And a government report from 2018 that TiM are more likely to be out of work

https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/media/5b3cb6b6ed915d39fd5f14df/GEO-LGBT-Survey-Report.pdf

https://www.thetrevorproject.org/survey-international/assets/static/2024_UK_National_Survey_EN.pdf

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 09/08/2025 12:50

I would try to find evidence putting the argument that women benefit from female only spaces. They’ve already acknowledged that “trans women” aren’t female and are treated differently in the PC of sex.

FeedbackProvider · 09/08/2025 12:51

You’ve identified many problems with their defence against your husband’s discrimination case. But doesn’t their defence also discriminate on the grounds of belief against any GC woman who isn’t “living as a woman”, but just is a woman or who cannot otherwise accept the conditions. You said that GC women can join the WI, but can they? It’s not exactly clear, but I think they’ve said that all members must be “living as women”. They’ve recognised explicitly that this excludes women who wish to be treated as men (and are presumably relying on the fact that those people won’t sue them), but they haven’t acknowledged the effect on GC women. Would not GC women have particular trouble accepting these T&Cs? Membership now appears to be predicated on the condition that GC women accept that non-women can live as women which is contrary to GC belief.

lcakethereforeIam · 09/08/2025 13:14

If the can't define what 'living as a woman' means except to handwave and say it's subjective, will that wash in court?

EyesOpening · 09/08/2025 13:16

Do you think new recruits have to say I solemnly declare that I'm living as a woman?
What about the women who joined before they changed it? Did they have to renew and agree?
So many questions!

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 09/08/2025 13:17

I don't know if it is or isn't a good rebuttal to their defence but it all sounds well thought out OP, I agree with a poster who said the WI have now reduced the organisation into support animals for men. It doesn't sound like they're working to empower women, country or no, at all with this policy.

TheSandgroper · 09/08/2025 13:23

Someone wrote something without looking at that which was already written.

“Anyone may choose to live as a woman, but women (as defined under the EqA) who choose to live as men are excluded by the Defendant’s membership rules.”

vs

TheSandgroper · 09/08/2025 13:24

This should have attached to my above post.

TheSandgroper · 09/08/2025 13:24

Sorry, quote getting past the censors.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 09/08/2025 14:56

FeedbackProvider · 09/08/2025 12:51

You’ve identified many problems with their defence against your husband’s discrimination case. But doesn’t their defence also discriminate on the grounds of belief against any GC woman who isn’t “living as a woman”, but just is a woman or who cannot otherwise accept the conditions. You said that GC women can join the WI, but can they? It’s not exactly clear, but I think they’ve said that all members must be “living as women”. They’ve recognised explicitly that this excludes women who wish to be treated as men (and are presumably relying on the fact that those people won’t sue them), but they haven’t acknowledged the effect on GC women. Would not GC women have particular trouble accepting these T&Cs? Membership now appears to be predicated on the condition that GC women accept that non-women can live as women which is contrary to GC belief.

Really good point.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 09/08/2025 14:56

Oh what a tangled web etc etc.

MagpiePi · 09/08/2025 15:10

I’d like to see evidence for the points raised in the reasons for the lawful positive action.

SabrinaThwaite · 09/08/2025 15:25

Anyone may choose to live as a woman, but women (as defined under the EqA) who choose to live as men are excluded by the Defendant’s membership rules.

That sounds awfully like discrimination against trans men.

TM are women (female) as defined by the EqA and therefore are suffering direct discrimination under the PC of gender reassignment as other women that share the PC of sex but don't share the PC of gender reassignment can join?

TM are also being discriminated against for the PC of sex, compared to TW that are male so don't share the PC of sex but share the PC of gender reassignment and who are allowed to join the WI?

Additionally, the EDI policy states: A person who was assigned female at birth but who identifies as non-binary is able to join the WI. This is because they fall within our women only exemption as they were assigned female at birth.

Do NB people meet the requirement of "living as women"? The EDI policy implies that people assigned female at birth (such as female NBs and TM) fall within the women only exemption, and that there is a women only exemption based on the PC of sex (female) at birth.

ETA: I think I've probably made that over complicated, but the gist of it is that the EDI policy relies on the WI's declared women only exemption being dependent on being female at birth.

Silverbirchleaf · 09/08/2025 15:30

And yet they say in their ‘FAQ’ that men can’t join! You can’t have it both ways, luv!

Silverbirchleaf · 09/08/2025 15:47

Just a thought, the Supreme court has defined ‘women’ as an ‘biological women’ , so how can a man live as a biological woman, when they’re not. Sorry if that’s simplistic. They’ve taken (the modern use of) gender out of the equation, whilst the WI are still using it.

Am I reading that right?

StopRainingNow · 09/08/2025 16:01

I think your points are all good ones OP, but I think you need legal precedent to add to your defence (you may have this already, but just flagging it)

Silverbirchleaf · 09/08/2025 16:15

Silverbirchleaf · 09/08/2025 15:47

Just a thought, the Supreme court has defined ‘women’ as an ‘biological women’ , so how can a man live as a biological woman, when they’re not. Sorry if that’s simplistic. They’ve taken (the modern use of) gender out of the equation, whilst the WI are still using it.

Am I reading that right?

Should read, ‘The Supreme court has taken gender out of the equation, whilst the WI haven’t. ‘

EyesOpening · 09/08/2025 16:34

SabrinaThwaite · 04/08/2025 09:50

I think it’s slightly different under the charity exceptions, S193:

608.This section allows charities to provide benefits only to people who share the same protected characteristic (for example sex, sexual orientation or disability), if this is in line with their charitable instrument and if it is objectively justified or to prevent or compensate for disadvantage. It remains unlawful for them to limit their beneficiaries by reference to their colour – and if they do their charitable instrument will be applied as if that limitation did not exist.

And the example given:

A charitable instrument enabling the provision of benefits to black members of a community actually enables the benefits to be provided to all members of that community.

Just bringing these points forward, lest they get forgotten.

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