Another time I was told the “anti-bigotry workshop” would ensure no one in the office “would think or say anything bigoted”. I replied I didn’t care what thoughts anyone had. “You don’t care if the person next to you has racist thoughts?!” the person gasped, and all I can say is it was a good thing no one could see the thoughts in my head at that moment.
This is really one of the elements of this I find most bizarre. Why would anyone's employer have any ind of position to offer this kind of moral direction or training?
I sometimes wonder if it is because people no longer go to church as much, there is a sort of gap for group ethical initiatives, so it feels sensible to people?
When I think about some of the places I've worked over the years - a pizza joint, fast food, a medical office, a cafe, a farm - why would any of those people be in a position to give me ethical advise? And frankly, the same is true of my adult, mature jobs. I like my company director, he's good at his job, but I know he left his last wife for the one he has now - and he is supposed to organise ethical training for us?
Obviously employers get to decide how they want their employees to behave in the workplace and how they want the company policies to function. But where they get off telling anyone to think I don't know.
At my workplace, we were supposed last month to have a special visualisation journey thing done in a workplace training day. It's actually semi-religious in a kind of a slightly new-agey kind of way, packaged as broadening our experiences of diversity. But to me it feels no only dumb, and a waste of time we could spend on real training, but it's really an inappropriate imposition.
I know just the kind of person who would be like "oh god how could you stand working next to someone with BAD THOUGHTS!" But I really struggle to understand how they think that is a sensible way to think.