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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Kent council remove trans childrens books from libraries

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WomenShouldStillWinWomensSportsIsBack · 04/07/2025 13:12

Just heard this on the radio. Can't see another thread on it. R2 had a delightful quote from a random outraged American-sounding TRA but nothing for balance from the other side, just a secondhand statement from the council. Article slightly more balanced. Hope this becomes more widespread.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c6257p2vry3o

Rows of books on shelves. The books are all different colours.

Kent council bans transgender books in children’s library section

KCC says the move came after a "concerned member of the public" contacted them.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c6257p2vry3o

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SionnachRuadh · 04/07/2025 17:57

I tell you what, if Kent CC, or any other Reform council, promised to get Juno Dawson's pornographic books out of the children's section of the library, that's a cheap and easy way to win votes.

recipientofraspberries · 04/07/2025 17:58

Deadcog · 04/07/2025 17:56

However, I am also wary of attempts to automatically recast non-gender conforming women as 'trans' in the modern sense just because they defied the super restrictive gender expectations of some historical periods.

This is my position on the matter. I find it insulting that women who defied expectations placed on our sex by the patriarchy are appropriated as being trans.

I agree with you here. I believe that some of the instances talked about in the links I've posted are not that, though. Many are deliberate instances of people claiming the gender they weren't born as, as opposed to simply living in ways contrary to gender norms of their time. The wikipedia list of around the world examples has many of these.

zanahoria · 04/07/2025 17:59

However, the council said a single transgender-related book aimed at adults was relocated from a display at the entrance of a library to a section unlikely to be visited by children

so one book has been moved

Merrymouse · 04/07/2025 17:59

recipientofraspberries · 04/07/2025 17:51

As far as I understand it, the same order (Byzantine) also had nuns, so she could have become a nun instead - but chose monkhood?

I suspect that nuns and monks had different opportunities in the church.

Merrymouse · 04/07/2025 18:00

zanahoria · 04/07/2025 17:59

However, the council said a single transgender-related book aimed at adults was relocated from a display at the entrance of a library to a section unlikely to be visited by children

so one book has been moved

So an adult book was moved back to the adult section?

CheshireSplat · 04/07/2025 18:01

IwantToRetire · 04/07/2025 17:01

Just because a decision has been taken that might parrallel one that feminists might make, there is no reason to support it.

As Reform will have implement this for non feminist reasons I would prefer to see more information about what they have actually ordered.

It may well be that in a sense it could be argued that it is in line with stopping forced conversion for children who may be in some may gay or lesbian. But I very much doubt that will be the basis on which they have taken this decision.

Does anyone know if they have also banned books about lesbians and gay men from the children's section?

This is such an important point I want to amplify it. Reform will not politicising this for feminist reasons.

And celebrating it like a football match does the GC cause harm as it makes it look like the GC cause is aligned with bigots.

We need to stay well clear of any campaigns run by Reform. Firstly, because their reasons will be nasty. Secondly, because GCers will be associated with them and other far right/anti progressive causes. Which will harm the GC cause.

DeffoNeedANameChange · 04/07/2025 18:03

What about kids picture books, like "my shadow is pink"? I can't see where else they'd be placed in a library.

I'm no fan of pushing ideology onto children as though it's universally accepted fact (and I particularly hate that pink/blue shadow book) but I feel very uncomfortable about removing/banning books altogether. For example, I absolutely support having a beautiful illustrated children's bible in the library, even though I don't believe in it myself, because I know there are families within the community that would really value having access to that book.

recipientofraspberries · 04/07/2025 18:04

DeffoNeedANameChange · 04/07/2025 18:03

What about kids picture books, like "my shadow is pink"? I can't see where else they'd be placed in a library.

I'm no fan of pushing ideology onto children as though it's universally accepted fact (and I particularly hate that pink/blue shadow book) but I feel very uncomfortable about removing/banning books altogether. For example, I absolutely support having a beautiful illustrated children's bible in the library, even though I don't believe in it myself, because I know there are families within the community that would really value having access to that book.

This is exactly my point.

OldCrone · 04/07/2025 18:04

trans people, which we can all agree on existing otherwise there would be no debate (the validity of transness as an identity is another matter), have existed all around the world and have cropped up in historical record very far back in history.

Historically, 'trans people' seem to have been people who, for many different reasons, chose to pretend to be the opposite sex.

Women who wanted to do things which they were not allowed to do as women chose to pretend to be men.

Women who wanted to enter a profession from which women were banned sometimes pretended to be men. A lesbian might pretend to be a man so that she could have a legitimate and 'respectable' relationship with another women.

Men who wanted wanted to do things which they were not allowed to do as men chose to pretend to be women (or a 'third gender').

These men appear to have been gay, and this arrangement allowed gay men to remain part of society.

So historical transness was about hiding homosexuality and allowing women greater participation in society. Nothing to do with modern 'gender identity feelings'.

OldCrone · 04/07/2025 18:05

recipientofraspberries · 04/07/2025 17:52

The BBC were quoting the library who said they didn't yet know how many books they were going to remove.

I can't see that quote in the BBC article.

PriOn1 · 04/07/2025 18:06

SerendipityJane · 04/07/2025 17:04

Horatia Hornblower ?

John of Ark?

SionnachRuadh · 04/07/2025 18:09

I get the sense that this is going to be like the Florida scare, where they passed a law saying SRE lessons had to be age appropriate, and tried to remove porn from school libraries, and half of America believed Florida had literally banned teachers from telling kids that gay people exist.

OldCrone · 04/07/2025 18:10

recipientofraspberries · 04/07/2025 17:55

'Claims to be a gender' as in, if someone is born male, grows up to say 'I am a woman'.

You know what I mean when I say trans person. Someone who says they don't match the sex they were born.

I don't know the reason people feel this way. I do believe in single sex spaces being protected, and that women (born female) face persecution and discrimination on the grounds of our sex and our sexual characteristics, and that the life of a trans woman is not the same as the life of a natal woman.

My point here is that I think children should be able to learn about trans people in history and the modern world.

I may finish replying here because it's been quite relentless. Hopefully no one feels I'm ignoring any particular response but I feel I've really said all I came here to say, which is, again, that I don't think transgender-ness needs removing from children's reading material, as long as it's appropriate.

'Claims to be a gender' as in, if someone is born male, grows up to say 'I am a woman'.

Such a person is a liar. No man is a woman. If he truly believes what he's saying, he's still a liar, but deluded.

You know what I mean when I say trans person. Someone who says they don't match the sex they were born.

In what way don't they match? Sex is biologically defined, it's not possible to 'not match' your sex.

My point here is that I think children should be able to learn about trans people in history and the modern world.

Why? Transsexualism is a bit of a niche area even for adults.

I don't think transgender-ness needs removing from children's reading material, as long as it's appropriate.

Introducing children to weird adult sexual practices is never appropriate.

recipientofraspberries · 04/07/2025 18:10

OldCrone · 04/07/2025 18:04

trans people, which we can all agree on existing otherwise there would be no debate (the validity of transness as an identity is another matter), have existed all around the world and have cropped up in historical record very far back in history.

Historically, 'trans people' seem to have been people who, for many different reasons, chose to pretend to be the opposite sex.

Women who wanted to do things which they were not allowed to do as women chose to pretend to be men.

Women who wanted to enter a profession from which women were banned sometimes pretended to be men. A lesbian might pretend to be a man so that she could have a legitimate and 'respectable' relationship with another women.

Men who wanted wanted to do things which they were not allowed to do as men chose to pretend to be women (or a 'third gender').

These men appear to have been gay, and this arrangement allowed gay men to remain part of society.

So historical transness was about hiding homosexuality and allowing women greater participation in society. Nothing to do with modern 'gender identity feelings'.

This simply isn't true.

There are a great many instances and societal trends that are exactly what you describe, but it isn't accurate to say that that's the ONLY occurrence of people in history presenting as the opposite gender.

Many people did and continue to do so consciously and deliberately to claim the opposite gender, historically and in different cultures today. Another example is the sister girls of Aboriginal tribes, which is the oldest indigenous group of people in the world. Sister girls and other similar groups in Aboriginal culture are in their historical and cultural records. I'm not here to say that 'a sister girl is a woman', but I am saying kids should be able to read about sister girls, for example.

SerendipityJane · 04/07/2025 18:12

'Claims to be a gender' as in, if someone is born male, grows up to say 'I am a woman'.

Such a person is a liar. No man is a woman. If he truly believes what he's saying, he's still a liar, but deluded.

Is not the correct expression "I am a lady" ?

PriOn1 · 04/07/2025 18:14

OldCrone · 04/07/2025 18:04

trans people, which we can all agree on existing otherwise there would be no debate (the validity of transness as an identity is another matter), have existed all around the world and have cropped up in historical record very far back in history.

Historically, 'trans people' seem to have been people who, for many different reasons, chose to pretend to be the opposite sex.

Women who wanted to do things which they were not allowed to do as women chose to pretend to be men.

Women who wanted to enter a profession from which women were banned sometimes pretended to be men. A lesbian might pretend to be a man so that she could have a legitimate and 'respectable' relationship with another women.

Men who wanted wanted to do things which they were not allowed to do as men chose to pretend to be women (or a 'third gender').

These men appear to have been gay, and this arrangement allowed gay men to remain part of society.

So historical transness was about hiding homosexuality and allowing women greater participation in society. Nothing to do with modern 'gender identity feelings'.

Yup, and nobody was pretending that men were really women, or vice versa.

Really, there’s a long history of people who didn’t conform to the sex stereotypes of their era. “Trans” as described in the current claim, relating to some kind of sexed “soul” which overrides bodily sex, thus literally making a man a woman, is a 21st century invention. Prior to that, there was full understanding that your sex was immutable, however much you wished it wasn’t.

recipientofraspberries · 04/07/2025 18:16

OldCrone · 04/07/2025 18:10

'Claims to be a gender' as in, if someone is born male, grows up to say 'I am a woman'.

Such a person is a liar. No man is a woman. If he truly believes what he's saying, he's still a liar, but deluded.

You know what I mean when I say trans person. Someone who says they don't match the sex they were born.

In what way don't they match? Sex is biologically defined, it's not possible to 'not match' your sex.

My point here is that I think children should be able to learn about trans people in history and the modern world.

Why? Transsexualism is a bit of a niche area even for adults.

I don't think transgender-ness needs removing from children's reading material, as long as it's appropriate.

Introducing children to weird adult sexual practices is never appropriate.

I don't feel you're arguing in good faith.

I'm not here to argue the validity of trans-ness as an identity, but whether you agree with it or not, there are people who claim they are the gender (not sex, because you can't change sex) opposite to what they were born as. I gave the example further up of sister girls in Aboriginal tribes. I think kids should be able to learn about them, whether or not you believe a sister girl is a woman or not. Many people don't believe a marriage between a man and a man is valid yet gay people still marry. The validity of an action or belief isn't the same as whether that belief exists.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 04/07/2025 18:19

Oh god no I can’t cope with “but this ancient people with a wholly different culture and society did xyz therefore I’m going to culturally appropriate it to prop up my 21st century privileged take to justify not saying no to men” again

SerendipityJane · 04/07/2025 18:20

Really, there’s a long history of people who didn’t conform to the sex stereotypes of their era.

Whatever those stereotypes were - that's a key point.

Who likes weird facts ?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dietrich_von_H%C3%BClsen-Haeseler#Death

During a formal evening function, von Hülsen-Haeseler appeared dressed in the pink tutu and rose wreath of a ballerina,

Dietrich von Hülsen-Haeseler - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dietrich_von_H%C3%BClsen-Haeseler#Death

Theeyeballsinthesky · 04/07/2025 18:23

SerendipityJane · 04/07/2025 18:20

Really, there’s a long history of people who didn’t conform to the sex stereotypes of their era.

Whatever those stereotypes were - that's a key point.

Who likes weird facts ?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dietrich_von_H%C3%BClsen-Haeseler#Death

During a formal evening function, von Hülsen-Haeseler appeared dressed in the pink tutu and rose wreath of a ballerina,

The rest is history introduced me to this story 😆😆

Merrymouse · 04/07/2025 18:29

recipientofraspberries · 04/07/2025 18:16

I don't feel you're arguing in good faith.

I'm not here to argue the validity of trans-ness as an identity, but whether you agree with it or not, there are people who claim they are the gender (not sex, because you can't change sex) opposite to what they were born as. I gave the example further up of sister girls in Aboriginal tribes. I think kids should be able to learn about them, whether or not you believe a sister girl is a woman or not. Many people don't believe a marriage between a man and a man is valid yet gay people still marry. The validity of an action or belief isn't the same as whether that belief exists.

Even here you are assuming a distinction between gender and sex that wasn’t part of the general discourse until this century.

busybusybusy2015 · 04/07/2025 18:30

Opinions on appropriate material for early teens, that awkward crossover from children's books to adult? I read my mother's copy of Jan Morris's autobiography (Conundrum) when I was 13. It was an 'adult' book but totally age-appropriate (even at 13 I knew it was odd that she could no longer parallel-park after "becoming a woman"!). "Tales of the City", I must have been c.16 when the first volume was published and those are 'adult' books I'd be happy to give to a 12 year old, to get acquainted with gentle, loveable, mean, sad, happy, gay, lesbian, straight and trans people. Please don't shout at me - I can also be very conservative (anyone remember 'Jenny Lives with Eric and Martin'? Very early 80s. Photos of a pre-schoolage child in bed with two naked adults shocked me: my gut knew it was inappropriate, couldn't understand why anyone thought it was defensible.)

Merrymouse · 04/07/2025 18:35

https://www.kristinholt.com/archives/15615#:~:text=Extended%20theory%20about%20women%20at,Patrick%20N.

It was a popular belief that women were not built to take in much knowledge. In his 1875book Sex and Education; or, a Fair Chance for Girls, Edward Clarke claims that while girls can go to school and study as boys do, this will cause them to suffer from: “euralgia, uterine disease, hysteria, and other derangements of the nervous system

1875 is only a few generations ago.

How do you begin to impose the concept of gender identity onto a society that thought education literally harmed women?

Victorian Professional Women do not possess the brain power to succeed - Kristin Holt

"Victorian Professional Women do not possess the brain power to succeed"; quote from SEX IN EDUCATION (1875) illustrates 19thC US view of schooling females.

https://www.kristinholt.com/archives/15615#:~:text=Extended%20theory%20about%20women%20at,Patrick%20N.

RolledDahl · 04/07/2025 18:40

I wish my local authority would have a good, hard look at some of the stock on our library catalogue.

I work in a library and I can tell you there are a fair few books on our catalogue across the city that I think are completely inappropriate for children.

'She's my Dad!' by Sarah Savage is one. Absolute brainwashing for kids. 'You need to chill' by Juno Dawson is another. Both books coming from a position that any kind of disagreement is bigotry. 'Grandads Pride' and the board book 'ABC of Equality ' (I think) are aimed at really young children. A board book FFS.

It's the approach to the subject that's the problem, not the actual subject matter itself.
All our wonderful children's books about religion, for example, make it clear that it is all about the beliefs held by this particular group of people. 'Some people believe...' etc. They are educational and interesting, even for an atheist like me. This is a completely different approach to the trans centred books, which absolutely do NOT explain that some people believe this, just that they ARE what they say they are, which is demonstrably untrue and has no place in children's picture books/NF.

We have many well meaning, if naive, staff who are desperate to make sure that our stock is inclusive and diverse - unfortunately, this means they will sometimes buy/request wholly inappropriate stock without realising just how inaccurate, emotionally manipulative and downright dishonest these books are. it's extremely frustrating.