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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

International Women In Engineering Day

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Ingenieur · 25/06/2025 14:03

June 23rd was International Women In Engineering Day, celebrating the achievements of women in the traditionally male-dominted engineering industry.

Who knew that wearing a floppy hat was all it took?

International Women In Engineering Day
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Ingenieur · 25/06/2025 15:21

Greyskybluesky · 25/06/2025 15:18

I really don't understand why you started this thread @Ingenieur including the sarcastic comment "Who knew that wearing a floppy hat was all it took?" and are now uncomfortable with "transvestigation" and speculation.

What did you intend to achieve?

To highlight the "stolen valour" of men claiming the achievements of women.

It's not on the basis of his body, so it must be his hat.

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Greyskybluesky · 25/06/2025 15:23

OK, right 🙄

throwawaynametoday · 25/06/2025 15:26

It's especially frustrating to have Women in Engineering hijacked in this way because it is widely recognised that early educational barriers are major cause of the underrepresentation of women - barriers that would simply not have existed for male children.

DiamondThrone · 25/06/2025 15:29

throwawaynametoday · 25/06/2025 15:16

See, I think saying flat chested = man is really... off. And I don't think it furthers the GC / sex realist position.

It is very hard though when women have had to put up with so much blatant, aggressive trolling by men with penis bulges in plain sight, parading their "womanhood".

I hate the fact that women have been put in this position.

Indeed, "flat chested" does not mean male. But it's funny how many males think that gaining breasts = woman.

Flat chested + long arms + large hands + wide forehead + brow = man.

But we don't even need to deliniate it in those terms. We can just see it.

Look at the three of them cutting the actual women out of that grouping.

DiamondThrone · 25/06/2025 15:31

throwawaynametoday · 25/06/2025 15:26

It's especially frustrating to have Women in Engineering hijacked in this way because it is widely recognised that early educational barriers are major cause of the underrepresentation of women - barriers that would simply not have existed for male children.

Agreed. At a "Women in Anything" it would be exasperating enough. But at "Women In Engineering"? 🙄

throwawaynametoday · 25/06/2025 15:35

DiamondThrone · 25/06/2025 15:29

Indeed, "flat chested" does not mean male. But it's funny how many males think that gaining breasts = woman.

Flat chested + long arms + large hands + wide forehead + brow = man.

But we don't even need to deliniate it in those terms. We can just see it.

Look at the three of them cutting the actual women out of that grouping.

But we don't even need to deliniate it in those terms. We can just see it.

This is absolutely spot on, of course. But because we have been harassed and threatened and gaslight into having to deny the self-evidence of our own eyes and common sense, we end up with this kind of checklist, which plays straight into the hands of the "terfs are obsessed with the contents of people's underwear" TRAs.

throwawaynametoday · 25/06/2025 15:42

And it's even more infuriating knowing that women would have thrown themselves into supporting "Trans folk in Engineering" day. Because I've no doubt that both transmen and transwomen face real, significant challenges that are unique to them as a group. But they are not our challenges.

DiamondThrone · 25/06/2025 15:47

throwawaynametoday · 25/06/2025 15:42

And it's even more infuriating knowing that women would have thrown themselves into supporting "Trans folk in Engineering" day. Because I've no doubt that both transmen and transwomen face real, significant challenges that are unique to them as a group. But they are not our challenges.

Well, to be fair, transmen in STEM face the same challenges as we do. Because they are women.

But maybe they face more challenges as well, in that men don't see them as men.

DiamondThrone · 25/06/2025 15:49

Women have evolved a better sense of sex than men have, over the millenia. Because women face more danger from getting it wrong.

Duckyfondant · 25/06/2025 15:52

I don't blame the (2) trans women, I blame the people that chose the photo to publish for women in engineering day. Bastards.

Not sure why you have such a problem with that man's hat though.

throwawaynametoday · 25/06/2025 15:57

DiamondThrone · 25/06/2025 15:47

Well, to be fair, transmen in STEM face the same challenges as we do. Because they are women.

But maybe they face more challenges as well, in that men don't see them as men.

Yes, exactly. A transman should be equally welcomed in both woman's event or a trans event, because I would imagine that they would have faced unique challenges on both those fronts.

AlecTrevelyan006 · 25/06/2025 15:58

if you search #INWED25 on Twitter you'll see lots of pics and stories about real women in engineering. The interesting bit for me is - why aren't TRAs shouting at all these women and telling them that if they like doing manly jobs then they were obviously born in the wrong body?

Ingenieur · 25/06/2025 16:04

Duckyfondant · 25/06/2025 15:52

I don't blame the (2) trans women, I blame the people that chose the photo to publish for women in engineering day. Bastards.

Not sure why you have such a problem with that man's hat though.

Don't get me wrong, it's a nice hat. But it's an example of the superficial costume that men don to appropriate womanhood.

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DiamondThrone · 25/06/2025 16:11

If you're upset about "stolen valour", OP, then please could you link to, or upload, a better version of that photo.

Because I reckon three men are stealing female spaces, there.

PreFabBroadBean · 25/06/2025 16:13

Is this even a genuine photo? Where's the link to the original on the internet?

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PreFabBroadBean · 25/06/2025 17:04

Thank you.

Having seen the original, and Googled, I think it's clear that the person on the left is a woman, who went to a girls' school and achieved fantastic results (thank you, Linkedin). Women can be tall and do not have to have large breasts. It is totally inappropriate to speculate with no evidence, and I hope those that have done so ask to have their posts deleted.

That leads me to wonder whether the person in the hat is a transman, in which case it's totally appropriate that they appear here.

I'm GC, but come on, this thread is totally inappropriate without any evidence.

PreFabBroadBean · 25/06/2025 17:09

An article she's written on her experience as a woman in physics...
freyasgrant.medium.com/my-experience-as-a-woman-in-physics-344ebf440b43

Ingenieur · 25/06/2025 17:11

@PreFabBroadBean the engineer in the centre is not a trans identifying female.

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PreFabBroadBean · 25/06/2025 17:17

Yes, if you know, that's fair enough. It was the speculation about the woman in the photo that I found quite distasteful.

Ingenieur · 25/06/2025 17:26

@PreFabBroadBean yes, I agree.

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Coatsoff42 · 25/06/2025 17:31

Ingenieur · 25/06/2025 14:33

@Coatsoff42 they really do get in the way, don't they? I don't know how we do it.

The only barrier is what you wear, everyone knows that. If you just dress like a man, then all the problems with girls school education, the peer pressure to conform to stereotypes, the structure of further education, the quite aggressively competitive nature of research, the misogyny in the workplace, casual sexual harassment, maternity leave penalties, everything. It all goes away.

Or… you can just be a man dressed like a woman and then you understand the whole situation perfectly and you can speak about how you feel as a fellow skirt and hat wearer in engineering.

minnienono · 25/06/2025 17:34

Well at my DD’s work they got a lovely meal and their photos were taken for publicity, my dd as usual attempted to hide from the cameraman but he didn’t let her get away with it. They are all natal women doing a job which 13 years ago women weren’t allowed to do!

PrettyDamnCosmic · 25/06/2025 17:37

PreFabBroadBean · 25/06/2025 17:17

Yes, if you know, that's fair enough. It was the speculation about the woman in the photo that I found quite distasteful.

I have reported my post to MNHQ & asked that it be deleted.

I didn't actually speculate whether any of those in the photo were male although now I see how my comment has been misinterpreted it's better to remove it.

FuckedOffWithTheLotOfThem · 25/06/2025 17:55

throwawaynametoday · 25/06/2025 15:10

Situations like this make me really uncomfortable.

My first thought was that the person in the hat may well be transman, in which case they have every right to be represented under the Women in Engineering umbrella, although I might personally be surprised that they would want to be part of it at all.

My second thought was whether the taller person was a transwoman.

My third thought was to feel suddenly a bit ashamed of myself to be scrutinising people in this way and potentially labelling a female person as being masculine in appearance. Especially in a field where more women than average are likely to be ND and/or gender non-conforming.

My forth thought is that TRAs created this fucking mess in the first place, and if we lived in a world where no biological male would ever dream of inserting himself into an event that is clearly designed to celebrate biological females, then no one would be left peering at blurry photos and potentially mis-sexing someone, because it could be taken as given that any masculine presenting female is either a transman or GNC.

Thank you for posting this reply, you've summed up my feelings rather nicely. As a women (yes, a real one) and a chartered engineer with the IMechE (whose logo does indeed appear in the background), I hate these sorts of scenarios. I don't look too different to the lady on the far left: tall, not much in the boob department and long limbs. I would be ashamed and embarrassed if people were scrutinising my appearance to work out if I was actually a man. I've battled enough in my career to be taken seriously, and it fucks me off that these men can slap on a floppy hat and skirt and appropriate our spaces and then, to add insult to injury, cause suspicions to be rasied about the actual women who have every right to be there.

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