I felt sad seeing the negative coverage on Twitter around Cole's win. He took "best leading actor" therefore he's not stealing a prize from an actress..but I think a lot of people just saw man-in-a-dress and didn't read further.
I only very recently discovered Cole Escola and have been hoovering up his stuff on YouTube. He's talented and hilarious and not pretending to be a woman (though he impersonates them in his work).
As a gender criticical feminist I want to support men who are gender non conforming but who don't claim to be literal females.
I agree what the article suggests is ridiculous. The writer has his own agenda that has nothing to do with Cole's win.
(PS these comments aren't aimed at you OP, rather reflecting the knee jerk reaction on Twitter.)