I'm posting in this topic because I thought maybe there would be a more nuanced understanding of the issues and I feel a bit bruised. Maybe this isn't limited to women's health but the NHS does now seem to have a special antipathy for women and their bodies and opinions.
After a lifetime of gynaecologically uneventful health, since perimenopause I find gynae procedures physically very unpleasant with an added emotional dimension, it's almost like a phobia.
I had my biannual menopause clinic appointment on Monday and reported some post meno bleeding, was told I'd be "referred to the rapid access clinic". The clinician said she was not worried and didn't expect it to reveal anything sinister but it should be checked. In the past when I've had bleeding I've been referred for a transvaginal ultrasound and on the basis of the result they have sometimes referred me for a hysteroscopy, so expected a similar order of events.
I received a letter on Wednesday morning saying I'd been referrred for an outpatient hysteroscopy which would take place on Saturday morning, three days later.
I rang the number on the letter to ask if there would be an US first, told no, just the hysteroscopy. The person I spoke to was officious, borderline hostile. She said I must have been told about it, they have to discuss it with me fully when they make the referral etc. Told to ring a second number, reached a more pleasant and reasonable person who told me to email the clinic as that would be the quickest way to get to them. Emailed immediately explaining and requesting details about whether an US would be appropriate and if not I'd need to reschedule to have the hysteroscopy under GA. No reply yet.
As the procedure is scheduled for tomorrow I rang this morning to say again that I need to change the appointment, spoke to the same rude woman as before who talked over me and said someone would have discussed it with me and I'd be getting a local (she kept saying it, "It's a local, a local") not a general ananesthetic. (How to reply to that? If I'd known I was being referred for an outpatient hysteroscopy the first thing I'd have said is that I get a GA for them, why would I wait to get the letter and then try to change it?) When I explained I'd like a GA for this procedure she said she'd cancel it and as I thanked her she put the phone down on me.
How can they say they seek informed consent? Under these circumstances how can I better advocate for myself? It's not one thing, it's the combination of never seeing the same person, faceless bureaucracy, no useful way to contact anyone, a hostile/adversarial attitude telegraphing the idea that you should be grateful for any appointment whether it's in three days or eight months. I feel bad for the rude woman I spoke to who must find her own job very unpleasant.