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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Missing children posters - sex and gender

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MotherEarthisaTerf · 14/05/2025 22:20

These are thoughts I’ve mostly kept to myself because I have honestly no idea what should be done. But in our very sleepy county I’ve seen at least 3 missing children posters in the past couple of years shared by police. And it’s almost impossible to know who to look out for.

The last time I saw a missing poster for a child, it was of a teenager with a female name, a boys hair cut and an androgynous face. Described as wearing tracksuit and hoodie. No pronouns used throughout the poster.

Obviously, these children are extremely vulnerable and I doubt that a poster advertising “female teenager identifying as a boy currently in hiding” will help resolve any mental issues and make them want to come back to authority quickly.

I looked at the poster for a good 5 minutes trying to understand. Was this a boy identifying as a girl? Possibly. My awareness advised me I could guess they were a girl, identifying as non binary.

But the general public don’t have the capacity to study and rationalise.

I walked past a teenage boy yesterday, on reflection did they look like this?

A girl with short hair came into the corner shop I was in, I think it might have been her?

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Chick981 · 27/05/2025 20:48

It’s quite simple OP. Have you seen the person in the photo? Do you have information which could help police? If not then move on and get on with your day. If yes, call police and then get on with your day.

ButterflyHatched · 27/05/2025 21:04

MotherEarthisaTerf · 14/05/2025 22:20

These are thoughts I’ve mostly kept to myself because I have honestly no idea what should be done. But in our very sleepy county I’ve seen at least 3 missing children posters in the past couple of years shared by police. And it’s almost impossible to know who to look out for.

The last time I saw a missing poster for a child, it was of a teenager with a female name, a boys hair cut and an androgynous face. Described as wearing tracksuit and hoodie. No pronouns used throughout the poster.

Obviously, these children are extremely vulnerable and I doubt that a poster advertising “female teenager identifying as a boy currently in hiding” will help resolve any mental issues and make them want to come back to authority quickly.

I looked at the poster for a good 5 minutes trying to understand. Was this a boy identifying as a girl? Possibly. My awareness advised me I could guess they were a girl, identifying as non binary.

But the general public don’t have the capacity to study and rationalise.

I walked past a teenage boy yesterday, on reflection did they look like this?

A girl with short hair came into the corner shop I was in, I think it might have been her?

We had one of these a few years back where the family went out of their way to misgender the missing person, referring to them by their deadname constantly despite this having been a stable trans identity for years. It was extremely confusing and really quite disturbing to see, especially when combined with the obvious distress it was causing to their school friends.

Even worse was the family's later insistence in putting up memorial posts in their deadname. It was like they were trying to pretend their loved one's transition had never happened. One of their mates wrote a deeply personal sealed goodbye letter to his friend and placed it on the memorial - the family opened it, stole and destroyed it and then started hurling abuse at him for having the temerity to respect his friend's memory in the way they would have wanted.

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