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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Shelagh Fogarty right now!

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skippy67 · 20/03/2025 14:16

Discussion about the need for public bodies to understand the difference between sex and gender. If you missed the first 15 mins, listen on catch up. She absolutely nails it

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BoreOfWhabylon · 21/03/2025 19:53

Thing is, Shelagh's done the research. She knows whereof she speaks.

Greyskybluesky · 23/03/2025 10:07

Just wanted to thank @skippy67 for posting this. I've just listened and thought it was great! Shelagh is really articulate and takes no shit. Loved the way she wasn't afraid to say what she thinks ("I don't think you should be using women's toilets, no") and is allowed to say it on air (hello, BBC?)

If I hadn't known this was a live unscripted show I would have thought it was a set-up to make TRAs look bad. The presenter and all the female sex-realist callers were sharp with coherent points and arguments. The trans callers were rambling, illogical and often incoherent.

Alex mangled the language and couldn't explain himself. Fred contradicted himself without even realising. I'm not even going to comment on Sarah. And none of them had the first clue about the study.

My only complaint is that it was too short. Could have listened to more from Shelagh.

UptonFunk · 23/03/2025 10:18

Lottapianos · 20/03/2025 14:58

Not for the first time, the difference between the female callers and the trans callers is NIGHT AND DAY. The female callers talk passionately in full sentences about reality and biology and sanity, the trans callers are either aggressive and defensive, or have difficulty putting a sentence together and cannot think on their feet.

Strangely reminiscent of my life at home with 2 autistic males… who would have thought?

Greyskybluesky · 23/03/2025 12:00

@Datun said: And who was the one who said female refers to biological sex, but woman refers to gender?
Apart from the ridiculous result that now there is no longer a term for an adult human female, it's also going to be evident that the word woman is now in the purview of men.

Yes, that sprang out at me. The caller says "man" and "woman" are not biological words. So the word "woman" is a social construct and therefore anyone can claim it.

For those who didn't hear the programme, below is a transcript of Shelagh's conversation with that particular caller. It is clear (and sadly amusing) that he ties himself in knots with his own rules of when to use "man" and when to use "male", or "woman" and "female".

Alex from Bournemouth (AB): I believe that trans people are aware, the majority trans people I’ve spoken to and from people that I’ve spoken to in the community, trans people are aware that they can’t change their biological sex. That is currently not something we can do with our current science and our current evolution. They can change their gender because they’re social and cultural aspects. Er…

Shelagh Fogarty (SF): Well it’s entirely social isn’t it.

AB: Yeah, it’s social but, like, those social constructs can be built around cultures, so different cultures have different genders, even in modern day there are various nations that do have more than 2 genders, some that conform to non-binary genders, some that conform to multiple genders at the same time, so I don’t see the correlation between that and this data. I think the problem is societal pressure has put public bodies on the back foot of trying to negotiate, like, this whole if you’re a woman you’re a woman you can’t change that, which because it’s a social construct is just not true. It’s based on phenotypical traits that can be modified, that can be changed.

SF: Sorry, what’s not true?

AB: Er that, like, erm, a man can’t, sorry, a biological male can’t be a woman? Or a biological female can’t become a man.

SF: Biologically they can’t. Socially they can.

AB: No no no, because biologically, man and woman is not biological. It is social. So, talking about biological men isn’t a thing because they’re two separate entities. As we’ve agreed, man and woman can be social.

SF: Can I use male and female, alright well let’s do that for the purposes of this conversation.

AB: Yeah yeah, because as I said transgender people are aware… a transgender woman will understand if she is biologically male she will also go in for, like, prostate cancer screenings, like, she will go in for all these other things that she will need for her body.

SF: But Professor Sullivan found that they were missing out, some trans people were missing out on those things not because they, not because they are confused but because the organisation that should be offering them tests, for example, isn’t, because it has recorded them merely under the title of their gender, which if it’s their gender is female it is recorded as female when they are biologically male, then that puts the trans person at a disadvantage in the health… well, it does.

AB: Yeeeah, well my response to that would be then that the public bodies are doing it incorrect they are using female, er sorry, they are using woman as a gender which it wouldn’t be, female is also not a gender it’s a sex so that’s where the confusion comes from and that again is part of societal pressure pushing it on sort of like these anti-trans sort of movements.

SF: So what should they say? Because my understanding is that if you’re asked about your gender in an NHS list or police or whatever you say male or female.

AB: Well yeah, that’s what I’m saying, there’s a problem with the public bodies by saying male or female.

SF: What should they say?

AB: Er, your gender should be man or woman unless you’re a child in which case it should be boy or girl depending on what you identify as.

SF: OK, slow down, slooow down, slow down, slow down. If a police officer or a doctor or a nurse taking information from me says Shelagh what’s your biological sex I would say female. If they said what’s your gender I’d say, muh I suppose female. Because I don’t really think about my gender because I’m happy with my biological sex, if you see what I mean. I don’t need another description of myself. But if I said my biological sex is female but I identify as a transman then there are examples where they’re putting me down as male.

AB: Yeah so that’s what I’m saying, the public bodies are wrong in that regard. I believe like for birth certificates for example you can’t change your sex on there but you can change your gender which is part of gender affirming care in legal areas and social areas.

SF: Retrospectively.

AB: Yeah, so this is a problem with the public bodies, like, not sort of like separating the two, er…

SF: Well, that is precisely what the report is saying. It’s saying that the public bodies is wrongly conflating sex and gender and that is putting both transpeople at risk and women at risk. Biological females at risk, to … I don’t know what to call them after that conversation with Alex. Women, females, biological females, phenomes or whatever that word was, phenotypes, I don’t know any more. Oh dear me.

Datun · 28/03/2025 11:51

Greyskybluesky · 23/03/2025 12:00

@Datun said: And who was the one who said female refers to biological sex, but woman refers to gender?
Apart from the ridiculous result that now there is no longer a term for an adult human female, it's also going to be evident that the word woman is now in the purview of men.

Yes, that sprang out at me. The caller says "man" and "woman" are not biological words. So the word "woman" is a social construct and therefore anyone can claim it.

For those who didn't hear the programme, below is a transcript of Shelagh's conversation with that particular caller. It is clear (and sadly amusing) that he ties himself in knots with his own rules of when to use "man" and when to use "male", or "woman" and "female".

Alex from Bournemouth (AB): I believe that trans people are aware, the majority trans people I’ve spoken to and from people that I’ve spoken to in the community, trans people are aware that they can’t change their biological sex. That is currently not something we can do with our current science and our current evolution. They can change their gender because they’re social and cultural aspects. Er…

Shelagh Fogarty (SF): Well it’s entirely social isn’t it.

AB: Yeah, it’s social but, like, those social constructs can be built around cultures, so different cultures have different genders, even in modern day there are various nations that do have more than 2 genders, some that conform to non-binary genders, some that conform to multiple genders at the same time, so I don’t see the correlation between that and this data. I think the problem is societal pressure has put public bodies on the back foot of trying to negotiate, like, this whole if you’re a woman you’re a woman you can’t change that, which because it’s a social construct is just not true. It’s based on phenotypical traits that can be modified, that can be changed.

SF: Sorry, what’s not true?

AB: Er that, like, erm, a man can’t, sorry, a biological male can’t be a woman? Or a biological female can’t become a man.

SF: Biologically they can’t. Socially they can.

AB: No no no, because biologically, man and woman is not biological. It is social. So, talking about biological men isn’t a thing because they’re two separate entities. As we’ve agreed, man and woman can be social.

SF: Can I use male and female, alright well let’s do that for the purposes of this conversation.

AB: Yeah yeah, because as I said transgender people are aware… a transgender woman will understand if she is biologically male she will also go in for, like, prostate cancer screenings, like, she will go in for all these other things that she will need for her body.

SF: But Professor Sullivan found that they were missing out, some trans people were missing out on those things not because they, not because they are confused but because the organisation that should be offering them tests, for example, isn’t, because it has recorded them merely under the title of their gender, which if it’s their gender is female it is recorded as female when they are biologically male, then that puts the trans person at a disadvantage in the health… well, it does.

AB: Yeeeah, well my response to that would be then that the public bodies are doing it incorrect they are using female, er sorry, they are using woman as a gender which it wouldn’t be, female is also not a gender it’s a sex so that’s where the confusion comes from and that again is part of societal pressure pushing it on sort of like these anti-trans sort of movements.

SF: So what should they say? Because my understanding is that if you’re asked about your gender in an NHS list or police or whatever you say male or female.

AB: Well yeah, that’s what I’m saying, there’s a problem with the public bodies by saying male or female.

SF: What should they say?

AB: Er, your gender should be man or woman unless you’re a child in which case it should be boy or girl depending on what you identify as.

SF: OK, slow down, slooow down, slow down, slow down. If a police officer or a doctor or a nurse taking information from me says Shelagh what’s your biological sex I would say female. If they said what’s your gender I’d say, muh I suppose female. Because I don’t really think about my gender because I’m happy with my biological sex, if you see what I mean. I don’t need another description of myself. But if I said my biological sex is female but I identify as a transman then there are examples where they’re putting me down as male.

AB: Yeah so that’s what I’m saying, the public bodies are wrong in that regard. I believe like for birth certificates for example you can’t change your sex on there but you can change your gender which is part of gender affirming care in legal areas and social areas.

SF: Retrospectively.

AB: Yeah, so this is a problem with the public bodies, like, not sort of like separating the two, er…

SF: Well, that is precisely what the report is saying. It’s saying that the public bodies is wrongly conflating sex and gender and that is putting both transpeople at risk and women at risk. Biological females at risk, to … I don’t know what to call them after that conversation with Alex. Women, females, biological females, phenomes or whatever that word was, phenotypes, I don’t know any more. Oh dear me.

Yes. It's all smoke and mirrors.

Apart from anything else woman IS a biological term. It's an adult human female. But, if you wanted to change that to mean clothes and make up, you'd still have to have a word for an adult human female.

And, of course, as soon as you start to differentiate between transwomen and women by using the word female, they'll want that.

Many TRAs call themselves female already.

But yes, he can't talk about men and women being social constructs, when he needs the term to refer to a biological group in order to appropriate it!

MarieDeGournay · 28/03/2025 12:08

I like Shelagh Fogarty's style of playing the TRAs with a straight bat, if you get my drift... just roll what they've just said back down the pitch at them, with studied ease so it's obvious to the spectators that their delivery had neither spin, speed, nor length enough to trouble the batter...

Here's the ball back, old chap, have another go😏

I once hear SF years ago on Radio5 jokingly warning her co-presenter not to get funny with her, as she had grown up with 5 brothers and would give him a chinese burn if he said anything sexist😀
I don't hear her these days, but obviously she has kept her standards up!

SinnerBoy · 28/03/2025 12:11

Well, that was utterly incoherent, I'm not surprised that Shelagh was confused!

Greyskybluesky · 28/03/2025 12:36

She was great! I wish I'd had time to transcribe the other trans callers because they were just as incoherent illuminating in their own special way, not least well-known TRA Freda. Shelagh zapping his claptrap when he veered off on a tangent about Trump was a sound to behold.

I've never listened to LBC before but I would listen to her again, she is so sharp on this issue.

Datun · 28/03/2025 12:44

AB: Yeah so that’s what I’m saying, the public bodies are wrong in that regard. I believe like for birth certificates for example you can’t change your sex on there but you can change your gender which is part of gender affirming care in legal areas and social areas.

Clap trap. You do change your sex. That's what the bloody F is 😁

Is he really advocating that it should say M, and then in brackets 'woman gender'?

Doubt it

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