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'When it's your kids hitting you, you can't leave'

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IwantToRetire · 17/03/2025 19:13

Parents and guardians who have suffered violence at the hands of children in their care say support services are a "postcode lottery". Despite a seeming rise in attacks, alongside greater awareness, experts agree the problem is not being properly addressed.

Experts say child-to-parent violence and abuse (sometimes known as CAPVA, CPA or APVA) can be sparked by childhood trauma or a youngster witnessing domestic abuse in the home.

It can also be more common in families with neurodiverse children.
Because there is no standard definition for this type of domestic violence, offences are recorded in different ways across the country meaning it can be difficult to measure the scale of the problem.

We asked 39 police forces in England for the number of reported crimes involving adolescent or child on parent violence and abuse in their areas in 2015, 2019 and 2023.

More including charts etc., in article https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cy7gz3xdelno

A woman with a clipboard sits in front of a child covering their face with a cuddly toy and another adult. Both adults are looking at the child with some concern (posed by models)

Child violence against parents: Victims plead for support

One couple's story of violence in the home mirrors seemingly growing problems nationally.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cy7gz3xdelno

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ArabellaScott · 17/03/2025 19:28

A very under reported issue. Frightening that it's rising.

KnottyAuty · 17/03/2025 20:26

Rising or just better recorded? Massive problem

IwantToRetire · 17/03/2025 21:42

With only the info from the article it looks like they are comparing 2019 to 2023.

Also I wondered if there should be a differentiation from violence towards parents (broken down into sex of both child and parents) and Guardians.

Not sure if some of this is in the Femicide Census.

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IwantToRetire · 08/04/2025 02:41

Until the age of 12, Harry's parents say he was a "wonderful" son. But they saw a change in his personality, which they believe was sparked by an incident when he was hit by a girl. Soon, he developed an online interest in masculine power and control.
https://news.sky.com/story/parents-of-boy-whose-outbursts-left-them-fearing-for-their-lives-say-adolescence-touched-a-nerve-13341108

Another recent story of a boy stabbing a girl is said it was prompted by "shame" as she hit him with a teddy bear(?) in public.

Parents of boy whose outbursts left them fearing for their lives say Adolescence 'touched a nerve'

"My worst fear is that he's going to end up killing one of us," says the mother of a teenage boy who was attacked so badly one time that she ended up in hospital. "If not us, then somebody else..."

https://news.sky.com/story/parents-of-boy-whose-outbursts-left-them-fearing-for-their-lives-say-adolescence-touched-a-nerve-13341108

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