I know discussion has moved on, and you've commented a few more times, but I just wanted to address this.
No one is in any doubt that some men are very vulnerable in prison. Gay men, old men, disabled man, paedophiles, sex offenders, etc.
Which is why there is a vulnerable prisoners unit.
Acknowledging and accommodating vulnerable male prisoners is necessary and laudable.
It just often feels rather blind to think that vulnerable women should be the resource utilised to do it.
And it seems to be a bit of a theme.
Women's sport should be decimated so mediocre men can succeed. Women's changing rooms and loos should be used as validation for men (for a number of reasons, including fetishism.) Because, as we all know, it's not the room, it's the women in it who provide the validation. Their presence is crucial.
and of course it goes on. Reducing words like mother, infiltrating breastfeeding groups, the WI - anything to do with women. It's women who are being used here.
women, just like anyone else (!) can understand and emphasise with the vulnerability of some men.
But the wholesale demand that women, individually, and as a class, be disadvantaged and consistently made more vulnerable in order to used as a balm for a handful of men, is getting a little tired.